Love is a multiple choice question, and what kind of person you choose to be with will eventually present what kind of result.
With the man who loves us, wrapped in love, our whole person will also exude a different temperament from the inside out, and the loved one will always be beautiful.
With men who don't love us, we will continue to testify to our own doubts in the midst of gain and loss, whether the person we choose really does not love ourselves, or whether we have been thinking wildly.
The former can give us happiness, while the latter can only keep us in jail and regret our initial choices.
It's important for a man who loves us, but unfortunately, we sometimes don't know what a man really looks like before we can call his feelings for us love.
Fortunately, whether you love or not, there will be certain signs that can help us know the answer we want.
In a relationship between the sexes, sooner or later you will understand the truth that only true love, men will take the initiative to do "these".
Because of true love, I will take the initiative to show my weaknesses
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "When I met you, I became the most angry person and wanted to get your wholehearted love." If I have you, I will become the richest person, your love is the most precious, even if the whole world gives it to me, I will not change it. ”
Everyone has weaknesses, but for those who are less trusting, they will not show it because of fear of being disappointed; for those who love it will show it, because of enough trust.
Some men are indestructible before they meet their loved ones, they are wearing armor, they do not have a little weakness, and no one knows what they really care about;
And after meeting a loved one, they change.
Become stingy, become jealous, become calculating, and even become small-bellied, insecure, and easy to suffer from gain and loss.
That's because before their hearts were hard, and now, because of the people they love, their hearts are beginning to soften.
Those who are stingy, who suffer from gain and loss, are their weaknesses, and these weaknesses appear precisely because of our existence.
Such a man will hold us in the palm of his hand and love us.
Aren't we always thinking about what kind of men we want to be with?
Now we know, for the rest of our lives, to be with a man whose eyes are full of us.
Because of true love, he will take the initiative to inform you of his financial strength
Gu Tingye in the TV series "Do You Know It or Not" gave all his family property to Sheng Minglan for safekeeping on the night he became intimate with Sheng Minglan.
When Sheng Minglan saw that Gu Tingye had so much money, he was shocked.
In fact, she never thought of plotting Gu Tingye's money, anyway, she also had a dowry herself, and how much money Gu Tingye had didn't seem to have much to do with herself.
But Gu Tingye didn't think so, when he expressed his heart to Minglan, he had already said that he would not let Minglan seek perfection anymore, and he did not want Minglan to live as carefully as before.
He wants Minglan to live like himself, he wants Minglan to have confidence, and in a relationship, money is the most able to bring confidence to a woman.
Moreover, money is a very realistic thing, and in general, many people will avoid talking about money, because it is a very private thing.
But for Gu Tingye, who wants to go on with Sheng Minglan, he wants to tell Minglan about his economic strength, which is an indirect way to accept the other party in his heart.
In real life, if a man loves a woman, he will definitely tell her about his financial strength.
Because loving a person is unreserved, if love still leaves a way back for itself, then it must be because love is not deep enough.
Will be because of love, take the initiative to compromise, give in and tolerate
True love has never been like this: in the Korean drama "Mr. Love", the heroine's boyfriend is particularly serious every time he plays games with her.
If you lose, you have to talk about brain collapse, and the heroine is reluctant to work hard when she plays her boyfriend, but when the boyfriend plays herself, she can be described as riveted and full of desire to win or lose.
But love shouldn't be like that.
Love itself does not distinguish between winning and losing, but in a small game to sublimate each other's love, the focus is on the matter of love, not on the matter of winning or losing.
Love is inclusive, and it is hoped that the person who loves is happy, and that he can give in and compromise.
Men who truly love us will not keep a close eye on our shortcomings, but will tolerate.
Because to love a person is to love all she has, beautiful love, not beautiful also love.
Jiang Fangzhou once said: "Those who really appreciate you will always appreciate your self-confidence and pride, not your humble and flattering appearance." ”
With a man who truly loves us, we have a sense of invigorating, because we can be our truest selves as we please. And our whole life, we must also be with such a man to be the most beautiful.