Children are the whole of a family, children are also the heart of parents, any parent wants their children to grow up healthy and safe, so the safety of children can not be ignored.
As the first guardian of the child, some parents take care of the child very carefully, never let the child leave their own line of sight half a step, and some parents are more careless, thinking that the child will not have an accident, as long as it is properly watched.
But after all, the child is small, there is no sense of safety, sometimes it is inevitable that accidents will occur, as parents see their children have accidents, the first time is to save the child or blame each other?
Recently, Henan Shangqiu, a couple in the high-speed rail platform waiting for the train, the child accidentally fell into the gap of the high-speed rail station, the mother jumped down at the first time, and the father blamed the mother on the side for not optimistic about the child, causing a hot discussion among netizens.
According to informed netizens, the couple took a young child to wait at the high-speed rail station, parents are brushing mobile phones, children follow the mother, the mother holds the child in one hand, and the mobile phone in the other hand.
The child had been having a good time around his mother, but suddenly ran to the tracks of the high-speed rail station, and stepped into the gap of the high-speed rail station with one foot, and a high-speed train parked there was about to leave, and the situation was very dangerous.
The mother found that the child fell into the gap of the high-speed rail station, frightened, immediately ran over, the first time jumped down to save the child, the father also found out at this time, walked over to look at the wife and child in the gap, said a complaining word: "Let you look after the child, what are you doing?" ”
The mother did not have time to argue, and while holding the child up, she said in her mouth: "I'm sorry! Dad took the baby from Mom's hand and turned to leave, while Mom climbed up through the gap in the high-speed rail by herself.
At this time, the high-speed rail is about to start, the situation is very dangerous, the high-speed rail station staff found the situation, timely stopped the high-speed rail, there is no further danger, the mother and child were rescued safely.
The video shows that from the time the child fell off the rail to the child was rescued, the father did not jump down to save the child at the first time, nor did he pull his wife, but complained that the wife did not look after the child, turned around and left after picking up the child, and did not care about the wife who was still in the gap.
For the performance of the father, netizens are also a hot discussion, accusing the father of lack of responsibility and responsibility, why should the child be optimistic about the responsibility of the mother instead of the responsibility of the father?
Some netizens said: Although no one wants the child to be in danger, since the danger occurs, the first time is to save the child instead of blaming the other party's fault. This dad would only blame his wife for not reviewing his own faults, and such a man is too selfish.
Some netizens said: The child fell into the gap of the high-speed rail, the mother jumped down at the first time, this is an instinctive reaction, the father took the child from the mother's hand but did not pull the wife, such a man is really too cold-blooded, is not worried about the safety of the wife?
Some netizens said: It is not whose responsibility is it that the child has an accident, and since the parents are around, why do they have to be optimistic about the child? Isn't it the responsibility of a father to take care of a child?
From the words and deeds of the man in the video, it can be seen that the man is indeed more selfish, and when an accident occurs, he only knows to blame the other party, rather than reviewing his own faults, which is a manifestation of no sense of responsibility and responsibility.
The child is husband and wife, husband and wife have the responsibility to take care of the child, originally the child had an accident, the mother has been very sad to blame herself, so despite the danger of the first time to jump down, the father not only did not comfort, but also pushed the responsibility to the wife, this is a man should have the performance?
As a husband, you should rely on your wife and children, and you should give your wife and children enough security and trust to increase their happiness because they are around.