Illustration: Stills from the movie "Red Roses and White Roses"
List of books read by Zhongnian/
This recommended book: Zhang Ailing's "Red Rose and White Rose"
Zhang Ailing's novella "Red Rose and White Rose" I have read many times, and each time I look at it, I will have a new sense of perception and analysis, and all aspects are very intriguing.
I was attracted to this novel not only because of its popularity, but also because it reflected the true human nature. And the reason why it has become the most famous one in Zhang Ailing's works is probably because it has poked the hearts of many people.
Many people, more or less, can find their own shadow in this novel.
Whether you are a man or a woman, the sentient beings in the relationship can find a counterpart with themselves. Whether it is good or bad, all of them have been clearly seen by Zhang Ailing and written thoroughly.
The novel mainly revolves around a man and two women, but it is not a vicious love triangle, because the two women do not know each other, they are just connected with a man separately.
These two women are the red rose and the white rose in the man's heart, respectively. The red rose is called Jiaorui, which is what the male protagonist Zhenbao has always remembered and always put in his heart.
The white rose is called Meng Yanli, she is Zhenbao's wife, Zhenbao does not love her, and even a little disgusted with her. When he finally discovers that she has an intimate relationship with an ugly tailor, he begins to hate her.
The two women are inextricably linked to Zhenbao, Jiaorui is the wife of Zhenbao's best friend Shi Hong, who ended his marriage because he fell in love with him, and Zhenbao was afraid of ruining his future, so he did not want to be responsible for Jiaorui, so he ruthlessly cut her off.
Since then, Jiaorui has disappeared into The World of Zhenbao, and did not appear until many years later, when she was already married and had a child.
After Zhen bao was separated from her, he quickly married a girl who was the right door, and this girl was his future wife, Meng Yanli. There is no love between them directly, just simply appropriate.
What's more, Zhenbao doesn't care if there is love or not, he just wants to quickly start a family and quickly draw a line with Jiaorui. But in fact, he didn't have to do this, because Jiaorui hadn't thought about pestering at all, she had already seen Zhenbao's thin feelings and never held out any hope.
She walked very crisply, as soon as she turned around, she never looked back, and it was precisely this dashing attitude that completely seduced Zhen bao's soul, and he was obsessed with her, probably because she didn't love it, and he began to be unwilling again.
Human nature is like this, the more you take the initiative, the more the other party thinks you are cheap, you give up, he has the desire to challenge and conquer, and he wants to contact you again to prove his charm.
Therefore, in love, women must not take the initiative, too active, doomed not to be cherished, in response to Zhang Ailing's opening paragraph:
"If you marry a red rose, the red one becomes a mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one is the bright moonlight in front of the bed; when you marry a white rose, the white is a sticky grain of rice on the clothes, and the red one is a cinnabar mole in the heart."
For Zhenbao, Jiaorui is the cinnabar mole on his heart, he can't get her, she no longer loves, how much he misses and desires her, and how much he hates and is bored with his wife Meng Yanli.
Why? Not entirely because Meng Yanli herself is not pleasing, nor because there is no love between them, but because Zhenbao got her, so there is no interest, and Jiaorui can't get it, and it is impossible to get it, so he can't forget it.
You see, in the end, there is only one kind of woman that men can't forget: women who can't get it, but unfortunately many people don't understand, always in love to please and please, do not know, the more this is the case, the more the other party wants to escape.
One: Is there anyone who loves you, in fact, you can feel it
Zhang Ailing's novel "Red Roses and White Roses", the more thoroughly she reads, the more profoundly she loves the character of Jiaorui, and from the moment she recognizes Zhenbao's true personality, there has been no more hesitation.
At that time, she told Zhenbao that she had told Shihong about them and planned to divorce Shihong and marry Zhenbao.
At this time, what is the reaction of Zhenbao? He escaped, he was so frightened that his stomach hurt and he was admitted to the hospital. Then tell Jiaorui that she is joking, and ask her to write to ShiHong to explain that there is innocence between them.
At that moment, Jiaorui's heart sank instantly, she thought that she had encountered love, she did not expect that the other party was just using herself, she did not say anything, just silently turned away.
She knew in her heart that this man did not love her, and if he loved her, how could he bear to be so irresponsible? In the end, he loves himself more, and he is worried that he has ruined his reputation and affected his future, so he is anxious to cut her off.
Is there anyone who loves you, you can sense, can sense the other party's care and responsibility, but unfortunately these two points, Zhen Baoquan is not, which is also the main reason why Jiaorui is discouraged.
Second: Learning to let go and fulfill yourself is another kind of personality temptation
Mo Yan once said: The most stupid thing in the world is to run to people who don't like you and ask why. Not liking is not liking, there is no reason. Like a gust of wind blowing, all you have to do is pat the dust on your body, turn around and walk away quietly, and then forget the other person.
Jiaorui is like this, she never took the initiative to contact Zhenbao, but began her new life, Zhenbao has always thought of her, thinking of her.
It was also after the real loss that Zhenbao suddenly realized that he loved Jiaorui, but he had too many things to put down, fame, future, career, etc., casually pulled out one, are much more important than Jiaorui.
And this also shows from the side how selfish and hypocritical his love is. It is not so much that he is in love with Jiaorui, but rather possessive, and he loves himself more than he loves Jiaorui.
And Jiaorui, who has learned to let go, knows how to complete herself, and this act of devoting all her energy to loving herself is a greater charm and attraction. Women know how to love themselves, only then will someone love, Jiaorui's choice confirms this.
The theme of Zhang Ailing's "Red Rose and White Rose" is not only love, but also the complex human nature behind love, if we read it, we will be transparent in our feelings, and this is the meaning of our reading.
The more you read, the wiser you become, and if you live to understand, few people will be able to deceive you.
Instead of struggling with whether men love you, it is better to improve yourself, when you become attractive, the other party will naturally be attracted to you, such love is not only sincere, but also stable.
I recommend the following version of "Red Rose and White Rose", which is a novella and is not very long, so this book is a collection of novels, in addition to "Red Rose and White Rose", there are other works, which is why I think it is cost-effective.
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