When I became a mother, I learned that one person can play 7 roles

When you become a mother, how have you changed compared to before? And how do you feel?

Let's listen to the story of Bao Mama @ Xing Xiaoxi from Lilac Mother Planet.

When I was a mother, I could say that I was definitely a "weak little girl", and I was not touched by any physical work or dirty work. Even when I was pregnant, I had been instilling in my teammates, and in the future, he had to rush to do everything with the baby, and he couldn't tire me.

As a result, after becoming a mother, unlocking skills one after another, I realized that I was too small to look down on myself before! If you don't pay attention, you have already practiced the heptathlon! I believe that all those who are mothers have found that they have won!

Staying up late often wins the general

From the first day of giving birth, staying up late is destined to accompany every new mother.

Every night when he heard the baby's crying, he reflexively picked up his clothes and blocked the baby's mouth with "milk"; the baby has been crying is not sleeping, and can only hold the baby back and forth at home to walk back and forth to sleep indefinitely;

Set the alarm clock every day, start pumping on time in the middle of the night: "drops, pumping card", once you accidentally sleep over, the milk will rise to wake up, and your chest will be wet.

Who hasn't crashed at 1 a.m., 2 a.m., 3 a.m., 4 a.m., 5 a.m.? Who didn't coax the baby to witness the sunrise?

As for when liberation? It's all about creation. I'm in my 11th month and still face a sleeping scumbag baby, and the day of liberation is still far away.

A master of knowledge

What used to be the thing I hated the most was now a must-have procedure every time Vala stinks.

"Wow, today's golden brown and big paste, great."

"Well, how many flaps today, maybe a little indigestion."

"Ah, how can it pull out red?!" Oh, it turned out to be the red heart dragon fruit I ate yesterday."

The "Bristol Poop Classification" is already well understood, and every time your baby eats well, just look at the poop.

Popeye

In the past, I was tired of walking around and carrying some things by myself, and I basically couldn't lift heavy things.

Now, the baby has grown from five or six pounds to more than twenty pounds, and she has also trained amazing arm strength, usually holding the baby in her left hand, and carrying a lot of things with her right hand; gradually practicing at night, she can hold the baby for 2 hours, so that unfortunately she has "mother's hand".

But seeing the quiet and cute appearance of the baby in her arms was really full of power in an instant.

Nutrition dietitian

When I was single, I almost didn't go to the kitchen, and finally began to study complementary foods when I was 6 months old, what nutrients were more nutritious, what methods looked better, which ingredients tasted more liked by babies, and I watched them every day.

Follow the tutorial to make muffins to make steamed cakes, fail once to continue to come again, the result is that the baby does not give face, only eat a bite and do not eat, it is also a common thing.

Even if you buy baby food outside, you have learned to look at the ingredient list, whether there are additives, how much iron content, no sodium, no white sugar, a direct pass that is not qualified.

Pat The Baby Party

When the baby is feeding, it is so cute, take a few pictures; the baby is asleep, too cute, take a few more pictures; the baby cries non-stop, it is actually cute, and a few more photos!

I want to shoot a fart and yawn, and my baby is the cutest no matter what she does! It didn't take long to find that the phone photo album was full of photos of the baby, and it was no longer his own selfie.

Even sending a circle of friends, I can't help but come to Zhang Wa's picture. Before, I actually couldn't understand the crazy baby in the circle of friends, and now I completely understand, the baby is so cute, I can't help it, but I will try to hold back, after all, people in the circle of friends don't necessarily think so.

But embarrassingly, the phone's memory doesn't seem to be enough... Next time, I want to change the maximum capacity phone!

Nursery rhymes

I still remember last year's annual report on listening to songs, my singer of the year was properly changed from Tian Fuzhen to "baby bus"... Every day is played are "good mother", "count ducks" and "little white rabbit", I also have to sing and dance with it, a year later, the new pop songs have not listened to a few, but all the children's songs have been learned.

Next time I go to KTV, I can start performing nursery rhymes directly!

Master of time management

In the past, I always felt that 24 hours a day was wasted a lot of times, but now it is obvious that 48 hours a day is not enough, not that we have to go around the baby, but she really can't leave you.

If a person takes a baby, he often does not eat a few bites of food at the end of the day, and the toilet has to be carried up with the baby, and the baby is not easy to fall asleep, and he also has to hurry to do trivial housework.

When I really have time to idle, Weibo Taobao is not so fragrant, I just want to sleep well, otherwise I don't have the energy to "fight" the next day. The most frightening thing is that just after lying down and preparing to rest, I heard the baby's crying again.

This is especially true for working mothers after maternity leave, who have to finish work and attend lengthy meetings while squeezing time to pump milk and wash bottles, and do not dare to delay for a moment after work, rushing home.

My situation is that my mother is helping to take the baby together, but my mother also needs to relax, at this time I must pull up my teammates and share it with myself. I have always advised myself to be a mother with a bigger heart, as long as I can let go of a little, it will still be easier, don't do everything yourself, let others do it yourself.

In fact, no one is born to be a mother, we are all reinvigorated in countless sighs and collapses, and slowly learn in front of it. But after experiencing so much suffering, in exchange for a little angel who accompanies you and sticks to you, no matter how tired it is, it is worth it, she is my strong armor, but also my fragile weakness.