We often say the word "vision", what exactly does that vision mean, in my opinion, it is more like an ability to prevent the future, you can make a rough judgment of what happens in your future according to your current situation, and from then on, you are prepared for both hands, in case the worst result occurs, you also have the corresponding countermeasures, not to say that because of a sudden life tribulation, you have fallen into a trough and cannot climb out.
In my opinion, I think women need more vision, but unfortunately, many women do not, they feel that they are married and have a family, and it is enough for their husbands to worry about future things, and everything is subject to his arrangement.
This is really a very wrong idea, even if you are married, you are an independent individual, and your life cannot be completely controlled by men. Many middle-aged women have said that at their age, there is some inadequacy in work, even if you do it well, it is still not as pleasing as men, life is also so-so, do not know where the way out is, so put your mind on the family.
And women with vision, in addition to taking care of the family, will also arrange 3 roads for themselves, please be prepared in advance
Insist on maintaining yourself
Some time ago, Mo Wenwei opened a concert, everyone was amazed by her figure, and the media reported that In order to appear in the best form in front of the public, Karen Mok sculpted and abstained from sugar and vegetarianism for a long time.
At the 2019 New Year's Eve party, Lin Chiling's two dynamic pictures brushed Weibo, and her skin was as white and flawless as a girl, but she was already more than forty years old.
There is also Xu Qing, who is fifty years old, but her face is still so beautiful.
These are the results of careful maintenance, no woman does not want to stay young forever, but the years are merciless, it will not leave traces on your face because you do not want to, the pursuit of beauty, is a compulsory course for women's life, do not feel that they are old, there is no need to toss, you look good, you look in the mirror will also be pleasing to the eye, husbands and children are also proud, why not enjoy?
Don't eat too much, don't say too full
Some women in the middle of the year, on the temperament of the big change, maybe this is what people often say menopause, a person's quality of life is good or bad, and his personality has a lot to do with it, if he is sunny, then what you see will be the beauty of life, what unhappiness can also be quickly digested, others are also happy to be friends with him, if you are always evil, then annoyance is also your own.
At this time, you should be more mature in your thinking, think more about things, talk in your heart, others look for your help, but also leave some room for yourself, the words are too full will raise the expectations of others, in case of messing, people will also complain about you, change "no problem" to "I try", even if it does not work, people will thank you, because you have bothered for his business.
Stay independent
Angelababy was asked in an interview earlier who was in charge of the money at home, to which she replied, "Each one is in charge."
Huang Xiaoming is so rich, she did not say that since then he will be a captive canary, but also actively work to make money, no one in this world is reliable, except for you, when men love you, they will also indulge you to spend his money, if he does not love? Doesn't that cut off your economic lifeblood?
Whether a woman is 20 years old or 40 years old, she must ensure absolute independence, you have the courage to face anyone with money in your pocket, do not be a parasite, in case of marriage change, your end will be very tragic.
Women's vision should not be limited to the present, you have to think more about your future, the future is not static, it is full of a lot of unknowns, in case the worst happens, how do you face it? It's not scaring yourself, it's a big wisdom, you think so many children husband, have you ever thought about yourself?
Life is the most stable only in your own hands, so that you can follow the heart, not be disturbed by external objects, and live comfortably.