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True love itself is a rare thing, some people have never had it in their lives, and some people realize it after missing it, but it is too late.
There are two most universal commonalities in human nature, namely: the desire for perfection and the nostalgia for what was once possessed.
These two points are contradictory, when people make choices, they are always afraid of not choosing the best, and after having them, they think that this is the worst of many items.
As Qiong Yao once said: People are a complex of contradictions.
Many things in the world are time-sensitive, missed, can never go back, love is just like this, a turn, is a lifetime.
It is said that the ex is a thorn in the heart of a man, in fact, what he really misses is only the original feeling and the self at that time, nothing more.
There is a "Chicconi effect" in psychology, which refers to people who are more impressed by unfinished things than they have already done, which is a normal psychological state of people, which is why men are always obsessed with their first love or ex.
Compared with the thoughtfulness of marriage, love is more like a whim, love requires passion and romance, and marriage pursues stability and steadfastness, which is especially reflected in men's choice of mates.
"Red Roses and White Roses" once wrote: Even if a man has both white roses and red roses, he will definitely think of yellow roses, pink roses, white roses and the like.
Men's fantasies about love will last a lifetime, nostalgic for the past, looking forward to meeting, looking at the family, looking at the outside... This is what it is for men to do.
From this point of view, a woman does not have to be angry with a man's ex, although you may not be his favorite, but it must be the most suitable one.
Everything in the world comes and goes, there is a time, and the one who can enter marriage hand in hand is the right person who meets at the right time.
Cherish what you have now, the past is full of smoke.