For the growth of a child, the child's growth path is curved. Although a lifetime is short, the path of growth may be a lifetime.
As children grow, a variety of problems come to them.
As the guardians of their children, moms and dads shoulder heavy responsibilities on this road.
Parents should always pay attention to the growth and changes of their children, for example, many children may have the quirk of desire period, and parents must endure no matter how difficult it is.
The baby's desire period quirk, parents have to endure no matter how difficult it is, and the wrong disposal will leave a shadow for the child
Many children experience a period when they are 2 to 4 years old. At this stage, the child may have a bowel movement. Moms and dads should exercise their children's ability to go to the toilet when their children are one or two years old.
However, the child is not obedient, does not urinate on time, but instead defecates on the pants, then the parents must not move rough. The words of parents scolding their children will cause psychological shadows for their children.
What exactly will happen to the child?
In fact, when the child goes to the toilet slowly, the disease factor is excluded, that is, the baby is experiencing the desire period.
When the child is, the child actually learns how to control defecation through this process.
Mom and Dad don't worry. If in this process, parents urge the child or scold the child, the child will be afraid to go to the toilet, the heart is anxious, the child can not learn how to control the defecation, so that the defecation will be left on the pants more frequently.
The child will have a fear psychology, and the child will have the phenomenon of holding urine. In this way, the child's body will appear more or less diseased.
The child's organs are in the growth stage, so parents should respect the changes in the child's body, do parents know?
In the face of the baby's desire period, what should parents do
According to the above content, then in the face of the child's desire period, parents must be very confused, in case of encountering the child's desire period, what should parents do?
Here are a few suggestions for parents and hope to give parents who are new parents a little help.
First, respect the desire period that the child is experiencing, and do not take the child's desire period as a talking point
Moms and Dads should know that the sex period is a normal phenomenon. Don't make loud noises when your child goes to the toilet, don't make loud urges. Moms and Dads have to be patient.
If the child gets his pants dirty, mom and dad don't get angry, mom and dad know that this is the child mastering the skill of urinating and urinating on their own, and mom and dad should give the child a little patience.
If the parents beat the child and scold the child, and the parent laughs at the child, the child will leave a psychological shadow, resulting in the child's desire period time being prolonged.
Second, face the child's desire period and face it calmly with the child
Parents face the child's desire period without hurry or panic, and calmly face this period of the child. Prepare a few pairs of clean pants for your child.
When the child's pants are dirty, parents should comfort the child, help the child to change into clean pants, do not blame, because the sex period of the child they can not control their own defecation.
Therefore, it is useless for parents to say more, and all parents should do is to help their children change their clothes and tell their children that this is normal. The child's sex period will eventually pass one day. Mom and Dad don't worry.
Third, in the face of the child's desire period, parents should not treat it as a disease
When they are young, parents do not understand anything, may treat the baby's desire period as a disease, parents may give the child medicine, the child will have fear.
Children may mention the toilet, will think of going to the toilet to take medicine, many children are very afraid to take medicine, so children will have psychological fear.
Your child will have serious psychological problems. So in the face of such a thing, parents only need respect and patience.