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At the award ceremony of "Moving China's 2021 Person of the Year", an ordinary but extraordinary girl appeared, and her name was very good. His name is Jiang Mengnan.
In front of a number of great people who have won honors for the country and done practical things for the people, Jiang Mengnan seems very mediocre, she has not achieved such achievements, and what is extraordinary is that Jiang Mengnan has surpassed herself and created a miracle like God.
The girl was deaf at half a year old, but was admitted to The Tsinghua Doctorate
30 years ago, Jiang Mengnan was born in an ordinary family, his parents are teachers, he thought that this girl could grow up happily and worry-free, but an accident made Jiang Mengnan diagnosed by doctors as extremely severe neurotic deafness, and when he grew up, he was also deaf and mute.
In order to let their daughter integrate into society, Mengnan's parents did not relax for a moment, they put Xiao Mengnan's hand on their throat, let Mengnan feel the vibration of the vocal cords, take Mengnan to learn lip language, practice over and over again, learn from one Chinese character after another...
Mengnan did not live up to the hardships of her parents, not only learned lip language, but also enrolled in a "normal" school, sometimes the teacher spoke too fast, Mengnan can only rely on the board book to study the learning content, her hardships can be imagined.
However, in such a hard environment, Mengnan taught herself the 5th grade course and advanced to the 6th grade, although she had flaws, Mengnan's results were amazingly good.
Later, not only was he admitted to the best junior high school, but he was also admitted to Jilin University with a high score of 615 points, and after completing his graduate studies, Mengnan was successfully admitted to the doctorate of Tsinghua University...
The students who studied together evaluated Monnan as a sunflower, and the tutor commented that Monnan was smart and hardworking, and the model built was also the best model in the world to solve this kind of problem!
No one could have imagined that this beautiful-looking and even somewhat weak-looking girl actually had such a great energy in her body, and after completing her studies at Tsinghua, Jiang Mengnan was more determined in her goals and values, and she wanted to treat and save people and speak out for the disabled!
Standing on the honor stage that touched China, Jiang Mengnan represented not only his own efforts and efforts in the past thirty years, but also the deep love from his parents.
How parents demand of their children, what the child will become
Jiang Mengnan said in an interview that from the moment he understood things, he knew that he was different from other children. Her parents comforted her that instead of complaining about others, it was better to use her best efforts to overcome it.
Every time Jiang Mengnan learns to pronounce a word, his parents have corrected and accompanied him countless times, if Mengnan's parents did not ask their daughter as a sound person, perhaps Mengnan would not have achieved such an achievement today.
Mengnan herself is also under the guidance of her parents, firmly believing that she will not be worse than others, and is willing to pay hundreds of times more efforts than others for her "imperfection".
Every child comes into this world, there are countless unknown possibilities, the key is that parents guide and educate in a timely manner, especially early education.
Just as many parents do not want their children to lose on the "starting line", Jiang Mengnan's parents do not want their daughter to be a flawed person.
Therefore, in the education and guidance of Mengnan in childhood, this has been noticed. The younger the child, the more malleable it is and the more likely it is to work miracles.
Many times, parents give their children too much love and affection, but limit the child, do not try to give him more protection because of imperfection, what children need is to become stronger.
Instead of protecting their children, parents should concentrate on guiding their children to learn or cultivate a skill, not to be marginalized by society because of "defects", but to create greater and more value with their own abilities.
For a family that is rich in spiritual materials, it may not need to be touched by the example of Jiang Mengnan, but for many ordinary parents and children, Jiang Mengnan is the best proof:
Nothing is impossible, as long as you are willing to believe in the child and be willing to accompany the child, there is no other shore that cannot be reached, and there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome!