There are many "bear children" around us, most of these children are in the family "set thousands of pets in one" existence, no matter how naughty how to make trouble in the family will condone and tolerate, but once you leave home to go outside can not be so popular, after all, everyone likes well-behaved and polite children, who will like a naughty child of other people's families? Perhaps in childhood, some of the child's behavior can still be tolerated in addition to the family, but if the family always condones and ignores the teaching, I am afraid that after entering the society in the future, I am afraid that I will be "beaten" from society.
The child beats people when they don't agree, and the parents are still proud, and a direct sentence makes her blush
Zhao Yue, who lives in the northeast, is a very cheerful person, there are many friends on weekdays, everyone likes her straightforward nature, even her son is very pleasing, small age but very polite, and children play together also everywhere humble, there are things also like to share together, everyone praises Zhao Yue's education.
In the morning, Zhao Yue took her son to play in the sand pit in the park, and as soon as the child went, he quickly got together with a few children and shared the shovel and excavator he brought with him. After a while, a fat and strong little boy came over and snatched the toy from the hand of a small friend, and the little friend was scared to cry, and Zhao Yue's son stood up and said, "Give the toy back to him, you are rude like this." Who knew that the little boy was about to hit when he reached out, Zhao Yue saw that he hurriedly pulled his son away.
Originally, Zhao Yue felt that it was nothing wrong with children, but after the other parents came to understand the situation, instead of criticizing the little boy, they laughed very happily, pulling the little boy to leave, Zhao Yueyi looked angry, and went forward and said: "Please return the toys that your child snatched, and also, I always thought that the child was rude only because of his young age, and now I know that he was originally a family education!" Listening to Zhao Yue's words, the other parent blushed, threw down the toy and turned around with the child and left. Parents on the side also said: "The children who are educated in this way will not be much better in the future, and there will always be a day when he will suffer losses and regrets."
It is true that every child is a treasure in the family, and parents are eager to give their hearts to their children, what else can they not tolerate? But the child can not live only in the family forever, he always has to contact society, going to school, work, marriage and children are their necessary life journey, if the early indulgence of some of the child's "uncultured" behavior, after entering the society in the future, no one has the obligation to indulge him like the family, and he will also bear a more severe whiplash from society. Therefore, while the child is still young, many behaviors have not yet been characterized, and we must be well educated.
We can see that when playing outside, many children will go forward to grab other children when they see that other children have their favorite toys in their hands, and this behavior has become a point for them to show off in the mouths of some parents, proudly saying that their children do not suffer losses. And this kind of behavior will also form a sense of superiority in the hearts of the children who grab the toys, and we don't know how disgusted such behavior is in the parents of the children who are robbed of toys! Maybe the other parent's generosity does not care, may be angry with the theory, and ultimately will not have any big impact, but after he enters the society, will he also rely on grabbing what he likes? I'm afraid that such an act will bring him a fist and a side of the window!
Similarly, some parents are always afraid that their children will suffer losses, so when educating their children, they will always intentionally teach them to beat people, or do not stop them when their children beat people for no reason, and maybe he will use his unreasonable fist to earn a temporary victory when he is young, but what about when he grows up? Who's going to put up with an unreasonable adult? Therefore, when children are young, we must stop and persuade them to beat people, tell them to respect others, and cannot solve problems with their fists.
In addition, some children are not "polite" at all when they go to other people's homes to play, rummaging around in other people's homes, encountering things they like and directly holding them away, and some parents also turn a blind eye to this, they condone children, usually even reluctant to criticize a sentence, so that children to other people's homes are so rude and will not stop it. Who will like such parents and children in the long run? And when they enter the society, they are still so rude and uneducated, I am afraid that no one will be willing to be friends with such a person at that time, and his work life will not be smooth.
Family education is very important for children, when they begin to explore the world gradually in their childhood, the family must be correctly guided, help them develop a good character, and make a preparation for better adaptation to society in the future, "bear children" no one likes, "bear adults" are more annoying, cultivate good character from an early age, and grow up to be more easily accepted by society.