Watching the news every day, I always see a lot of unfortunate things happening to those children who are not deeply involved in the world, and recently there was an incident that caused a sensation in the southern media circle, a sophomore girl who was not deeply involved in the world was abused by a reporter during her internship.
Such a tragedy has been repeated more than once, and parents should think about how to educate their children on the issue of self-safety protection in addition to full of anger.
The best protection for a daughter is extreme education
A 17-year-old girl once came home in the middle of the morning in the summer. After a few days, her father asked her out for a drink and said to her: "Drink as much as you can, Daddy will take responsibility for taking you home, feel free to drink!" ”
They ran to 5 restaurants that day to eat and drink, but by the time they got to the last one, they were not impressed, and she fell drunk on the bar.
Afterwards, her father called a taxi to take her home.
The next day, the girl woke up to find her father out early in the morning, but left her a letter.
The letter reads: Do you remember how much wine you drank last night and got drunk? Two beers and five corners of HIGH, and that's your limit.
There are a lot of bad people in the world, I can't always be around to protect you, so I let you know your limits, learn to protect yourself, I believe you can do it.
The father did not educate his daughter in a tough way, but used such a special way to teach her daughter a good lesson.
Indeed, for girls' self-safety protection education, what is most needed is a kind of extreme education. Parents did everything they could to raise their daughter and protect her for ten or twenty years.
But children can't always be in their own sights, and they have to grow up. When they grow up, society does not give girls too many opportunities to try and make mistakes.
Once there is, it will be fatal, so girls need to have a bottom line, understand the limits of what they can bear, and protect themselves by understanding their own limits first.
The best protection for my son is sunshine education
There was a 14-year-old boy who, after school, saw a book in the library that he liked for a long time, but he didn't have so much money, so he had the courage to hide the book in his arms.
Who knew that he was discovered by the boss who had just turned around, and the boss twisted him into the police station, and several policemen took turns interrogating him and calling the child's father.
Soon, the child's father arrived. The boy bowed his head and waited silently for his father's scolding.
"I think it must have been a misunderstanding." The father spoke faintly, "Because I know my son very well, he is a very sensible child."
He must have loved the book very much, but only because he didn't have enough money with him. You see if this works, I paid three times as much for this book, and it's over. ”
Then the father pulled out his wallet. The boy was stunned, he looked at his father, and his father also looked at him, and there was no reproach in his eyes, only pity.
After leaving the police station, the father stopped, and he picked up the child's face full of shame and touch and said, "Son, people will make mistakes more or less in this life."
Listen, forget about it! Don't let it leave a shadow in your heart, study and live well, as long as you don't make the same mistakes in the future, you are still a child who makes your parents proud! ”
After speaking, he solemnly put the book in the hands of the child. The boy cried uncontrollably, and his father lovingly took him into his arms.
The best protection for boys is sunshine education. Boys will inevitably make mistakes in their growth, and if they cannot get the correct education in time after making mistakes.
Affected by too many negative factors in society, it is easy to go astray and fall into the quagmire of shadows and cannot extricate themselves.
At this time, it is necessary for the sunshine education of parents to teach children to learn to take responsibility, so that children can learn from mistakes and take responsibility for their own actions.
In the face of some bad behaviors of children, parents need more logical and positive discipline, while pointing out mistakes.
Also point out some of the merits of your child. Let the child learn to appreciate himself and be a better self, which is a sublimation of teaching boys to protect themselves.
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