Feng Xiaoqin, played by HaiQing in "Heart Residence", is a foreigner, chasing a man who is not excellent in appearance and ability in order to register, a "soft persimmon" that can be easily manipulated by himself, and asking the other party to change the nature cultivated for more than thirty years and be proactive; after marriage, even if she pays wholeheartedly for the family and is thoughtful everywhere, people still guard against her, afraid of her calculations.
Because the house was bought by Gu Lei before marriage, she was divorced and she was nothing, so she wanted to buy a house of her own and borrow money everywhere. When Feng Xiaoqin proposed to buy a house, the eldest sister Gu Qingyu pulled Gu Lei into her father's room, asked why she wanted to buy a house, and said that if Gu Lei wanted to buy a house, she would definitely borrow money, and if it was Feng Xiaoqin's idea, she would not borrow it.
Gu Lei grew up under the protection of his father and sister since he was a child, and he still lived under the protection of his father and sister at an early age, with the advantage of being kind and honest, and the disadvantage being that he was not responsible, incompetent, and enterprising. Where would he have the idea of buying a house, and agreed that Zhang Kou borrowed money from his sister in order to make friends with Feng Xiaoqin. After explaining the reason, the sister naturally refused Feng Xiaoqin's request to borrow money.
Every time Gu Qingyu came home, he would hold a small meeting with Gu Dad and his brother, also known as "The Speaking Time of Gu Qingyu and Sister Qingyu of family meetings". Seeing Gu Qingyu saying those words in the room, what to prevent Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Lei opened a pair of innocent big eyes and did not put one, it was too terrible, you can go out and say ah.
Although he was financially independent and moved out early in the morning, as the eldest daughter in the family, Gu Qingyu was deeply involved in various family affairs. Or as soon as there is a disturbance, she will be summoned home. The Gu Lei family is indeed parasitic on the big family of the Gu family, and the premise of the independence of the small family is the dignity they earn, right? But regardless of whether they are attached or not, everyone and the little family should have a sense of distance and proportion.
When Feng Xiaoqin used the excuse of the little tiger going to school to raise the need to buy a house again, she threw out another near-perfect solution, added her father's name to her house, and then moved the little tiger's hukou to solve the problem of going to school. After directly blocking Feng Xiaoqin's retreat, and even quarreling and getting angry, she questioned the reason why Feng Xiaoqin married Gu Lei in the first place...
The treatment of family relationships in Heart Dwelling is instructive, especially for women. No one in this drama is perfect, the audience's position will jump back and forth, one will stand Haiqing, see her pay so much and be felt sad by the in-laws as outsiders, and then stand Tong Yao, an independent strong woman, do not accept moral kidnapping to lend money to her sister-in-law.