January 1 of this year
A big thing happened in the parents' circle
The Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education was officially implemented
Parents have ushered in the era of "bringing babies according to law"
How do "hit worker" parents respond?
How can I bring a baby according to the law?
Do you want to start the era of "inner volume"?
All kinds of anxiety quietly entered everyone's mind
Don't worry! We help you!
Special plan of the Pudong New Area Women's Federation for the "March 8th" rights protection
"Today, did you bring a baby according to law" live broadcast
A total of 120,000 people watched online
If you miss it, it doesn't matter!
Xiaodong sorted out the knowledge points for you
Part one Keywords: Homeschooling
ask
My baby wants to teach me, how can there be a legal provision?
answer
The fundamental purpose of family education legislation is to return children's education to the path of rational development and promote the healthy growth of children and adolescents.
Do not do homework mother ci zi filial piety, a homework chicken flying dog jump, such a parent-child puzzle to how to crack?
Excessive chicken baby and lying flat parenting are not advisable.
Article 22 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education provides that minors' parents or other guardians shall reasonably arrange time for minors to study, rest, recreation, and physical exercise, to avoid increasing the burden of minors' studies, and to prevent minors from becoming addicted to the Internet.
The only thing to do is to ask, disregard for mental health, am I too harsh?
It is especially necessary to pay attention to the mental health of children.
The Family Education Promotion Law mentions: "Pay attention to the mental health of minors, teach them to cherish life, and educate them on safety knowledge in traffic travel, healthy Internet access and bullying prevention, drowning prevention, fraud prevention, abduction prevention, sexual assault prevention, etc., to help them master safety knowledge and skills, and enhance their awareness and ability to protect themselves." ”
A truly excellent child is inseparable from an indomitable "big heart". The only price for parents to ask and ignore their children's mental health is to raise "hollow" children. Such a child, even if the surface is bright and beautiful, the heart is actually full of holes. When they really encounter setbacks and tribulations, they will be vulnerable. Therefore, as parents, what we really have to do is to let go of the obsession with scores and rankings and pay more attention to the psychological state of children.
Don't you dare to be too strict with your child, too doting, and blindly conniving, will you raise a bear child?
Habit is like killing a child, and coddling is hurt.
The Family Education Promotion Law states that parents should be "strict and kind, and pay equal attention to care and strict requirements." ”
Studies have found that doting families tend to be more likely to raise problem children. A questionnaire survey by the Social Survey Center of China Youth Daily showed that "in response to the endless phenomenon of bear children, up to 69.5% of respondents attributed it to their parents' unprincipled indulgence and coddling." In fact, true love for children is always with a little fierceness. Don't compromise when it's time to set the rules, don't back down when you stick to the bottom line, and don't be soft when you should let go. In this way, our children can grow into people who conform to the development of the times.
Part two Keywords: Family Responsibilities
Is it unreasonable to punish children at subway stations?
Any violence or wanton insult to a child in the name of education has actually violated the latest law.
The Family Education Promotion Law stipulates that adults should "respect the personal dignity of minors, protect minors' privacy and personal information, and protect the lawful rights and interests of minors." ”
In the eyes of many parents, such a pre-godson's education method is very efficient. By scolding and criticizing in front of everyone, the child will be ashamed and courageous, thus making it more memorable. In fact, a truly good education always begins with respect, loyalty to understanding, and love. Only from the perspective of children and observing their feelings can we better stimulate children's self-examination and self-love, and truly speak the truth into their hearts.
Now that many families are in the position that mothers take on the responsibility of education and fathers may miss this role for a long time, what are the consequences for children?
Other family members shall assist and cooperate with minors' parents or other guardians in carrying out family education, creating a good family education environment.
The parents' model of "one singing red face and one singing white face" has been popular in Chinese family education for decades and was once revered as a "tip-and-treat". But now it seems to be debatable, it is difficult for children to learn rules, and it is easy to form a wrong view of right and wrong.
Part three Keywords: Respect
My parents promised not to enter my room a dozen times, but none of them did, and they also made copies of my diary, and I was almost out of breath.
Shout them to study the Family Education Promotion Act!
Family education shall respect the personal dignity of minors, protect minors' privacy rights and personal information, and safeguard minors' lawful rights and interests. Article 17 of the Family Education Promotion Law "shall pay attention to the physical, psychological, and intellectual development of minors, and respect their right to participate in relevant family affairs and express their opinions." ”
The road of life is still the child's own way, we must respect the child's privacy, promote the sense of ownership of young people, and shoulder the sense of responsibility for the family.
What should adolescent children do if they rebel?
Education is conquest, not subjugation.
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More important than family education is dialogue, understanding, and using the "authority" of parents to direct children, which will only make children gradually away from you. Parents should completely abandon the parental shelf that is high up and preachy, and become condescending to get along with their children on an equal footing, so that children can become willing to confide in their parents and change from "working against each other" with their parents to happy cooperation.
looks
"Parenting" is the easiest profession in the world
It has no thresholds, and almost everyone can do it
But in fact
This is precisely the most difficult profession in the world
Because of what parents do
It will all be about the direction of another life
March 12 at 2:00 PM
We continue to learn
"Respect for children and dialogue with your baby"
Source: Pudong Women's Federation
Rule of Law Pudong Comprehensive Editor
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