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When referring to the failed marriage, Chen Xiaolan's eyes were filled with tears: "I didn't hate at the beginning, I hoped that he could come back." Later, feeling hopeless, I began to resent it. Later, there was no hope at all, and there was no hatred, because hate was useless. ”
Chen Xiaolan, from a rural family in Yangwu Township, Anshun City, Guizhou Province, has lived alone in a small rental house for years, pulling a son and a daughter alone. In November 2020, Chen Yujin, a son who has always been lively and lovely, suddenly cried out that his stomach hurt, and Chen Xiaolan took him to Anshun City Hospital for CT examination and found that he had a tumor in his abdomen. Chen Xiaolan took the examination report from the doctor's hand, only to see that it was impressively written: Neuroblastoma.
This news seemed to explode in his ears with a thunderclap on a sunny day, and Chen Xiaolan collapsed weakly on the ground. The doctor said that the child's tumor was very large and needed immediate surgery. She trembled and dialed her long-disappeared ex-husband's phone, but what she got was a cold reply from the other end of the phone: "The phone you are dialing cannot be answered, please dial it later." ”
I don't know what happened, but I fell in love
At the beginning, Chen Xiaolan sold clothes in a children's clothing store in the city, and at a hometown party, she met Zhao Mou, and the two were in love. Since then, Zhao has often chatted with her, booing and asking for warmth. In the strange city, Zhao's meticulous care made Chen Xiaolan feel warm, and the two finally came together.
Before getting married, Chen Xiaolan's family had reminded her that Zhao was emotionally unstable, lacked a sense of responsibility, and was not worth entrusting for life. However, Chen Xiaolan ignored the advice of her parents and resolutely decided to be with Zhao. The picture shows Chen Xiaolan and her son.
Later, Chen Xiaolan unexpectedly found that she had a new life in her belly, and she was ecstatic and looked forward to the future husband and godson. However, the pressure of life and various contradictions slowly brought this relationship to an end, and even the birth of two children did not make the marriage more solid, and Zhao Mou returned home less and less, and he became more and more cold to her.
Eventually, the husband left without a word. Chen Xiaolan was sad, she complained about why Zhao Mou was so thin-hearted, and tried many ways to finally be unable to save this man. After that, Chen Xiaolan pulled a son and a daughter alone, and the mother and daughter depended on each other for their lives, renting a rental house in Anshun City. The picture shows Chen Xiaolan and her son and daughter in the rental house.
In the one year after the treatment of his son Chen Yujin after being diagnosed with neuroblastoma, Chen Xiaolan informed Zhao through various relationships, but the other party was indifferent, almost did not come to the hospital to see, did not express any concern for the child, and was indifferent like a stranger. He completely forgot the promise he had made, and his own flesh and blood lying in a hospital bed that was not out of danger of life.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong
After Chen Yujin fell ill, he underwent two major tumor resection surgeries and more than a dozen chemotherapy treatments. For more than a year, continuous chemotherapy and high doses of drugs have made the children vomit often, have no appetite, and lose a lot of weight. "Mom, I have a stomachache." When it hurts, the child will turn sallow and struggle to cry with his little finger on his belly. Recalling the suffering of the child, the child has not enjoyed the care of the father since birth, nor does he have a healthy body, Chen Xiaolan is sad, holding the child silently in tears.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. During the more than a year of treatment, Chen Xiaolan spent all her savings and borrowed all her relatives and friends. Some friends and family, fearing that she would borrow money again, began to avoid seeing her. The rent of the rental house has been in arrears for half a year, fortunately, the landlord is very, very considerate of Chen Xiaolan's difficulties, comforting her: "Girlfriend, now encounter difficulties, when will you give the rent?" ”
In the face of difficulties, Chen Yujin's personality has also become stronger, and when he was young, he knew that his mother could not afford the high cost of treatment, and he said to his mother like a man: "Mom, I am still young, I can't help you." When I'm growing up, I'll take care of you. The 4-year-old has learned to be considerate of his mother, and when he saw his mother sad and sad, he sang over and over again in a childish voice: "Only the mother is good in the world, and the child with the mother is like a treasure, thrown into the arms of the mother, and happiness cannot be enjoyed." ”
As a mother, hearing your child hum this song to herself may be the happiest thing in the world. However, there is a time bomb in the child's body, which may explode at any time, and only continuous chemotherapy can make the life of this young and sensible child continue. Seeing that his son was so sensible, Chen Xiaolan made up his mind that no matter how hard it was, he couldn't give up and wanted to find a way.
Winter has passed, but I don't know when spring will come
Chen Xiaolan dried her tears, cheered herself up again, and knocked on the door of her relatives and friends again and again. What was given back to her was encouragement, polite rejection, and cool words. Someone behind her back said: "So young woman with a drag oil bottle, lend her money, when will it be repaid?" Chen Xiaolan swallowed bitterness and grievances, silently bearing the voices from the outside world.
As a single mother, she overcame too many difficulties: holding her child to many hospitals to find a doctor, supporting her tired body alone to register, caring for her young children in the aisle bed, and running for the child's treatment fees. Like a big tree, she opened her arms to shelter her children from the wind and rain, and outsiders sneered, but she was very determined in her heart: her son was not a burden, it was a baby that she gave birth to in October and exchanged her youth for.
At present, the tumor in the child's body has been removed, the condition has been well controlled, the child's physical recovery is imminent, and he needs to go to Chongqing Children's Hospital for chemotherapy every month. But the ongoing treatment had cost her all her savings and borrowed all her friends and family. Every day, she anxiously seeks ways to raise money for the treatment of her children.
Because of the deep love, because of the inseparable affection, Chen Xiaolan is struggling to persevere, hoping that you can give this weak family a little encouragement at the arrival of the hopeful spring, and use your great love to join hands with us, do not let the young life be extinguished.
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