There is a saying that "a man has no far-reaching worries, but will have near-term worries." ”
No matter how capable we are, how strong our abilities are, and how thick our family foundations are, we all need to face the crises and risks of life. Sometimes, it's not happiness that comes unexpectedly, it's risk that comes unexpectedly.
To survive in this world, you never know what will happen in the future. It is possible that an economic change, you face a crisis of unemployment. It's possible that an industry goes out of business and you're immediately affected.
More importantly, as people age, the problems they face will become more and more complex.
For example, if you retire in a few years, how will you feel about the future?
Ordinary people will feel that although retirement is approaching, the contradiction of pension is prominent, and they do not know how to be good. Moreover, it is not easy to provide for the elderly on the top and raise a small one on the bottom.
Rich people will feel that retirement or not, the relationship is not big, anyway, the same can make money, the same can enjoy.
The rich in this world account for only about 1%, while the average person accounts for as much as 99%. Therefore, what ordinary people consider is the most realistic problem.
In the decade from the age of 50 to 60, visionaries will make these 5 preparations and settle down in their old age.
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Preparation 1: Combine work and leisure, do not worry about work.
People are of a certain age, and they should not be overworked. Sometimes, it is better to work less and take good care of yourself. You know, the body is the foundation of happiness.
However, the pressure of modern people is too great, and the material and economic problems they have to face are too much, so that they have to work hard and have to overdraft their physical energy to make money.
However, before overdrawing the body's energy, we may as well understand the truth that in today's world when everything is soaring and wages are not rising, it is possible that the wages we earn are not enough to give the medical expenses to enter the hospital.
Lao Wang in the unit resigned at the age of 55. The reason is simple, in the early years, he lost his body, and now he is plagued by diseases and can only go home to recuperate. It is said that he lived in a hospital once and spent tens of thousands of yuan, almost his income for a year.
If he is a city person, it is fine, but if he is a rural person, there are still many difficulties to face. In this way, knowing how to combine work and leisure and taking care of the body is the right way.
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Preparation two: less nosy, less gossip.
No matter who you are, no matter what position you are in, whatever you can do, try not to care. If you can ignore the problem, try not to mix it up.
The so-called "say more wrong, do more wrong." "No matter what you say or do, as long as you violate the interests of others, I believe that others will not be able to live with you."
Just like middle-aged people after the age of 50, if they like to take care of their children's business, I believe that their children will also have conflicts with them. This, after all, cannot be avoided.
Many people think that I am an elder, why can't I manage the idle business in the house?
First of all, there is no need to care. Secondly, you manage too much, but you are just laborious and self-inflicted. Can't cross it.
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Preparation three: Develop good living habits.
If people want to be long-lasting, they must develop habits that are in line with the schedule.
For example, when do you go to bed, when you get up, how much time you spend exercising, how much food you eat every day, don't touch cigarettes or alcohol, and so on. All of this requires us to plan well.
What people lack most today is sleep and exercise. It's not that they don't have time to sleep, it's that most people have too much nightlife or are addicted to swiping their phones to stay up too late and exercise too little.
The best state of life is to sleep well, eat enough, dress warmly, and jump and jump. What's the rest?
Therefore, doing a good job of life planning can better embrace happiness.
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Preparation four: self-cultivation, temper reduction.
The ancients often said: "Cultivate oneself and rule the country and the world." ”
Slimming, usually put first. If people can't cultivate themselves, then they can't govern the family and then do something bigger. It can be said that self-cultivation is the foundation.
When we are young, we may feel that "self-cultivation" is to improve our personal earning ability. But after getting old, "self-cultivation" is to let us cultivate our personality and cultivate our own temperament.
Some people are frizzy, and this bad habit has to be changed. Some people are short-tempered, and this violent temperament will only harm themselves.
Quiet to cultivate the body, frugality to cultivate morality, calm and calm, kind attitude, in order to be like the flow of water, fine water flow long.
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Preparation five: Prepare the deposit and make steady progress.
When we have cultivated our body and mind, then we need to consider substances.
The world is in a hurry, just for the sake of breaking silver for a few pairs. It is this piece of silver that can relieve people's sorrows. Perhaps, in this materialistic era, valuing money is also a reality that cannot be escaped.
For ordinary people, we don't need to be rich and wealthy, and we don't need to have a billionaire, we only need to have a decent deposit. Of course, different families and different cities require different deposits.
If one day, you find that your pockets are full of savings, your body and mind are healthy, your family is harmonious, and your life is flat. This is the happiness of ordinary people's hearts and minds.
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Write to the end
Happiness, in fact, is very simple, the family is as good as ever, the family has some assets, and everything is light.
Life, in fact, is not complicated, a lifetime of dedication, with money in hand, everything to see the sun.
Days, in fact, are very happy, do their best and obey the destiny, hide hope in their hearts, and beauty comes unexpectedly.
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