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I saw a hot search on the Internet: 'We don't need April Fool's Day, because in the adult world, every day is April Fool's Day.' “
We always tell white lies to the people we love, we never mention our experiences, we just want them to be happy.
After all, we can give too little, at least carry the pain and pressure on our own, which is the only thing we can do for them.
1. You eat, mom is not hungry
When we were young, in our eyes, our parents were like superhuman beings, because they were always omnipotent.
Dad would bring us the long-awaited toys, and Mom was a magic chef who could make anything delicious.
It's just that they never seem to get tired. They always have a lot of energy to accompany us, but they don't think about what they really need.
When eating fish, they will eat fish heads exclusively, they say that fish meat they don't like to eat, fish heads are delicious, into the taste. But he never let me touch it.
When buying clothes, they always say that their clothes can still be worn, sewing and mending for another three years, they don't want anything, and it is good to buy my clothes.
When we were kids, we really thought these things were true. It wasn't until we grew up, when we were fathers and mothers, that we knew that it was all lies.
Dad also likes to eat, and Mom wants a new dress. They just gave us everything they could give.
Because they not only brought us to this colorful world, they also filled our childhood life with their own love.
2. I'm fine outside
Every year on holidays and birthdays, we always habitually buy a few gifts for them, because when we go out, there is very little we can do.
Occasional phone calls, good news and no worries have become the norm, which is something that many adults who have left home to work have become accustomed to.
A friend I once knew, who had been working outside for many years, always talked to my parents about today's interesting things every night on the phone.
He said that the leader of the unit gave himself a salary increase, he said that he ate something very delicious today, and he said that he saw a very interesting scenery today.
However, the reality is that none of this happened. He just wanted his parents who were far away from home to rest assured. He alone can take care of himself.
Why did the original TV series "I'm Fine in Other Places" resonate with so many people? Because it's really real.
We have all experienced moving to find a house, and we have also experienced being deceived, and we have also experienced the experience of knowing that we are sad and have to pull out a smiley face to deal with work.
Everyone is saying, 'I'm fine in another country,' but in fact, the hardships and bittersweetness of the hardships are something that only they understand.
3. When these two days are over, I will go to see you
I remembered a documentary about a left-behind child that I watched some time ago. The child who stayed deep in the mountains waited every day at the entrance of the village for his parents to return.
His parents, who went out to work when he was very young, would go home for a week during the Spring Festival every year.
Therefore, the boy has been looking forward to the New Year, not expecting his parents to bring back any new toys and new clothes for him, but just hoping that they will come back.
And he's not the only one. In many remote places, there are many left-behind children who have to take care of their grandparents and take care of everything themselves.
Parents always say, "When I'm done with this time, I'll compensate you, and I'll go back to see you." "But they're never done.
There are always people who are always on the road and have to go back halfway. This is the pressure of life, they can give too little, but they can only bow to life.
Although there is a debt, only in this way can you let your children live a good life. Only in this way can they support their small families.
4. I know that someone is worried about me
A lot of times, we're lying. And parents, and lovers, and friends, and children, big and small, too much to list.
However, behind those lies, not all are malicious. More often, it is the helplessness of life.
People always say that life is like a game. Then my life was like God turning on Hardmode.
Life goes on every day, but we are obviously powerless, but we have to grit our teeth and carry it.
The only thing that can be left for those who love us is: "I am all right, please rest assured, take care of yourself." “
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.