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01. Preface
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "We put down our dignity, let go of our personality, and let go of stubbornness, all because we can't let go of a person." ”
Love, sometimes like a rope, binds a person's heart and is bound by love from then on, bound by love.
When you don't understand love, you don't know what loneliness is, and you don't understand the pain of lovesickness and the pain of your stomach. After loving, you will feel that you have fallen deeply.
It can be seen that a person's soul does not care about you.
Caring about a person from the bone, the eyes and heart are all her, always will be centered on her, care for her, protect her thoroughly.
After falling in love with someone from the depths of her soul, she will always be tempted to do things that make her happy, and pass on her more happiness and sweetness.
A person who cares about you from the depths of his soul will often look like this: intention, willingness, and initiative.
02, take care of you with your heart, and care about your feelings in everything
A person who cares about you from the depths of his soul will definitely take care of you with his heart and care about your feelings in everything.
In this world, the highest level of love begins with "knowing you."
Han Shangyan in "Dear, Dear", although he is not young, he has been preoccupied with e-sports competitions and has never had a good relationship.
When he found out that he was in love with Tong Nian, he didn't know how to get along with his girlfriend.
However, he will consult his team members, want to know what to do to make the girl happy, want to know how to get along with the girl, and give her the best feeling of love.
Han Shangyan spent all his efforts to understand Tong Nian and take care of her feelings. Because of this, he gained Tong Nian's sincerity.
If you truly love someone, you can't help but consider the other person's feelings and care about her thoughts and opinions everywhere. Even if it is only a small matter in life, he will think in a different position and take into account the feelings of his beloved.
Caring for a person with your heart is starting from caring about a person's feelings.
Loving someone from the depths of the soul will definitely "understand" her. Understand her needs, understand her hobbies, understand why she is unhappy, unhappy.
03, willing to spend time with you to do trivial things
If you love someone from the depths of your soul, you will be willing to spend time with her.
Companionship is the longest emotional companionship and the best confession.
Xia Junshan in the TV series "Little Shed" cares about his family. He loves his wife NanLi, and the trivial matters in the family will never be pushed to Nanli alone.
In the morning, they dress the children, help them freshen up, make breakfast, and send the children to school. Care about your children's homework problems and care about their growth.
At home, whether there is any conflict with the child or the wife, I will patiently resolve it.
His mother-in-law is ill, and he is willing to fulfill his wife's dream of realizing his career and take care of his mother-in-law at home. No matter what happened in the family, he would stand up for the first time and spend time and energy to solve it.
A man who cares about something doesn't have to listen to him, he will know where he puts his time and energy.
If the lover needs him and his reply is always "I'm busy and don't have time", then his love does not reach the bottom of his heart.
Loving someone deep in the soul will be willing to use their energy and time to manage their feelings for each other, and they will be willing to spend time managing the trivialities of life.
Love or lack of love, you can see it in trivial things.
The more a person loves you, the more willing he is to spend time and energy to take on trivial life together and live a poetic life.
04, take the initiative to express love, business love
People who truly love the depths of their souls know how to take the initiative to express love and express love at all times.
Loving a person into the depths of the soul will cultivate the expression of love and business love into a habit and implant it in one's own life.
For example, if you love someone, you will hug you when you go out, and give your wife a kiss as soon as you get home. On the way home, when I saw my wife's favorite dessert, I would definitely think of buying one.
Or: deeply in love with a person, when buying vegetables, he will always buy his favorite dishes, cook a table of dishes with his heart, and treat his stomach. Get up early every day to prepare breakfast for him, just want to take care of his body.
Whether it is a man or a woman, who truly loves someone deeply, he will definitely actively express love and let love penetrate into life.
Because of love, you will have a sense of ceremony in the days, you will give your lover some surprises in various festivals, and you will not be stingy to express love.
A love letter, a warm word, a small gift, can make the lover feel his true love.
If you really care about a person, you will carefully manage your feelings for each other and actively express your love. Actively expressing love is to make love continue to come alive and let love grow lushly.
Loving someone has become a habit, and then this love will always be engraved in the bones. Even if she is white-haired and her legs and feet are inflexible, when walking, she will still think of protecting her and holding her hand.
05. Summary
Love will definitely make you feel warm, feel happy and sweet.
Yishu wrote: "If you love someone from the heart, it is difficult to hide, naturally, to put her first, this is an instinct, effortless effort." ”
A person who really loves you will care about you from the depths of his soul, and everything he does has a temperature.
If you truly love someone, you will be willing to spend your mind, time and energy to manage love. Love into the depths of the soul, will take the initiative and actively express love.
Both words and actions hide deep love and ignite the beauty of life.
Love to the depths of the soul, will be used to manage each other's love. On the road of life, if you meet someone who truly loves you, please cherish it with your heart.
It is a long road, and meeting people who truly love each other is a fortunate thing in life. True love, there is a chance to meet, a lifetime.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.