As an adult, you should manage your emotions and your greed, but sometimes the thoughts in your heart reach a certain level, and you can't control yourself.
The same is true of a person's feelings for another person, and when a man loves a woman to the depths of his love, he can't help but do something for that woman, or do something that others feel should not be done.
Maybe some people think this man is not worthy, or think that this man does not need to do these things... But only men understand in their hearts why they are doing this.
Men can only have these three unbearable feelings if they are in love, which cannot deceive people, and smart people can see it at a glance.
01. Can't help but be jealous
I remember when I was in college, I talked about a boyfriend, and at that time I had a male classmate from my hometown.
Once my boyfriend and I went to eat in the cafeteria, and at this time we just happened to run into my hometown, that is, the male classmate, when I talked to my fellow, the two of them were very happy.
My boyfriend is a very cheerful person, and some of my friends will greet him warmly when he sees him, but seeing this male classmate is a gloomy look, and there is no face when he sees the other party.
After the other party and I finished talking, my boyfriend also said that he hated the boy very much and thought that the boy did not listen well at all.
When my boyfriend said this, I felt very angry in my heart, because I felt that people were just chatting with me, saying that people were not good at talking, and such an evaluation really made me particularly unhappy.
So the two of us fought, and the next day neither of us spoke.
Later, I found out that it was because the other party was jealous at that time, so the other party would say that my fellow spoke badly, in fact, my fellow was learning to broadcast host, and the voice was particularly good.
So sometimes if a guy loves you very much, he'll be jealous of you, and my boyfriend has been with me for a long time, and I'm also his first love, so the relationship between the two of us is still very good.
Mimon says:
"The man I love must be strong and hanging, no ex-girlfriend to entangle, not to engage in ambiguity with female colleagues, and disdain to play with little girls about brothers and sisters." He wants to have a wolf heart and lungs for other women all over the world, and only for me alone. He must meet the highest standards of the modern husband: to take it out, to bring it back. Especially the last four words, it means how much security a man can give. ”
Women want men to give themselves a sense of security, in fact, men also want women to give themselves a sense of security, so that men will feel that this woman is their own.
Men feel that a woman has given him a sense of security, he should not have too much language with other men, so that he is completely loyal to himself, and men will also ensure that they can take women out and bring women back, and the two people will always be inseparable.
02. Can't help but go to each other
Every time a relationship is deeply loved, it is very tempting to be with the other party, and as a man, it will be the same.
Perhaps many people think that girls are more family-loving, and after girls and men talk about objects, they will also regard men as their own home, and men as their own everything, so they will not be able to help but go to each other.
In fact, a boy will also be like this, when a man loves deeply, he will also regard women as his everything, feel that marrying this woman home is to have a beautiful family, and he also wants to live with each other for a lifetime.
If a man likes a woman very much, he will not be able to help but go to the other party, because the beginning of the relationship is so innocent and beautiful, and when the love is deep, it is a feeling of desperation.
So if you feel that a man is not responsible, it means that you really do not attract the other party, if you attract the other party, the other party will feel that you are a particularly good person, and will be particularly good to you.
Jun Watanabe said:
"Men and women can't get too close, and loving too closely can become a negative burden."
Although distance can produce beauty, but when love reaches the depths, it can't manage so much, and many men will not deliberately create some distance, and they will come to this woman as soon as they have time.
Some men always make excuses that they are busy, so they did not go to this woman, in fact, this man may go to find other women, or this man does not care about this woman in his heart.
Love is like a cough, it can't help it, if a person really loves you, they can't help but come to you, instead of pushing it off again and again, saying that they have something so they can't come.
03. Can't help but bow your head
When two people quarrel, the person who bows his head first is not to admit it, but this person is not willing to lose you, in fact, sometimes if you quarrel with a person, if you are afraid of losing each other in your heart, then you will admit defeat.
But if you have a fight with a person and you feel that the person can stay by your side or leave, even if the relationship between the two of you breaks down, it doesn't matter. When you have such a thought, you don't love each other very much, at least your love has not reached a very deep point.
Two people quarrel is inevitable, but some people and you quarrel, often concede to you, some people and you quarrel, but waiting for you to admit defeat, if you do not go to each other, then, the other party will disappear in the crowd, two people may not have contact again.
In love, don't compromise again and again, but don't bully each other again and again. Sometimes it is your own mistake, you must know how to admit your mistake, do not wait for the other party to admit it, over time, the other party will also feel that what they do is not worth it.
Girls can sometimes be squeamish, but they can't always be so arbitrary, after all, feelings need two people to go together, and they can't be a person who has been seeking perfection.
Murong Xuecun said:
I thought, something must have gone wrong, the world shouldn't be like this. But he quickly denied himself: the world is like this, everything is a transaction, women look at men as cash machines, men look at women as meat grinders, and true feelings are just a useless piece of eye, after bouncing away, they are still bright and good-eyed, full of water. ”
Murong Xuecun's words made sense, but it could also be seen that this writer was not very good at everything. Sometimes there is still desire, women love money, men like women, all because of their own desires.
But sometimes there are exceptions, some men love to the depths of time will also be very good to a woman, at this time, has nothing to do with selfishness, only lies in the most pure love in the man's mind, this love is particularly rare, no matter how much money is spent, it can not be bought.