At one time, I firmly believed that teaching was my lifelong ideal, and I wanted my children to run in the sun, actively participate in social activities, and love school and love learning because of me.
But now, the profession of a teacher, I can only smile and apologize to you. As a teacher, I have to admit that in some education, teachers are powerless.
All the phenomena that you are not accustomed to, I am not accustomed to
I hope: my children learn according to their interests, I want my children to run in the sun, I want my children to actively participate in social activities, I hope that my children are united and fraternal, I hope that students like school and love learning because of me.
On the first day of class, I saw the sun shining outside the window, the sun was blooming, I led the children to the flower beds to catch the spring, and a child was bumping his knees in a playful game, bulging a bag. I explained and apologized to the parents, who smiled and shook their hands and said, "It's okay, it's normal, the child grows up without getting hurt." ”
I love this profession because of the tolerance of parents
The children in other classes were envious of the children in our class who could come out and run between classes and asked the teachers one after another. So the teacher wrote a letter to the principal: "How do we take the class?" Everyone goes to the playground, in case something goes wrong, who is responsible? This has not happened before, and parents hit the school. ”
As a result, recess activities stopped
It is cold, most parents propose to turn on the air conditioning for their children, for good reasons: even the heating at home and the company is turned on, why should the children be frozen? After the vote, the air conditioner was turned on.
After two days, some children had a cold, and some parents complained: "All day closed classrooms, bacteria indoor circulation, children's clothes are inconvenient to wear, all are sick!" Hassle turning off the air conditioning. "The class group began to struggle. Eventually, the air conditioning was turned off.
During the spring season, the classes set up activities in the grass garden near the school, and I wanted to take the children to the zoo, go farther, and have a picnic. Ask parents for advice. As soon as I heard that the cost of the collective charter car was to be shared equally, most of them agreed, a few opposed, the activity was about to stop, fortunately, there was a strong parent who proposed to sponsor the whole process, and the line was happy. The children's essays were much richer, and I saw laughter between the words.
The board report of the class is one of the exercises in the child's ability to do projects independently, and the child is still young and needs the help of adults. Every time the board is reported, there are always enthusiastic parents participating, but there are also parents who are busy. Considering that each of the children needed exercise, I began to cycle in small groups. Soon there were parents complaining about the school, too many activities, too much homework, nothing to do with learning, the teachers were always innovative, and parents had to circle around the baton. Parents are very busy every day and have no time to do their children's homework.
So, back to the beginning. Parents who are willing to do it actively participate in their children's education and growth, and parents who do not participate do not even know when their children will take the midterm exam.
The children were naughty in class, and the class discipline was so poor that most of the students learned. My criteria are simple: you can read on your own, you can desert, but you can't influence other students. If you don't want to stay in the classroom, you can even go outside and play, and it doesn't matter if you come back when you are interested.
Parent complaint: The child is handed over to the school to manage you, why is he not in the classroom but you punish him outside? It's hard for me to explain to him that education in America is the same way, if you need children to keep themselves. He will one day enlighten, maybe not today, not now.
So the classroom was noisy. I punish the naughty child to keep him quiet and allow other children to learn, and parents will complain that I have punished the child, affecting the child's mental health. I ignored it, and other parents complained that the naughty kid was affecting most of the kids' learning and asked him to leave school.
Some parents said, what bullshit is happy education, do not study every day, no homework, how to compete in the future? Trouble teachers strictly manage and assign more homework.
Some parents said that too much homework affects the child's entertainment, he will have a boredom, please ask the teacher to assign less homework.
School meals are difficult to eat, and many parents complain; school meals are paid for to improve meals, and some parents also complain. It is best to do things without spending money, and how the money comes from is a matter of the country, a matter of society, and a matter of school.
The school does not open interest classes, parents complain; the school opens interest classes to invite teachers from outside to attend classes, and parents also complain about the charging standards.
The ideal of the profession is flattened in one complaint after another
I finally, like other teachers, asked the children not to leave their seats in the classroom after class, took a walk in the nearby garden in the spring, handed in the homework if you are willing to hand it in, unwilling to hand it over, all the class activities, please parents vote in the communication group, after the vote, please decide on your own.
I didn't do anything I wanted to do, and my ideals were getting farther and farther away from me. I also thought of letting my child roll in the snow in the snow like a Japanese child, so that they could feel the snow and have fun, but fortunately they didn't do it.
It wasn't the life and work I wanted, but I could only endure until I was able to change.
The powerful parent who supported me in leading my child on a long journey transferred my child to an international school. The parent who was active in running the newspaper immigrated with his child. The parent who smiled and forgave me for bumping my child also took the child to transfer.
People who have the ability and want to change are gone. What about the rest?
When I first heard someone complain about the low quality of the teaching profession, I would argue, talk about my efforts one by one, and find that people didn't care at all. I hear it again now and laugh it off.
Teachers, my profession, make me smile and apologize to you
Now you ask me again about my profession, and I will answer: I am a teacher of the people. Like a donkey pulling a mill, I struggle every day with whether the circle I turn is out of the rope, or whether the circle I draw is not round in the rope. What is grinding in the mill, I don't care.
How willing I am to find the ideals and enthusiasm of that year, as a teacher, I have to admit:
These five most important educations for children, the teacher is powerless
1. The teacher cannot guarantee your child's good conduct
Whether a person's grades are good or bad, character is the key! Morality can compensate for the defects of ability, and ability can hardly cover up the defects of morality. But a child's character is largely related to his tutoring. The teacher is only a preacher and a solver, but the parent is the influencer of the child's life. Parents' words and deeds are always greater than the teacher's 45-minute classroom education.
Therefore, if you want your child to have good character, family education is the key, and the teacher can't do anything about it!
2, the teacher can not give your child good habits
Children who grow up at mahjong tables and in front of televisions are definitely very different from children raised by parents who love to read. This is why many parents watch TV while urging their children to read seriously, often receive a strong rebellious psychology. How can you force your child to do something that you can't do yourself?
Most of the children raised by parents who are proactive and have good living habits are small adults who love learning and can reasonably arrange their time. Parents will save a lot of heart in education, so when you can't figure out why your children have so many bad problems, first review yourself, maybe you will find the root cause!
3, the teacher can not give your child the interest in reading
Many parents complain that their children do not love to learn and do not love to read. But I didn't ask myself, do you like to read? Children's interest in reading is cultivated from an early age, and two- or three-year-old children should start reading, rather than waiting for school to let the teacher cultivate your child's reading habits.
You have more books in your family and more children. If the parents play a good role model, the child will follow suit, and conversely, the child can only imitate you to do other things. Whether or not the gap in reading from an early age will be manifested in the later level of knowledge, cognitive ability and writing level.
4, the teacher can not help you cultivate the child's will
Teachers teach children more textbook knowledge, good living habits, human reasoning, and strong will, which depend on parents to cultivate. Teachers are not obliged to help you cultivate, these can only be cultivated by parents from an early age in their daily lives. If you ignore it, your child may have good grades, but the will is weak and cannot withstand any setbacks, so emotional intelligence education is also very important.
5, the teacher can not give your child a long-term sense of happiness
A person's original ecological family has a great impact on his life, husband and wife love, family harmony, children who grow up in a loving environment are destined to have a lot of sunshine in their hearts than children who grow up in families that are not sound or noisy all day. And this is something that the teacher can't give, but it can determine the child's life!
Educating their children well will always be the most important cause for parents
A good teacher may be able to influence children for three or five years, but the influence of parents is a lifetime! The child is not a teacher, and the parent will always be the child's first teacher and the child's eternal role model.
A good mom and dad is worth 200 good teachers! Teachers should not only understand this truth themselves, but also let parents understand it. To put it more simply, every child in the class is only a part of the work for the teacher; but parents are different, and educating their children well is always the most important cause of parents.
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