Like this sentence in the original book of "Heart Residence":
People have a lifetime, and there are many opportunities. But only if you really seize it, it is called an opportunity, otherwise it is called chagrin.
This sentence not only applies to buying a house, but also applies to the feelings between men and women, just like Zhan Xiang to Gu Qingyu. He chased her for more than ten years, and after saddle up, even if Gu Qingyu wanted the stars in the sky, he would do whatever it took to fulfill her wishes.
However, even such deep feelings, in the end, can not withstand the nourishment of the silent feelings of the foreign sister Feng Xiaoqin, she raises his stomach, warms his heart, let him slowly touch, slowly fall into the "circle of love" can not extricate himself.
Yes, the foreign sister Feng Xiaoqin can't compare with Gu Qingyu, one is a two-child mother with no culture, and the other is a high-class and elegant white-collar single nobleman.
No matter how you look at it, you feel that the two are not on the same level, but Gu Qingyu, who is like a flower, is for people to see, and is enshrined like a fairy. Feng Xiaoqin is different, she lives in the smell of fireworks, she can give Zhan Xiang a down-to-earth stability.
Or that men like red roses, but it is white roses that are willing to live together, but in Zhan Xiang's heart, Gu Qingyu is a woman he can't forget all his life, because what he can't get is always in turmoil, so that he falls in love at first sight and pays all his feelings for it, only Gu Qingyu.
Even if they were not together, Gu Qingyu was still white moonlight, very real, and very sad.
Zhan Xiang was obsessed with Gu Qingyu
In the original work of "Heart Residence", there are many times when Zhan Xiang pleases Gu Qingyu, Gu Qingyu returns from a business trip, he does not say hello to pick her up, and has already prepared a big bouquet of roses.
Replaced by other women, such a rich person who has such a deep affection and more than a dozen suites, I am afraid that few can hold it. But Gu Qingyu was disgusted, she was not satisfied with Zhan Xiang ten thousand, the original work was written like this:
Bangs dyed yellow, cropped jeans that revealed a dragon-shaped tattoo near the ankle, and white high-top sneakers. A seal-shaped gemstone ring between your fingers.
Gu Qingyu intuitively thought of three words "upstart", which shows his disdain and disgust for Zhan Xiang.
Even if he knew that Gu Qingyu did not look up to himself, Zhan Xiang still pursued it as always, and was even willing to give up half of his property and sell all the houses in order to marry Gu Qingyu for two months.
Humble to such a Zhan Xiang, or did not get Gu Qingyu's consent, she would rather spend money to find other men to fake marriage, rather than oppose Zhan Xiang, which shows how indifferent her feelings for him are.
In the face of the indifferent Gu Qingyu, Zhan Xiang did not give up, he was willing to wait for her to change her mind, even if one day he was hurt, he was willing to accept her again.
He watched her marry and divorce Shi Yuan, thinking that his opportunity had come, and proposed to Gu Qingyu several times, but he was still rejected.
Love is like this, the more you paste it, the less valuable it is. She doesn't love you, she deserves it.
For Zhan Xiang, Gu Qingyu is his goddess, but also the biggest motivation for him to make money, he wants to travel the world with Gu Qingyu and wants to give the best life for the woman he loves.
However, the feelings of the one-man show are only the paranoia of one party, even if Zhan Xiang is diligent and active, Gu Qingyu still maintains a polite smile and thanks.
If there is no politeness and distance, it is her silent rejection and emotional resistance to him.
What cannot be forgotten is only the feelings of the past
Look at how attentive Zhan Xiang is to Gu Qingyu, there is such a plot in the novel:
After Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan divorced, Zhan Xiang told her: If the wife is too strong, the husband will inevitably hold back. I had to make some pocket money outside, and I understood it.
However, Gu Qingyu sneered at him: You are not short of money.
"I lack this—love," Zhan Xiang said half jokingly and half seriously.
He told Gu Qingyu that as long as she is willing to marry herself, open seventeen or eight homes for the elderly in her name, do not make money, keep the capital, and charter a public welfare field every day at noon, and the elderly over 70 years old in the vicinity can come to eat for free. Then go to the mountainous area to build a few primary schools, it is called Qingyu Primary School.
In the face of such a marriage proposal, Gu Qingyu still refused. After the failed marriage proposal, Zhan Xiang was very open-minded and said to Gu Qingyu:
Men and women love, God can't help it. The new society is gone, and it is not good for Wang Tiger to rob relatives. You are hard-hearted, I know.
Gu Qingyu felt a little guilty, so he advised Zhan Xiang that he would definitely find a good girl. But what she didn't know was that Zhan Xiang had secretly photographed her back on her way to and from work.
But these Gu Qingyu did not know, even if they knew, they only smiled apologetically and did not have much reaction faintly. Therefore, how warm and confessed Zhan Xiang was in front of Gu Qingyu, she pretended not to understand most of the time, and did not answer the call. Just as Feng Xiaoqin spat on Gu Qing, he said:
Sister, if I say this, you certainly can't listen to it, right? You think to yourself, how can I be like you, I am so noble and rich, living in a mansion and driving an imported car, I am a man. You count something. But Sister, sometimes I really pity you, the old woman dressed up all day, half of the words left half, see people only use one eye, obliquely over, as if the whole world is stepped on by you, in fact, others look particularly ridiculous. Flattering you to your face, I want to kick you in the face.
Sure enough, women look at women, just like there is a clairvoyance function, Gu Qingyu is really as cold and pretending as Feng Xiaoqin said, and no one can look at her in her eyes, let alone the upstart Zhan Xiang.
In Zhan Xiang's eyes, Gu Qingyu was like a fairy, and no one could replace him. But his love was weak and humble, for fear of overcharging him and embarrassing each other.
But in the feelings of men and women, the deeper the love, the easier it is to look forward and backward, even if you fantasize about the earth and the sky, you always want to stop talking. This is Zhan Xiang's inexplicable feelings for Gu Qingyu.
When men empathize with each other, it is not that they do not love but that love is hopeless
Zhan Xiang's love for Gu Qingyu is irreplaceable, she is a woman that he cannot forget in his whole life, a woman he has cared for with his heart for twenty years.
Just love too hard, will be exhausted on that day, for Gu Qingyu's willfulness and needs, Zhan Xiang is tolerant. Until he met Feng Xiaoqin, who chased after him and beat him up.
Does Zhan Xiang love Feng Xiaoqin? not necessarily.
Feng Xiaoqin wrapped his favorite cabbage ravioli again and again, hinting again and again that "female employees who don't want to be boss ladies are not good employees", and did not make Zhan Xiang's heart move.
At that time, Zhan Xiang only had Gu Qingyu in his heart, and there was nothing about Feng Xiaoqin. However, when Gu Qingyu refused to show Xiang again and again, he said lightly on his lips, but the balance in his heart was already biased in favor of Feng Xiaoqin.
After all, for men, in addition to loving to death and living, there is also a life to be lived at present, and someone has to sew and mend, and also a wife and children hot kiln.
For Ben Si's Zhan Xiang, who has been single for many years and waiting for Gu Qingyu, has no hope, has been disappointed, and is even more discouraged. Even if Gu Qingyu later took the initiative to kiss him and mainly invited him to sit upstairs, he instinctively gave up.
After being a spare tire for so many years, once he is really pitied by the goddess one day, he will have a kind of dazed overwhelm, and he will also have a kind of goddess love.
The mind is gone, and everything is wrong. It's not that you don't love, but that you love too deeply and are hurting internally. But in Zhan Xiang's subconscious, Gu Qingyu is still the person he wants to miss for the rest of his life.
In other words, he missed not only Gu Qingyu, but also his own love pouring out with his exhausted twenty years of youth.
In the finale of "Heart Residence", he chose Feng Xiaoqin really right! Although she has a honeycomb-like heart and eyes, and uses not very bright and just means to obtain her own interests, she is intelligent and ambitious, kind and has a position, gentle and attitude.
There are no absolutely good and bad feelings in the world, only worth it or not, willing or unwilling.