I don't have that impulse to love anymore.

Don't lose the ability to love people.

I chatted with my friends that day about my relationship.

She sighed and said:

"It seems that the longer you have been single, the less you have the desire to fall in love."

Although he often clamors for sweet love, in fact, he never really takes the initiative to take the first step, and even to meet new people feel troublesome and do not want to move.

I don't want to expand my dating circle, and the opposite sex I already know around me is too lazy to take the initiative to chat and contact.

Knowing someone before, I would like to say hello to him, get to know each other, and see if it is possible to develop further.

Now to know a person, do not need to contact too much, a few words, a few rounds, you can know that the other party and their own is not the same person, so as to taste the end.

I used to think that when I grew up and matured, I could be very comfortable, very brave to face and pursue love, dare to love and dare to hate.

It is now found that the older people grow up, the more timid and cowardly they become.

There is no such thing as the previous freedom from love, and most of the time, it is either impossible to take or put down.

Even if you like someone again, you don't dare to start easily.

Always cautiously tempting, looking forward and backward, while trying to fight for love, while restraining love from opening up.

Hesitating back and forth, waiting and waiting, the initial impulse passed.

Maybe it's because love is too fragile now.

Those who have threatened to accompany you throughout your life are always gone halfway through.

Those who once walked into marriage arm in arm together, love and love will disperse.

Love in years cannot withstand the test of time after all.

In the movie "Bouquet of Love", the male and female protagonists have been together for five years, and when they fell in love, they were also vigorous and unforgettable.

However, people who start out without saying anything later become strangers who have nothing to say.

In "I Want Us together", Lu Qinyang and Ling Yiyao have been in love since they were students.

No matter how his family objected, Ling Yiyao still ignored Lu Qinyang and accompanied him to live in a rental house, live on a construction site, rough tea and light meals, three meals a day.

But later, before Lu Qinyang returned from abroad, Ling Yiyao put on a wedding dress and married someone else.

At that wedding, there were flowers, arches, relatives and friends, but Lu Qinyang was missing.

"I used to think liking was a great thing.

Can cross the mountains, can be mountains and seas can be flat.

Later, I realized that it wasn't, it couldn't even make you happy. ”

I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but I did not think that the bias that brought regrets was also love.

Love is fragile and difficult, but we can't give it up.

At any time, love is something worth pursuing, exploring, and experiencing.

The process of chasing true love along the way may not be smooth and always stumble, but it is precisely because of this that two people who can meet and love each other are more precious and rare.

Qian Zhongshu and Yang Dai have loved each other for decades, from young onions to white hair, and when recalling the past, Qian Zhongshu still said that marrying Yang Dai was the last thing he regretted in his life.

In "Dear, Don't Cross That River", grandparents have been together since they were teenagers, and they have not left each other until they are old, before death separates them.

Last year's popular song "Mohe Ballroom", the protagonist Zhang Dequan, he and his wife Kang fell in love at first sight.

After Kang's accidental death due to a fire, Zhang Dequan has been alone and has not remarried for thirty years.

He would go to the Mohe Ballroom every night and dance alone the waltz that his wife had danced with him before he died.

In the distant and cold desert river, he obsessively guarded a person's heaven and earth.

There is no shortage of true love in the world, as long as we pursue it with our hearts.

There is always a person in the sea of people, waiting for you to discover.

Da Zhang Wei once said:

"People who don't refuse love are braver, because many people endure loneliness, but they can't pursue love."

Deeply.

Being single is not terrible, after being injured, the wounds will heal, and the terrible thing is to truly lose the ability and courage to love and be loved.

That is equivalent to closing the window of love for yourself, erecting a high wall around yourself, not allowing others to come in, and you can't get out.

There is really nothing to be afraid of, love, failure and injury are inevitable.

But if you refuse to love because you are afraid, you will not even have the chance to fail and be hurt.

So, be brave enough to love.

The road ahead is long, and we all need someone to be our companion.

For the rest of our lives, we all need someone to warm up to each other.

Love the right person, love will actually be very sweet, no sadness.

Be bold and try it, love it with your heart, okay?

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Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.