Recently, I inadvertently talked to my colleague about my child's kindergarten, and found that her child did not like to go to kindergarten at first.
One day before going to bed, I asked my mother, "Can I not go to kindergarten?" Mom replied, "Go to bed first, and talk about it tomorrow." ”
When I woke up, I opened my eyes and said first words: "Mom, can I not go to kindergarten?" ”
Mom replied, "No, can Mom not go to work?" You go to kindergarten the same way I go to work, so I still have to go. ”
Recently, I inadvertently talked to my colleague about my child's kindergarten, and found that her child did not like to go to kindergarten at first.
One day before going to bed, I asked my mother, "Can I not go to kindergarten?" Mom replied, "Go to bed first, and talk about it tomorrow." ”
When I woke up, I opened my eyes and said first words: "Mom, can I not go to kindergarten?" ”
Mom replied, "No, can Mom not go to work?" You go to kindergarten the same way I go to work, so I still have to go. ”
Another time when I woke up with the same words, I couldn't go to the kindergarten, and I ended up seeing the little friends in the class. The two men held hands and talked, entered the school gate and turned back and said remember to pick me up.
The baby has just entered kindergarten, has not really adapted to the kindergarten environment, and has a certain resistance to enrollment. This is related to the baby's social adaptability, but also to the inappropriate way of education with the teacher.
In general, young children are psychologically fragile, especially for children who have just entered school, and need a process of adaptation either quickly or slowly. I have the following two suggestions:
Recently, I inadvertently talked to my colleague about my child's kindergarten, and found that her child did not like to go to kindergarten at first.
One day before going to bed, I asked my mother, "Can I not go to kindergarten?" Mom replied, "Go to bed first, and talk about it tomorrow." ”
When I woke up, I opened my eyes and said first words: "Mom, can I not go to kindergarten?" ”
Mom replied, "No, can Mom not go to work?" You go to kindergarten the same way I go to work, so I still have to go. ”
Another time when I woke up with the same words, I couldn't go to the kindergarten, and I ended up seeing the little friends in the class. The two men held hands and talked, entered the school gate and turned back and said remember to pick me up.
The baby has just entered kindergarten, has not really adapted to the kindergarten environment, and has a certain resistance to enrollment. This is related to the baby's social adaptability, but also to the inappropriate way of education with the teacher.
In general, young children are psychologically fragile, especially for children who have just entered school, and need a process of adaptation either quickly or slowly. I have the following two suggestions:
Find a companion for your child, a child of the same age or one or two years older.
Take time every day to let children and neighbors of similar age get along more, in order to establish good interpersonal and social relations, in the future kindergarten, you can go to school with your peers, so that you will not feel lonely and unaccompanied;
The formation of good habits must be accumulated bit by bit.
Cultivate children's normal routine and training children to urinate and defecate, the ultimate purpose is to make children adapt to group life, if children do not develop these habits, it is easy to be frustrated in group life, reduce their self-esteem; will also increase the kindergarten teacher's troubles, causing children's young minds will cause great harm, dare not easily try and take risks, lack of enterprising spirit.
Recently, I inadvertently talked to my colleague about my child's kindergarten, and found that her child did not like to go to kindergarten at first.
One day before going to bed, I asked my mother, "Can I not go to kindergarten?" Mom replied, "Go to bed first, and talk about it tomorrow." ”
When I woke up, I opened my eyes and said first words: "Mom, can I not go to kindergarten?" ”
Mom replied, "No, can Mom not go to work?" You go to kindergarten the same way I go to work, so I still have to go. ”
Another time when I woke up with the same words, I couldn't go to the kindergarten, and I ended up seeing the little friends in the class. The two men held hands and talked, entered the school gate and turned back and said remember to pick me up.
The baby has just entered kindergarten, has not really adapted to the kindergarten environment, and has a certain resistance to enrollment. This is related to the baby's social adaptability, but also to the inappropriate way of education with the teacher.
In general, young children are psychologically fragile, especially for children who have just entered school, and need a process of adaptation either quickly or slowly. I have the following two suggestions:
Find a companion for your child, a child of the same age or one or two years older.
Take time every day to let children and neighbors of similar age get along more, in order to establish good interpersonal and social relations, in the future kindergarten, you can go to school with your peers, so that you will not feel lonely and unaccompanied;
The formation of good habits must be accumulated bit by bit.
Cultivate children's normal routine and training children to urinate and defecate, the ultimate purpose is to make children adapt to group life, if children do not develop these habits, it is easy to be frustrated in group life, reduce their self-esteem; will also increase the kindergarten teacher's troubles, causing children's young minds will cause great harm, dare not easily try and take risks, lack of enterprising spirit.
Kindergarten is very different from the family environment, children in a new environment will feel lonely and helpless, miss their mothers, often cry, do not eat and sleep well, these are very common phenomena. After sending the child to the kindergarten, parents should not show worry and reluctance, and try to leave very easily, so that the child feels that sending kindergarten is not a terrible thing.
Most of the children today are only children, and it is best to send them to kindergartens where conditions permit, so that they can live a collective life, and children of the same age have a natural affinity with each other, and soon they will live together harmoniously and happily.
The discomfort of just going to kindergarten will pass quickly, and parents do not have to worry too much.
Recently, I inadvertently talked to my colleague about my child's kindergarten, and found that her child did not like to go to kindergarten at first.
One day before going to bed, I asked my mother, "Can I not go to kindergarten?" Mom replied, "Go to bed first, and talk about it tomorrow." ”
When I woke up, I opened my eyes and said first words: "Mom, can I not go to kindergarten?" ”
Mom replied, "No, can Mom not go to work?" You go to kindergarten the same way I go to work, so I still have to go. ”
Another time when I woke up with the same words, I couldn't go to the kindergarten, and I ended up seeing the little friends in the class. The two men held hands and talked, entered the school gate and turned back and said remember to pick me up.
The baby has just entered kindergarten, has not really adapted to the kindergarten environment, and has a certain resistance to enrollment. This is related to the baby's social adaptability, but also to the inappropriate way of education with the teacher.
In general, young children are psychologically fragile, especially for children who have just entered school, and need a process of adaptation either quickly or slowly. I have the following two suggestions:
Find a companion for your child, a child of the same age or one or two years older.
Take time every day to let children and neighbors of similar age get along more, in order to establish good interpersonal and social relations, in the future kindergarten, you can go to school with your peers, so that you will not feel lonely and unaccompanied;
The formation of good habits must be accumulated bit by bit.
Cultivate children's normal routine and training children to urinate and defecate, the ultimate purpose is to make children adapt to group life, if children do not develop these habits, it is easy to be frustrated in group life, reduce their self-esteem; will also increase the kindergarten teacher's troubles, causing children's young minds will cause great harm, dare not easily try and take risks, lack of enterprising spirit.
Kindergarten is very different from the family environment, children in a new environment will feel lonely and helpless, miss their mothers, often cry, do not eat and sleep well, these are very common phenomena. After sending the child to the kindergarten, parents should not show worry and reluctance, and try to leave very easily, so that the child feels that sending kindergarten is not a terrible thing.
Most of the children today are only children, and it is best to send them to kindergartens where conditions permit, so that they can live a collective life, and children of the same age have a natural affinity with each other, and soon they will live together harmoniously and happily.
The discomfort of just going to kindergarten will pass quickly, and parents do not have to worry too much.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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