Your baby's sex behavior is disgusting? It is very important for my mother to endure no matter how uncomfortable she is

I don't know if everyone has a moment, think that their baby is simply from the "planet of Cang"?

Obviously Bought "baby toilet" and "toilet ladder", but did not go to the toilet to pull up;

The baby suddenly held his small face red, walked in and smelled to know that there was a lump of in his pants;

In the past, I could talk about defecation, but now I can't move to pull and pee in my pants, and I can't say or listen, and I can't teach.

There are "People of the Planet", I believe that many mothers will want to cry without tears, why does the baby who looks so pure and lovely will make people collapse without a word?

In fact, this is likely to be the baby is experiencing a very special period in life - desire period, in the face of some unsightly scenes and tastes, we have to endure even nausea, desire period is really important for the healthy growth of the baby.

What is the period?

Similar to the oral desire period, the desire period is also an important stage in the baby's growth process, most of which occur around the age of 2-4 years.

During this period, the baby will experience the stimulation of the anus and urethra through the sudden release of feces and urine, resulting in special "pleasure".

In such a process, the baby can not only develop the and urethral sphincter contraction release skills, but also know the upper limit of his ability to hold his and hold urine, which will be used for a lifetime.

Generally speaking, the duration of the desire period is only about 2 months, and if the baby is not satisfied in the desire period, resulting in the development of the desire period, it will have a wide impact on its subsequent mental development, such as the appearance of personality, becoming stingy, stubborn, clean and so on.

These manifestations represent the baby's arrival at the sex period?

1. Repeatedly hold back the bowel movements

When your baby comes to the sex period, he will fall in love with the novel feeling of holding back the bowel movements.

If we find that the baby's small face is red, stays motionless in the corner of the room, and does not allow us to go near, refuses to go to the bathroom to put on the toilet, it is likely that they are experiencing the pleasure of holding back urine and defecation, finding the tipping point that cannot be held back, and officially coming to the desire period.

2. The behavior of "frequent urination" occurs

Some babies come to the desire period and will also show frequent frequent urination.

Every time they go to the toilet, they only defecate part of the stool, and after a while, they will go again and rehearse a little more, which is actually the performance of their coming to the desire period.

3. "Study" defecation

Some babies who are in the desire period will also carry out in-depth research on defecation and defecation.

For example, do not flush the toilet after pulling the rice dumplings, and even pull the pants, pee the pants and reach out to touch them, put them on the side of the nose to smell the smell, although this behavior looks a little disgusting, but it is also a typical manifestation of the desire period.

The baby has reached the desire period, how should parents cope?

1. Do not scold them

The desire period is a necessary stage of the baby's psychological and physiological development, even if the baby really pees in the pants, we should not scold it, after all, they are also trying to solve the problem.

Otherwise, the parents' blame can easily make the baby feel anxious, and the psychological pressure is too great, but it will lead to desire prolongation, and the painful days will be greatly increased.

2. Do not force your baby to defecate

Some parents have a special "obsession" with their babies' defecation, such as having to defecate once a day, defecating on time during a certain period of time, and having to take the initiative to defecate on the toilet.

In fact, a baby in the period itself means a change in the rhythm of bowel movements.

If parents insist on it, it will make the baby have fear, and even associate this psychology with defecation, change the course of the desire period, and lead to constipation.

Therefore, for the baby's way of defecation, time, frequency, we try not to ask too much in the desire period, respect the baby's wishes, and let nature take its course.

3. Popularize basic digestive knowledge for babies

The baby is in the desire period and is interested in poop, which is actually a good science opportunity.

We can prepare some picture books on digestion knowledge, and explain the digestion of food and the production of poop for the baby, which is very helpful for the baby to establish healthy bowel habits.

4. Pay attention to cleaning and hygiene

Finally, when the baby really pees in the pants, the hygiene cleaning must be paid more attention.

On the one hand, we must remind the baby not to touch the excrement, on the other hand, pay attention to timely cleaning and disinfection, although it is indeed some nausea, but we still have to endure, and after the baby passes the desire period, the situation will be much better.

Old Miao Conclusion:

desire period is the only way for the baby to grow up, we must establish a correct understanding, do not scold and blame the baby.

What we should do at this time is to conform to the natural law of baby development, calmly "accept reality", and give it positive guidance, which is crucial for the healthy growth of the baby.

Today's topic: Has your baby passed the period?

I am Lao Miao, a super grandfather after the 80s, and the most eye-catching male head nurse in the hospital, welcome to discuss the issue of pregnancy together, and please pay attention to Lao Miao.