"The baby has obviously learned to excrete himself, why does he suddenly wet his pants?" Does this mean that the child's growth process will really go backwards? "This is something that every parent has to know.
libido symptoms
When the baby's desire period comes, if you learn to take off your pants and defecate, you will repeatedly have symptoms such as holding urine, holding urine, defecation, and defecation. During the period, by contracting and relaxing the sphincters of the canal and urethra, children can acquire sexual experiences. Therefore, some children get sexual pleasure by holding urine, and some children get sexual pleasure by holding urine, but not all children have obvious symptoms of desire.
Duration of the period
The child's desire period generally passes after two months, which refers to the child's sexual psychology entering the next stage, that is, the reproductive organ stage. During these two months, adults have been rigorously trained in their children's excretion and excretion, which will make them feel nervous and mentally stressed, which will affect their urination rhythm, allow them to excrete more often in the urine, resulting in prolonged desire period. Some children stagnate their sexual development when the period is not completed after several months or six months.
How to cope with the period
Accept and respect the manifestations of the period in children
sex period is a necessary period for children's psychological and physical development, we must respect the child's development, never wet the child's urine pants, nor can you talk about it in front of the child. When treating children's period, family members should adopt the same attitude so as not to cause anxiety in children, thereby prolonging this period.
Don't bother your baby while he's holding back urine.
If you find that the baby is holding urine and, do not carry the baby to the toilet, and do not press him in the toilet, which will affect the baby's normal life.
Don't think of your baby's change in stool rhythm as constipation.
If the baby's bowel rhythm has changed, parents can not simply think that it is constipation, but to use Kaiselu to alleviate, because fear and pain will affect the child's bowel movements, so that the child has a sense of fear and pain of defecation, so that the child can suppress his bowel movements for a long time, resulting in severe constipation.
If the child's stool law changes, then do not let the child eat Chinese medicine, eat a lot of vegetables and fruits, which will not only not improve the child's desire period, but also let the child have an unhealthy symptom, which will cause adverse effects on their own body.
Calmly treat children peeing their pants
When a child pees on his pants, calmly and gently say to him, "Honey, it's okay, I'll change you into a new pair of pants." Parents can't say useless nonsense, such as: "Honey, remember to go to the toilet next time." "Parents can't be too eager, but also pretend to be calm, because they can see through the minds of adults and know that they can't accept their current situation."
Many parents have lost their nature to accept their children when dealing with their children, they want their children to "excrete", rather than comparing themselves with their children, if their children urinate, then they will feel ashamed and thus put pressure on their children. In this case, parents cannot accept the child's desire period.
When a mother says to her, "Go to the bathroom next time," she puts a lot of stress on her child. If your child wets his pants regularly, he can use diapers to relieve his nervousness.
Don't humiliate, laugh, scold, intimidate children
Adults can't say to their children, "You're all this age and you're still peeing!" "Why don't you go to the bathroom?!" "How are you so stupid?" "Why are you doing this?"
Scolding and insulting not only cannot change their nature, but also makes them inferior, which affects their self-esteem.
Help children adapt to new environments and reduce stress
Children's moving, changing kindergartens, parent-child relationship is not harmonious, parent-child relationship is indifferent, changing nannies, mothers re-fertilize, children's functional degradation after illness, etc., may cause abnormal urination of children, parents need to examine the child's living environment, and do not focus on solving the problem on the child's defecation. Parents can take their children to the supermarket to buy their favorite urinals and put their favorite toys next to the bedpan, which is better than using violence and coercion.
Parents should take the initiative to communicate with teachers
If the child has symptoms of desire period, parents should communicate with the kindergarten teacher in time and let them successfully pass this period with the assistance of the teacher. If you don't have the help of a teacher, you can send your child out of kindergarten, and when the desire period has passed, you can go to kindergarten.
Parents should understand the baby's desire period, let the child defecate on his own, and cannot force the child to abide by the teacher's defecation rules, for example: can not defecate before napping, can not defecate after going to bed, can not defecate in class, so that the child can successfully pass the desire period.
Don't bother your child learning to poop
When children study their own feces, parents can tell them that there are a lot of bacteria in their feces that they can't touch with their hands, otherwise they will get sick, help them wash their hands in the toilet, and can't blame them with "shyness" and "dirty".