The four seasons are hurried, and the flow of years is like water.
We are all waiting, meeting one person, choosing a city, and then working together to the end of life. I have always believed that people who have a relationship will eventually meet.
Plato said: "In this crippled world, everyone falls from heaven, and when one day there is a person's beauty that can awaken your memories in heaven, that is, your true love." ”
Yes, there should be only two lucky times in life, one is to meet you, and the other is to meet you until the end of life.
I remember that when Jia Baoyu first met Lin Daiyu in "Dream of the Red Chamber", the first sentence he said at the beginning was: "This sister, we seem to have seen it somewhere." ”
It is precisely because of this encounter that the fate of the two people is doomed. It's just that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are unfortunate again. They were only lucky enough to meet, but in the end they were not able to get to the end. From this we can know the preciousness of the encounter.
I remember Dong Qing said: "In a certain sense, everything in the world is encountered, just like cold meets warmth, there is rain: spring meets winter, there are years, heaven meets earth, and there is eternity." Man meets man, and he has life. ”
In a lifetime, the most beautiful fate is to meet. Especially when I meet someone who has never left, it is extremely fortunate.
Because many people, just like Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, just met, but did not go to the end. Some people just accompanied us for a while.
I remember reading such a book, "The Pampered Bear". This book I prefer to describe as a story of encounters, the author also wants to tell us through different encounters again and again what is love and what life is.
The book goes something like this, where the little girl Mary Rose bought a beloved teddy bear for sixpence. They began to be inseparable until one day she accidentally lost her teddy bear on the train.
So an encounter begins here, he first experienced the forgetting on the train, being sold off, being kicked as a ball, being recycled, being repaired, being collected, being recovered... He changed hands several times, sometimes he was pampered, but more often he was ignored.
But the little bear never gave up the light in his heart, and he would encourage himself over and over again: "Someone will come to pick me up." In the end he was lucky to be reunited with his first little master, Mary, and never to be separated again.
If you think about it, our life is actually like this little bear, always meeting continuously, but one day we will meet a person and then go on.
It's just that this little bear's encounter is a reunion, and our meeting is a new beginning, but no matter what kind of encounter, as long as we can always be together in the end, we are lucky.
Suddenly, I thought of the sentence: "All encounters have meaning." ”
Sooner or later, we will meet. Encounter is like a flower blossoming and falling, it is a natural law, even if no one appreciates it, it will still bloom. Even if someone takes care of him all the time, he will still wither yellow.
And all of this is regular, in other words, in our lives, we will eventually meet, because time is always moving forward.
It's just that more often than not, meeting a person requires us to do it ourselves, so we will feel how illusory this kind of thing is, but how realistic it is.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that we must learn to cherish, because meeting may depend on Providence, after all, the sea of people is vast, and people who pass by are everywhere, why we have met, and know and love each other.
It's just that after the encounter, more often, it is not providence to see, but human will. Fate gives us the opportunity to meet. But it won't give us the answer.
Two people who have the opportunity to meet, the final answer is written by themselves, so we will say that there are two lucky times in life, one is to meet you, and the other is to go to the end.
Because some people come just so that we can learn how to cherish, be kind and grateful. Only with these can we know the true meaning of encounters. The luck after the encounter does not depend on Providence, but only on ourselves.
So no matter what the result is, we must learn to cherish the encounter, so that we can be lucky to meet a person and walk through this life.
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