Text: Cradle of Love
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
In this world, the most precious thing is true love.
That kind of true love is like finding a needle in a haystack, which is extremely difficult to find. If you are not careful, you will encounter the wrong person and usher in a false deception.
There are too many women who have been deceived, deceived by men, and finally bruised, and lost everything, all the efforts, all in vain.
Falling in love with the wrong person is not that the woman is not good or good enough, but that she lacks the ability to distinguish men. Always foolishly think that if you are sincere, the other party is sincere.
There are more stupid women, always feel that they have given everything, will move men, impress men, and let men die.
Just on the news, I saw a woman who reported her husband in real name, saying that her husband had taken bribes and was abusing and cheating.
Heartbroken, she really couldn't bear it, and finally chose to speak out in the media, hoping to please herself and be fair.
There are really many such things, and I often see relevant reports on the Internet.
In front of feelings, it is not the man who is with you, it is true that he loves you, or it can be said that it is not the man who is with you, and he will not betray you.
So, women should polish their eyes, when you find that the man does not really love you, then do not be with him, after being with you, find that he has changed his heart, you must stop the loss in time to minimize the damage.
Don't wait until you are so hurt that you have no way out of retreat, and then start looking for a way out.
So, what kind of man really loves you? A man who truly loves you will have three "gives".
To give you companionship, that is a guardianship
A man who truly loves you, first of all, will give you companionship.
Because I have you in my heart, I want to be with you, guard you, and spend every moment of my life with you.
Whenever it is free time, it will come to you, joke with you, tell stories, and talk about home.
Even if you just stay quietly, it is a kind of beauty, and your heart will be solid and satisfied.
Even if you are very busy, they will find time to accompany you, and will not make you feel cold and lonely.
A man, where his love is, his heart will be. The man who loves you, his heart, has always been with you.
Even if I can't accompany you, I will miss you, and take the initiative to contact you, by phone or message, to accompany you.
The one thing he is most willing to do, the one thing he is happiest, is to accompany you, to guard you by your side, and to grow old together in a comfortable time.
To give you tenderness, that is an inclusion
I'm a girlfriend who often complains to me that her boyfriend has a big temper.
It can even be said that it is to regard her as an emotional garbage can, and when it encounters unhappy things, it will vent all the unhappiness on her and yell at her.
Two people together, quarrels became commonplace, and girlfriends were often in the role of being scolded.
She endured grievances and silently wiped her tears, but because she loved too much, she was obviously hurt and was reluctant to leave.
There are too many women, like my girlfriends, who are enduring men's stinky tempers and will be yelled at every turn.
Any trivial matter can become the fuse of his anger, and you often have a feeling of being confused, and inadvertently, you can offend him.
And a man who truly loves you gives you tenderness and gentle concern for you.
Even in the face of your small mistakes, they will communicate with you gently, and you will almost never lose your temper.
This tenderness is an tolerance, an accommodation, and a pampering.
Give you substance, that's a recognition
I often hear some women complain that men are reluctant to spend money on themselves, and it is more difficult to spend money on themselves than to ascend to the sky.
Once, on the train, I met a couple, 26 or 27 years old, the woman said: "I am hungry, want to eat bucket of instant noodles", I thought that the man would get up and go to the food truck to buy, but the man said: "Don't eat, the car is expensive." ”
As a result, the woman had been starving in the car and had not eaten the instant noodles that the man had bought.
Judging from the woman's expression, the woman was unhappy, her eyes were lost, and she was more helpless.
Yes, how much is a bucket of instant noodles, and no matter how expensive it is, it is just reluctant not to buy it.
The man who really loves you will try to satisfy you, and will not care whether it is expensive or not, as long as you are full, you eat well, as long as you are happy and happy, he is willing to buy anything for you, even if it costs a lot of money to buy it for you.
A small instant noodle incident is just a microcosm of feelings, even bubble noodles are reluctant to buy, in fact, things are even more reluctant to buy.
The man who truly loves you will try to satisfy you materially and not let you down and chill.
Giving you material things is a recognition, and it is even more important to treat you as your own person.
In the relationship, the most feared thing is to meet the wrong person.
Loving the wrong person is like falling into an abyss, with only endless pain.
In the face of feelings, we must insist on preferring to be lacking and not indiscriminate, and resolutely not to start without loving each other. Even if it starts, once it is found, and it is not loved, then turn around and leave in time.
The world is so big, true love is difficult to find, there will be someone for you, going around and finally meeting you.
He will give you companionship, give you tenderness, give you material things, give you the best of everything, give you peace of mind and happiness.
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Author: Love to read, love to write, love to think, dare to love and dare to hate the northern girl. A freelance writer, an emotional mentor who has helped countless people out of psychological difficulties.