"The family is the first lesson in life, and parents are the first teachers of children." Every child is born on a blank piece of paper, the first touch of color is added by the parents, a good family atmosphere and family education have an important role in the growth of a child.
Ancient Mengmu three times to relocate, only for the children to provide a good family atmosphere, so that Mencius can actively learn knowledge, and the end of the three relocations is to move to the side of the school, slowly Mencius became interested in knowledge, took the initiative to follow the gentlemen to learn knowledge, increase knowledge, for his future growth into a generation of Confucianism to pave the way, the world believes that this is the result of Mengmu's gradual education of Mencius.
The success of modern scientist Qian Xuesen is also inseparable from the cultivation of the family, Qian Xuesen's mother, Ms. Zhang Lanjuan, is the person who has had the greatest influence on his life, Qian Xuesen's mother has taught him to pay attention to knowledge since he was a child, and to lead by example, so that Qian Xuesen can actively learn knowledge, which provides great help for him to grow into a scientist who has contributed to the country.
It can be seen that parents are extremely important to their children's education, and ms. Deng Yingchao's growth is also inseparable from the cultivation of her mother Yang Zhende.
Ms. Yang Zhende is not only a military doctor with a brilliant hand to rejuvenate, but also a highly respected revolutionary predecessor, and at the same time, she has a lot of experience in educating children, educating children to pursue progress, self-improvement and self-confidence, which has a huge impact on Deng Yingchao's life.
Happy childhood
"Lucky people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are healing their childhood all their lives." A child's childhood is very important, at this stage, the child will form different personalities because of various things in childhood, different values, the impact of a happy childhood is positive, and the values and satisfaction brought by childhood will accompany people throughout their lives.
Yang Zhende's childhood was happy, in that era of feudal thought, her father did not have the view of preferring sons to daughters, but regarded this daughter as a pearl in the palm of his hand, and also refused to wrap his feet around Yang Zhende, regardless of the gossip of outsiders, this father only wanted his daughter to grow up healthy and happy.
Since ancient times, marriage events are decided by parents, which also produces many arranged marriages, these arranged marriages make many people unable to find happiness throughout their lives, Yang Zhende's father is open-minded, thinking that the happiness of children should be pursued by themselves, so they did not make a marriage contract for Yang Zhende early.
Moreover, he also personally taught Yang Zhende to read and write, let her learn knowledge, cultivate the views of freedom and liberation, independence and autonomy, and also warned her not to rely on others.
Under the careful teaching of her father, Yang Zhende developed an independent, self-reliant and self-reliant character, while also cultivating a tenacious heart, these qualities made her not afraid in the face of difficulties, even if there is no one to rely on, she can independently face the storms in life, these qualities she developed in childhood played a major role in her later life.
Unfortunate encounters
Life can not be flowers all the way, always accompanied by various thorns, it is precisely because of the existence of these difficulties, so that people out of the comfortable circle, to achieve growth.
Yang Zhende's life is also like this, because her grandfather died tragically because of taking the wrong medicine, which cast a shadow over the family to avoid
When such things appeared, her parents asked her to learn medical knowledge, and she lived up to expectations, mastering a certain amount of knowledge at a young age and already being able to deal with some simple problems.
But life is always full of all kinds of accidents, when the young Yang Zhende and her parents relocated to Guangxi, the parents left her because of illness, this young Yang Zhende huge impact, she has not yet reached the level of independence, her parents have died, so she can only be forced to grow up and begin to rely on herself for her own life.
And even if life is hard, she also specializes in medical skills, helping people around her to solve some common problems, and slowly the locals know this little doctor.
At the age of 25, Yang Zhende married Deng Tingzhong, a military general, and the two lived in harmony. After marrying Deng Tingzhong, Yang Zhende could have enjoyed a good life, but the education she received from childhood made her not too dependent on others, so she did not give up practicing medicine to save people because of her rich living conditions.
After marriage, the two had a son, but unfortunately died, and later had a daughter, Yang Zhende loved this child very much, named her Wenshu, and Yang Zhende attached great importance to the education of the child, she was like her father who trained her.
Just when they thought that life would be spent in such a stable way, misfortune happened, Deng Tingzhong was too strong, was not tolerated by his superiors, seized his small mistake and exiled him to Xinjiang, and then unfortunately died of a violent illness.
When she lost her husband, Yang Zhende was only 36 years old, and in order to earn a living, she had to take her young daughter around to practice medicine, and when the money was not enough to make ends meet, she went to the academy to teach in exchange for money.
No matter how hard life is, Yang Zhende did not give up the idea of letting children study and learn, always seized every opportunity to let children have access to knowledge, later, Wen Shu changed her name to Yingchao when she grew up and joined the Communist Party of China, and Yang Zhende also has progressive ideas, and her daughter is a spiritual comrade-in-arms, and they walk together on the road of progress.
At the age of 56, Yang Zhende was already working as a military doctor in the army, treating comrades in the military, and often communicating with comrades to ensure their mental health while solving their physical diseases.
Excellent daughter
Yang Zhende's daughter Deng Yingchao is an excellent Communist Party member, and she and her husband, Premier Zhou, have been seeking happiness for the people all their lives.
Deng Yingchao and Premier Zhou met in the May Fourth Movement, in this movement, they left an impression on each other, and then Deng Yingchao joined the Communist Party, became a revolutionary teammate with Premier Zhou, and walked through more than 50 years of struggle together after marriage.
brief summary:
Yang Zhende's self-reliant and self-reliant character is inseparable from the careful cultivation of her parents, and it is these excellent characters that have created her. At the same time, it also gives us new enlightenment for young people in the new era, we must pay attention to the children's family atmosphere and family education, only from a young age to cultivate good morality, the formation of good qualities of people have a greater possibility to succeed, parents should learn to lead by example, set a good example for their children, and provide more hope for their future.