"When I survive this disaster, I won't want anyone to give me the sugar."

Source: Zhongquwuwen

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"We are sugar, sweet to sad", this is the signature text that the middle two-year-old will like.

At that time, we were sad at every turn. But it's also easy to perceive sweetness, even if the person you like has only done one small thing for you.

Unfortunately, the beautiful love stories did not happen to me, but many things happened to me.

At that time, there was a boy in the class, who liked a girl who did not dare to confess, and at that age when he wanted to pick stars but did not have the ability, he was quite intimidated.

In a monthly examination in the third year of high school, the class teacher called a few students who did not pass the test to go to the office to lecture, and he and the girls he liked were among them.

The class teacher scolded people very fiercely, especially the girls usually had good grades and made a mess of the test, which made her angry.

"Why didn't you do well?" What should I do if I can't pass the exam? ”

The class teacher's words were like a flying knife, and the girl's tears kept swirling in her eyes.

After a while, the girl found that the class teacher had not scolded her. Looking up, it was the boy standing between her and the class teacher, blocking the class teacher's view.

The girl thought that the boy was careless, so she quietly moved a position, and as a result, he blocked in front of him.

Then, the focus of the class teacher's scolding shifted to the boys.

The boy's back, like a dividing line, separates the girl from the endless reprimands and accusations. At that moment, the girl understood love and tenderness for the first time.

Because neither of them pointed out, they missed it in the end. But the sweetness brought by that back shadow lasted in the girl's heart for many years.

02

"Dear, Beloved" starring Yang Zi and Li Xian is a drama that I quite like.

There is no fetal tearing, no terminal illness and amnesia, no brainless stupid white sweet all the way to hang, and no domineering president doing whatever he wants. The plot is just sweet, making people feel unreal and indulging in it.

Tong Nian, played by Yang Zi, is a highly intelligent female scholar, and Han Shangyan, played by Li Xian, is a high-cold game god, who represents a new generation of urban men and women who have grown up with the Internet.

The two fell in love at first sight, appreciated, supported and encouraged each other, made unremitting efforts for the champion of the competition, and became the spiritual driving force for each other's dreams, but also wiped out the spark of love.

What impressed me was that Tong Nian's three views were very positive.

She chased after han shangyan to watch the Han Shangyan competition at the Guangzhou Gymnasium, preferring not to go in than buy scalper tickets; confessing that she was rejected, although it was sad but not entangled; and when others thought that Han Shangyan was not doing business, she had been popularizing what CTF was.

At the age of 15, he entered the junior class, and at the age of 19, he studied graduate school, a master of computer science, and won awards in international competitions. Tong Nian not only studied well, but also sang well, participated in various activities, earned extra money by himself, and never thought about who to cling to.

When she likes a person, although her performance is only a little girl, in fact, her background is an independent and capable heroine.

If she hadn't thought of making a piece of software to help the team members practice their hand speed and get it done in one night, Han Shangyan wouldn't have been impressed with her; if she had pestered her boyfriend and not separated as soon as she arrived in Sanya, there would have been no Curiosity and routine of Han Shangyan.

In the past, the popular heroine was stupid and sweet all the way to trouble, and there would also be a domineering president who cleaned up the mess and loved her to death. This drama is more convincing, love is not a one-person stalking, but two excellent people attracted to each other.

Born as a woman, don't wait for the prince to rescue, you have to become excellent yourself, you will meet interesting souls. Strive to learn more knowledge and skills, work hard in the workplace, or upgrade your academic qualifications to take a graduate school at a prestigious university...

Love can only add icing on the cake to embellish life, and it is wise to make a living first and then make love.

03

In "Strange Story", Bo Bonnie once sighed: "People whose hearts are full of bitterness, how much sweetness can they fill?" ”

Ma Dong said: "There are many bitter people in their hearts, and as long as a hint of sweetness can fill them." ”

When people are young, they are sad and want to talk to someone immediately, they want to find comfort immediately when they are sad, and they want to find someone to share immediately when they are happy. I wish my seven passions and six desires could get the attention of the whole world, and everyone could revolve around them.

Only when you encounter something that you can't share or escape, do you understand that there are some specific tribulations in life, no one can help you, you can only come out on your own.

When a person is hard, you can be fearless, and you are most afraid that someone will lend a shoulder to lean on you, and tears will fall in an instant.

When you survive that special period alone, even if the whole world gives you sugar afterwards, it is no longer rare.

When we are young, we always think that failing the exam and being rejected is the most tragic thing in life. When I grew up, I found that there are too many difficult things in life. Everyone laughed and scolded during the day, in fact, they had cried several times in the middle of the night.

Just like the line in "Please Answer 1988", "Adults are just putting up with it, just busy with adults' affairs, just pretending to be strong to bear the burden of age, adults, will also hurt." ”

It is precisely because life is really hard that we long for who can give ourselves a little sweetness. But in fact, love is only sweet is not enough, there must be a determination to support each other through the darkness.

You and I have not accompanied each other through a long time, and you say that you like me and love me deeply, but it does not seem real enough.

04

There is a very hot topic on Weibo, "How miserable is it to be an adult?" ", a lot of comments are quite heartfelt.

During the day, I have no heart and lungs to laugh and laugh, but I can cry in the bed at night because of the intentional or unintentional words of others.

I used to want to run outside, but now I always want to run home, and after I go to work, I know that it is better to go to school.

Understand the importance of money and health.

Life will always inadvertently give us a lot of suffering, but it also quietly hides some sugar. More often than not, the truth of life is to find sugar in a pile of glass slag.

In the face of a bittersweet life, we are on our own most of the time. Regardless of the shadow self-pity, do not complain about the world, in order to solve the complicated life.

Sometimes, love requires not courage, but ability. There are too few people who dare to move forward, and the vast majority of people choose to live a lifetime among the people they can attract, looking for someone who loves themselves and matches all the conditions.

If you really decide to go deep, then in addition to courage, you also need to cultivate the ability to guard love under the polishing of the world and life. Only two people who are free, strong and independent are worthy of pure love.

As a girl, you can have hope for love, but really don't have too much hope for men.

Love begins with a beautiful yearning, and finally a cruel reality, similar three views are the basis for your long-term companionship, and when you don't love, you are your last reliance.

May you find sugar in the glass slag of life on the way, you can meet a person who makes your heart move, think of him when you unconsciously raise the corners of your mouth, after seeing him can not control the nervous and excited heartbeat.

Of course, don't be carried away by love, open your arms to welcome when you come, and don't force it.

Do not look forward to long or warm, but steadfast and sincere.

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