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With the launch of the Shenzhou 13 manned spacecraft, Wang Yaping also began a six-month space "business trip" trip.
Before the "business trip", her 5-year-old daughter made a request to her.
"Mom has to pick me a star when she comes back."
"What color star do you want?"
"Yellow."
In this way, the mother and daughter reached an agreement: the daughter studied well, and the mother went to space to pick a star for her.
Wang Yaping became a pilot at the age of 21, and at the age of 41, she is China's first post-80s female astronaut.
She is the hero in everyone's mind, and even more the hero in the daughter's heart.
Wang Yaping told his daughter with practical actions to bravely chase your dreams and do the cause you love, even if it is nine days to collect the moon, even if it is to go to space to pick stars.
The life that dares to chase dreams is the most exciting.
Mothers who dare to chase dreams are the greatest blessing for children.
Love children, start with loving your career
Do women have to give up their careers for the sake of their families?
The Weibo read of this topic is more than 40 million. Countless women are asking this question, expecting an answer.
The answer is no.
Women who love their families and children can also pursue careers at the same time.
The best way to love your children is not to be accompanied by a nanny 24 hours a day, but to insist on being a mother who has dreams and dares to chase dreams.
A mother who loves her career is the best role model for her children.
In the variety show "Teenagers Say", there was a mother who impressed me.
The mother has been practicing yoga for eight years, and when her daughter was in the third grade, she had already taken the senior yoga teacher qualification certificate.
For a while, in order to accompany her daughter to study, she temporarily gave up yoga. When her daughter went to high school, she went to yoga again.
Her daughter stood on the stage and said that many parents will focus on their children, and over time, they will slowly lose themselves in life.
But her mom was different.
In addition to being her own mother, more importantly, she is still herself.
In order to support her mother's career, the daughter bravely stood on the courage stage of "Teenagers Say" and enrolled students for her mother.
A mother with a career will make her child more confident.
When you bravely pursue your career, your child will also sincerely cheer for you and be proud of you.
Love children, start with positivity
Zheng Yuanjie, the king of fairy tales, once said: The meaning of mother is influence.
Family life cultivates children's initial outlook on life, worldview, and values.
When a child is young, you are almost his whole world.
Your excellence, your positivity, affect the child all the time.
A mother in Ningbo is known as "the most industrious mother in Ningbo".
In order to let the child eat well, she worked hard to learn baking, learned to make all kinds of cakes, biscuits, pizza, etc.;
In order to take more beautiful photos for her children, she learned to take photography;
She also took her daughter to travel to Hong Kong, Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Kunming and other places to increase her children's knowledge;
As a working mother, she also took the national postgraduate examination in her spare time, and obtained a master's degree certificate and a senior professional manager certificate.
Her friend asked her, why is it so hard?
She said:
"I want to be an independent, intelligent, positive mom who teaches my children by example."
When your eyes are constantly staring at the phone screen, entertainment and entertainment, how can a child like to read books?
When you complain and nag every day, or are very anxious, or have a negative attitude towards anything, how can you create a good environment for your child to grow up?
When you spend your days on the couch doing nothing, how do you expect your child to have a dream of traveling the world?
Be a positive mom, your every move your child looks at.
Mo Yan said that there are no naturally excellent children, and there are no naturally excellent parents.
Love your children, be a positive, enthusiastic and cheerful mother, and infect your children with your own practical actions.
Love children, starting with self-growth
Every word and deed of parents is always transmitting energy to their children.
Remember the mom who sent her 3 children to Stanford, Chen Meiling?
When most people envy each of her children so good, most of them ignore that her children's excellence comes later, and her excellence comes first.
At the age of 34, she plucked up the courage to return to school and, through unremitting efforts, became a Doctoral Student in Education at Stanford University.
When the reporter asked her why you could raise 3 children to Stanford, she replied more than once, "First become a great self, and then become the best mother." ”
As psychologist Dr. Zhang Yijun said: The more enterprising the mother, the more diligent the child.
Chen Meiling knows that the best way to let children grow up is to grow into an excellent person first.
In the 1970s, she was a popular Hong Kong singer, on a par with Teresa Teresa.
After marriage, she went to North America to study, and worked to obtain a diploma in social and child psychology from the University of Toronto and a doctorate in education from Stanford University in the United States.
In 2016, she concentrated on writing and published educational books to encourage more parents to correctly educate their children.
She is studious, assertive, and always on the road to growth.
As a mother, we must continue to grow ourselves in order to let our children see a broader stage of life in the process of teaching by example.
Moderator Dong Qing said:
"What kind of person you want your child to be, you want to be."
Being able to live my mother is a good example for my child.
There is a saying in the book "The Awakening of Parents":
Only by adjusting our mentality can we help children adjust their physical and mental state accordingly, and then adapt to the unique nature of each child.
When we grow up, children will fall in love with learning;
When we are positive, children will not be afraid of setbacks and face difficulties;
When we love our career, children will be proud of you and applaud you.
There is a mother who lets her child "look up", and the child's eyes have a distant place and a vision of the future.
Be the best version of yourself, and then be a good mom.
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