Now parents always pursue the responsibility of society, the responsibility of the school is that they are not doing the right thing, so their children will be educated badly, in fact, we ignore that the child is still the longest with the parents, so the parents are the child's role model, but also the child's mirror, your words and deeds will determine the child's future, therefore, we can say that the parent is the best teacher of the child's life.
Not long ago, I encountered an incident that touched me very much. Guo Guo was a rather lively and cute little boy, but he had done something very surprising two days ago. Their family's change was in a drawer under the coffee table, and everyone knew it. Yesterday, when my mother came home, she was going to take some change and go out with me to buy, but she found that the change in the drawer was 300 yuan less. Guo Guo's mother wanted to call her father, and her father said that he did not take the money, and then, Guo Guo's mother made a memory, and finally came to the conclusion that the money was taken by Guo Guo.
But why would the child secretly take the family's money and not tell the parents? In the eyes of Guoguo's mother, this behavior of the child is stealing money. If the child's behavior is not properly disciplined, it may become more serious and seriously affect the child's future. So Guoguo's mother is ready to use the stick education method to strive to make the child have a long memory, and the family's money cannot be taken without greeting.
Then Dad called. Perhaps Dad also had a premonition of something, so he called in time to talk a lot to his wife on the phone. I hope that my wife can treat this matter rationally, not only solve the problem with violence, but also try to convince people with reason. I was very strong and knew what my father did, so I analyzed the problem with Guo Guo's mother and prepared several links.
The first step is to ask questions
Guo Guo's mother called Guo Guo over, and then asked calmly: And the three hundred yuan in the mother's drawer, have you seen it? Guo Guo said that he had seen it! Mom said I was going to buy groceries now, but I found that there was no money in the drawer. Guo Guo didn't want his mother, and directly told his mother to buy a dollar first, and he took it to buy his favorite handmade.
The second step is to help children learn to empathize
If you have a pen ready to take to school, but when you open the stationery box, you find that the prepared pen is gone, how do you feel? If it happens to be at this time, the teacher accuses you of not having stationery ready for school. How will you feel? Guo Guo said of course I would!
Mom said now I feel this way, mom prepared the money was taken away by you without telling me, now mom wants to buy something with auntie, the money in the drawer is gone, mom is very embarrassed now, mom is very uncomfortable now. Upon hearing his mother say this, Guo Guo also felt that he had done something wrong, so Guo Guo lowered his head.
The third step is to guide the child to correctly admit mistakes and solve problems.
Mom continued to ask Guoguo, so what do you say I should do now? Or My mother will return the handle and return the money to you! What if I can't get it back?
The mother continued to ask the son. Guo Guo obviously had no idea. The mother then said to the baby: "It's already like this, mom and aunt to borrow a little money, daddy come back and we will pay him back, okay?" "All right, Mom," my aunt set her sights on me. Say to me the wallet is here, you take it yourself! However, Guo Guo looked at me and shook my head and said, "No, without permission, it is not impossible to take other people's things casually." ”
Widows can be taught. Guo Guo's mother was very happy, and dad took the right few steps. After this incident, Guo Guo not only had a correct view of money, life, and values, but also established a closer relationship of trust with his mother.
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