Text/Wan Shi Rain
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Han Shangyan's way of breaking up paved a lot, but it also hurt Tong Nian, he did not answer the phone, the message replied coldly, and even went abroad to talk about work without greeting Tong Nian.
Tong Nian could not understand the situation, and could only wait for him to return to China for an interview.
Tong Nian understood everything that he was busy with for work, but Han Shangyan explained: "I am not for work, I went on a blind date, the other party has good conditions, looks beautiful, I am thirty, it is time to get married." We are not suitable, I don't like you, barely bored, you should also go to see someone else. ”
Some men break up in a very hurtful way, Han Shangyan is one, and there is another kind of is not to say anything, people directly play missing, and then learn from friends that he and other women are in and out.
Tong Nian is also not a person who loves to entangle, since the breakup, break up.
However, Han Shangyan did another thing, that is, to talk to Tong Nian's girlfriend, take out two thousand yuan and hand it to the other party, let her girlfriend hand it over to Tong Nian, and also told her to take good care of Tong Nian, take her to buy food and drink, buy what she likes, and make her happy.
Han Shangyan's desire was obvious, he was cruel to Tong Nian on his face, and in his heart he showed that he had broken the connection, his selfishness was too heavy, and he pretended to be innocent.
His style of faction makes people have to spit it out.
After Tong Nian knew, of course, he did not accept his money.
Just like Tong Nian's girlfriend said, this little money is not rare for Tong Nian, she will earn money herself, and she will earn much more money in the school laboratory than this.
Han Shangyan said that this big man's routine is very deep, and he wants to convey his concern for Tong Nian through the third person, and the genius girl Tong Nian does not eat his set.
Like is like, dislike is dislike, don't come to so many routines.
A man like Han Shangyan, in his emotions, many things are not said, thinking that it is good for the other party, but the other party does not understand his abnormality, and he will feel that his attitude towards feelings is not correct.
Tong Nian faced Han Shangyan's indifferent attitude and arrogant behavior, and no longer had any emotional fantasies about him, she still returned the money and let go of this emotion.
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Why did Han Shangyan break up so desperately?
It's not that he doesn't love Tong Nian anymore, but tong Nian's mother interviews him and talks harshly.
Why did Tong Nian's mother dislike him so much?
Han Shangyan is ten years older than Tong Nian, the education is not equal, and he does not understand the major tong nian reads, so Tong Nian's mother is worried that the two people do not have a common language, and there will be many problems in the future.
Han Shangyan's parents died early, he was brought up by his stepmother, and he had a lonely personality.
Han Shangyan's career, Tong Nian's mother did not understand, expressed an attitude of appreciation, so let him not disturb Nian Nian anymore.
Han Shangyan's personality is really trustworthy, he did his promise to Tong Nian's mother and broke up with Tong Nian. However, Han Shangyan couldn't stop missing Tong Nian, and occasionally appeared downstairs at Tong Nian's house to watch, silently paying attention to her information dynamics.
Although he also had friends to assist, he was still lukewarm to Tong Nian, and then he was injured alone.
He is older than Tong Nian, this is a fact, but others are not bad, he has won a lot of championships, a lot of trophies, and his own club, but he does not like to explain his career, so his family has a lot of misunderstandings about him.
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I quite appreciate Tong Nian's attitude towards feelings, she was broken up, although she is very painful, but she will not stalk, nor will she do things that harm the other party and herself, but let go of this relationship and return to her own track.
Tong Nian is still optimistic, treating life, studying, work, family and friends.
I find that the optimistic and confident girl who looks down on the lost love is cute and charming.
Later, Han Shangyan saw Tong Nian and his male classmates eating and chatting, and he was upset, so he went directly to disturb and talk to Tong Nian.
Han Shangyan spoke his heart, saying that he was uncomfortable in proposing to break up.
He took the initiative to show kindness, as if he had forgotten Tong Nian's mother's words, or remembered but was unwilling to torture his love for Tong Nian anymore.
Tong Nian was obviously surprised by his behavior.
In the feelings, the division and integration is really quite draining of their own energy, not smooth to mention the breakup, regret to want to reconcile, love is not a game, do not play like this.
I want to stabilize my feelings and want to treat them with a mature attitude.