How you look at money determines what kind of person you are.
In the face of money, the good and evil of human nature are revealed to the fullest, and if you are not careful, you will lose everything!
As the saying goes, a gentleman loves money and has a way to get it.
Although money is good, it must not be careless.
Greed is for everyone, and unbridled greed will only trap itself in the depths of the water.
Remind you: a person, whether poor or rich, do not covet the following "four kinds of money".
Money that is detrimental to moral character
Virtue is the foundation of a person, and a good character is to accumulate blessings and virtue for oneself.
Money of unknown origin, money that damages one's own morality, and money that makes oneself saddled with corrupt character, cannot be greedy.
The ancients had clouds: ill-gotten wealth, mo can keep.
If you gain money and lose morality, you will not be blessed in the end.
On the contrary, from ancient times to the present, the gold collectors are praised.
It is not only that they let people see the brilliance of human nature, but also because of the virtue of collecting gold, like an invisible energy, gathering the beauty around them.
There is a story in history that a housekeeper helped the boss to collect money in the field, and forgot to take the money bag while drinking tea in the tea house.
He had just left on his front foot, and behind him came Mr. Yi, a down-and-out businessman. Because of poor management, Mr. Yi bought a ferry ticket and prepared to return to his hometown to work as a farmer to make a living.
Seeing that there was a bag on the stool, I was curious, so I opened it and looked at it. He was stunned, there were 1500 silver dollars in it, which could not only solve his current debt problems, but also enough for him to live the second half of his life.
But thinking that ill-gotten gains were not desirable, he decided decisively to wait here for his master to come back and take it. In the evening, finally saw the panicked housekeeper, after handing over the money to the housekeeper, Mr. Yi was about to leave, the housekeeper said that he had to give him 200 silver yuan in order to thank him, Mr. Yi resolutely did not want it, there was no way, the housekeeper had to respect Mr. Yi's meaning.
Back at the business house again, the housekeeper told the boss about the beginning and end of the loss of money, and the boss felt that Mr. Yi was not moved by the huge amount of money, which was really rare, so he invited Mr. Yi to work in his business house and intentionally cultivated him.
After arriving at the business house, Mr. Yi said, "Actually, he has to thank the housekeeper." That day, because he waited for him to come to get the bag, he did not get on the boat, and the boat that returned to his hometown did not survive because of the huge waves, but he was fortunate to have a life. The two felt more sorry for each other.
You see, there are hidden mysteries in life, whether it is a blessing or a curse, not a fixed number, depending on how you choose.
When you uphold noble virtues, even if the gold is gone, it will eventually come back.
A virtuous person does not covet money that undermines moral character.
Money that affects the future
Money is the future, and some money, once greedy, is self-destructive.
There is a kind of person around who covets the money of "successful people".
Seeing that the people around them are more successful, they consciously or unconsciously want to get a little from others, typical of "greed and cheapness".
The achievements of others are also the hard work of others, and no matter how good the relationship is, they also score clearly what is their own and what is others'.
Greedy and cheap, it seems to have gained a little benefit, and it is the damage to the respect and trust of others.
A little fly head small profit, let the friend thoroughly see your person, consume your network resources, and then think of friends to help you in the future, others will naturally weigh you a few pounds, whether it is worth his help.
Coveting a little money harms your own long-term interests.
There is also a kind of person, who mixes well in the unit, and inevitably others send money to please and pull relations.
Don't be greedy for this kind of money, otherwise how much you get, you may need to double your repayment in the future.
Take people short, eat people soft, simple human feelings once pulled on money, can not do things, and finally become their own disregard for human feelings, by others to talk about.
Nowadays, money is basically linked to the interests of the relationship, and if something happens, no one in the chain can be separated.
Because a little money buries their future, it is not worth it.
Wise people do not covet money that affects their future.
Money to kill morale
More money and less money are temporary, and only excellent ability can make wealth lasting.
"Nibbling on the old people" is a very common phenomenon, spending their parents' pension money at a young age and turning themselves into a person with no fighting spirit.
The money will eventually run out one day, and when the parents are really old, they suddenly realize that the fighting spirit has disappeared, there is no ability, and they are eliminated by society.
No matter how rich your parents are, they are ultimately their parents, life is their own, do not covet limited money and give up the infinite possibilities of the future.
After seeing a real thing, a daughter is 33 years old, I feel that the conditions at home are not bad, my parents have a stable pension, I have to rely on, I graduated for 10 years, only worked for half a year, and slowly, developed the habit of eating and lazy.
This is close to 10 years of time, eating and wearing all spend parents, the first two years are fine, quite harmonious. But in the back, the family staged a drama of mutual accusations every day, and her parents said that her hands and eyes were high and low, and she could not achieve anything. The daughter said that she had become what she is today, it was all the fault of her parents, where there was still a home atmosphere, it was all quarrels and insults, which made people sigh.
Maybe parents are responsible, but "sitting and enjoying" for ten years, what you can finally get is only the disgust of others, the disgust of self, and the future is slim.
Life ultimately depends on yourself, and the money of the people who are close to you should not be greedy, one of the problems in life is to do a good job of separation, parents can help you part of it, but can not help you for a lifetime.
Truly intelligent people understand that parents can act as their own strong backing, but they cannot stop their life struggles, otherwise they will inevitably "rely on the mountains to fall, rely on everyone to run."
In the TV series "Heavenly Dao", it is said that the strong never expect a savior, they are their own saviors.
To sit and eat and enjoy happiness in the age of struggle is to ruin your future.
People with lofty ideals will never covet money to consume their fighting spirit.
Overdraft future money
Overdrawing the future is almost destroying the present.
In recent years, due to the influence of consumerism, more and more people have been greedy for overdraft future money.
Ignoring the size of their own ability, constantly buying and buying, whether it is the overload of credit cards, or all kinds of loans with different tricks, they all make the current life a mess.
Uncontrolled advanced consumption, while satisfying vanity, will only make the hole in the future bigger and bigger.
A person under heavy financial pressure can hinder his judgment of life.
When you wake up and face a bunch of debts to pay off, you will choose the most direct way to make a profit, or even embark on the "fastest" way to make money.
When you covet future money, you fall into the trap of hedonism, and while enjoying the pleasure of money, you also turn yourself into a slave to money.
Life is full of variables, and coveting to overdraft future money is equivalent to putting your life in turmoil.
It is not uncommon for the creditor to "greet" him every day to repay the card, which has harmed himself and his relatives.
Smart people know how to plan ahead, save enough money for their future, have enough protection when they encounter life failures, and give themselves time to breathe and think about the future.
Living well in the present does not mean sacrificing the future, and at every stage of life, we should know how to do what we can, overdraft future money, and not be greedy.
How you get rich determines what kind of person you are.
If you handle your relationship with money, you will handle your life well.
Whether a person is poor or rich, do not covet these four kinds of money: money that damages morality, money that affects the future, money that consumes morale, and money that overdrafts the future.
More important than money: character, feelings, conscience ...
When the money is gone, it can be earned again, and the feelings and character are gone, but it is difficult to establish.
Today's Topic:
What kind of life do you yearn for?
Flower Shadow World: Focus on interpreting the emotional problems of marriage, and give you comfort and warmth in the hustle and bustle of the world