Maybe every man has had two women like that, at least two. Married to the red rose, over time, the red became a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed", married to the white rose, the white is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart.
The opening sentence of "Red Rose and White Rose" has already nakedly revealed the insatiable desires of human nature, whether you have white moonlight or red jiaorui, you always remember the partition flower that you have not owned.
In the book, Tong Zhenbao once met a Chinese girl named Rose when she was studying in the UK, rose entered a British school, but she was more British than any Englishman, and she was particularly dashing and indifferent to the most important things that Chinese women thought was most important. She fell in love with the talented Tong Zhenbao, and once Tong Zhenbao sent her home, Rose's body jumped out of her clothes, full of emotion, just thinking of spending a moment of spring supper with the handsome man in front of her, while Tong Zhenbao felt that Rose was too young and frivolous, and anyone could be so casual, even a little crazy. In the face of the temptation of rose flesh, he always restrained himself, did not let himself fall into the sea of desire carnival, he thought that he was full of determination, fully worthy of the image of a decent gentleman, and the contemporary "Yanagishita Hui" personality also walked around him.
When he met Wang Jiaorui, the red rose that was once british was like borrowing a corpse to return the soul, entering Wang Jiaorui's body, and the temperament charm was even more than enough, between the hands and feet, Gu Pan flowed, and this red rose had married someone else - his friend Wang Shihong. Wang Jiaorui is born enchanting, and her husband Wang Shihong does not have much conjugal feelings, Wang Shihong is very reluctant to see his wife Water Yanghua, but he has too many things to take care of. Because he had to go out to run errands once, he had to leave Wang Jiaorui alone at home.
Wang Shihong naturally trusted Tong Zhenbao, who was known as the "contemporary Liu Xia Hui", and did not doubt that they would have something to do. But tong Zhenbao, as a "righteous gentleman", has long been shaken in his mind, and has been stirred by Wang Jiaorui's beauty and enthusiastic temperament, and soon developed into an underground lover.
When Wang Jiaorui is deeply involved in it, it highlights her unscrupulous and naïve personality, she wants to divorce Wang Shihong, and she likes Tong Zhenbao, and when Tong Zhenbao faces Wang Jiaorui who dares to love so much, he feels panic, so he can't face his friend Wang Shihong, nor can he face the eyes of everyone, he refuses, he thinks that Wang Jiaorui loves him and thinks for him, thinking that the love between them can only become the love between friends, and the world will not recognize the love between them. But she cried and saw Tong Zhenbao, who was just a hypocrite who coveted the flesh, and her passion flame was extinguished in an instant, and their underground affair ended.
After Tong Zhenbao woke up, he restored his image as a gentleman, and later was introduced to Meng Yanli, who was as clean as white moonlight.
Meng Yanli grew up in a feudal education family, abide by loyalty, women's morality, for Tong Zhenbao to do the most is to be respectful, humble and condescending, at home, no matter how wrong Tong Zhenbao is, outside she always establishes a positive image of Tong Zhenbao's integrity, talent, and politeness. The reason why Tong Zhenbao valued her and made her his wife was precisely because of the holy and loyal qualities of Meng Yanli, according to his words, Meng Yanli was like a white rose in his heart, white and flawless everywhere.
When facing a person for a long time, all his advantages will slowly turn into a defect, Meng Yanli's white and flawless has become like a blank piece of paper, lifeless, even when he and Tong Zhenbao are entangled and twisting, they always maintain their own reserved state, which makes Tong Zhenbao more and more lose interest, usually Meng Yanli's Bi Gongbi, no longer let himself feel that there is a big man's style, it is completely obscure, he will always inadvertently compare Meng Yanli with the roses of the past, I always felt that Meng Yanli was missing what he wanted.
Tired of too long, Tong Zhenbao had nowhere to vent the flame of lust had to burn to the fireworks Willow Lane, Meng Yanli naturally knew that her husband was looking for flowers and asking for willows outside, but she did not quarrel with her husband for this, still suppressed the loneliness and grievances in her heart, lived a husband and wife life in name only, at home was a bitter woman inside, and still did like a virtuous wife on the outside, always maintaining the image of a beautiful, white and flawless white rose in the eyes of everyone, and maintaining the appearance of a good husband in the eyes of outsiders everywhere for Tong Zhenbao.
Tong Zhenbao forgives her, and women are always narrow-minded and kind-hearted.
In a fortuitous situation, Tong Zhenbao went home but saw Meng Yanli and a tailor dressed in an untidy, saying that it was tailor-made, but the toolbox was not opened, only to see the two looking at each other, the pulse contained affection, he understood that this white rose in his home had become a red rose in the eyes of others, he thought that his loyal wife had also crossed the minefield, so he left in anger, along the way, it seemed that all the people looked at him with strange eyes, and he was finally admitted to the hospital because of a car accident, fortunately there was no danger to his life.
Tong Zhenbao, as a man in a patriarchal society, can naturally ignore Meng Yanli. But when a woman disobeys herself, but fully displays the possessive side of a man, and can do whatever she wants, a woman cannot have a little betrayal.
When Tong Zhenbao met Wang Jiaorui again in the car, the words that had been rehearsed many times surged into his heart, and he felt a thousand emotions, but Wang Jiaorui was no longer Madame Wang, but Madame Li. Originally thought that Wang Jiaorui would cry, but in the end it was he who shed tears, it was he who let Wang Jiaorui learn how to love...
Zhang Ailing gave Tong Zhenbao a chance to reform himself in the book, allowing him to return to a normal family and a state of life in line with society, but this state is not his original face, the white rose is still like a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, and the red rose has really become a cinnabar mole on the heart, but it is hidden by the real reality, and continues to live a seemingly normal life, showing the maturity and transparency that we are accustomed to.
"Red Rose and White Rose" can be said to be a true portrayal of many marriages and families.
Marriage, many times, is to live one person's life into the emptiness and loneliness of two people. When we yearn to get the white rose or red rose in our hearts, everything is beautiful, because we fall in love with a person and fall in love with his soul, but when we really get it, all his goodness becomes ugly, and we always fantasize about another completely different him.
Whether it is a white rose or a red rose, the key is to see what kind of him you meet, meet someone who no longer loves, whether you are a red rose or a white rose, it is a discarded rice stick, mosquito blood on the wall.
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