Text/Little Snow Mom
When it comes to accompanying children, we usually think of mothers, because most children are raised by mothers, and fathers have little time to accompany children for various reasons.
Mothers are more careful, gentle and patient when taking care of children, and many fathers take care of children are grinning, there is a saying that "daddy with baby, live is good", taking care of children is really a bit "rough".
Of course, although the degree of care of the father with the baby is not as good as the mother, but in other aspects the father still has a certain advantage, and the child's growth is the need for the parents to accompany and complement each other, so that the child can have a complete childhood, as well as a happy family atmosphere.
The three fathers and sons made mistakes and were "punished for kneeling", and wearing diapers did not wet the baby into a laughing point
There was a group of photos circulating on the Internet, the father and his two sons kneeling on the bed together, kneeling and praying, as if they had done something wrong and admitted their mistake. Later, I learned that the three men with the same surname in this family, the eldest son returned home and threw his school bag casually on the ground, the younger son played with toys everywhere, and the father watched TV by himself, and there was nothing in the house.
When she came home from work, my mother looked at the mess at home, and there were three grandfathers who were safe and natural, and the anger in her heart came up, first a storm of criticism, followed by the scene of the three grandfathers kneeling on the bed and confessing their mistakes.
Among the three people, the most crying and laughing is the younger son, still wearing diapers, he followed his brother and father to learn to look like, and he was kneeling and prostrating, and netizens laughed after reading it.
Some netizens commented: "Three people with the same surname can't do one of the opposite sex!" Some netizens also said: "Fight the tiger brothers, fight the father and son soldiers, even if they admit mistakes, they must be neatly arranged."
Father's love is no less important to children than maternal love
Because of the influence of personality, way of doing things, and some other factors, the style of many fathers with children is very different from the style of mothers with babies.
Fathers are often rough and leafy, do not have a strong control over the details, and feel that the general direction is right; but mothers are more able to find the problems of children's growth from the details of their children's daily growth, but for the general direction, they are often not as resolute as the father's attitude.
What mothers can bring to their children is companionship, gentleness, and care, which can teach children a lot of truths, teach children many skills, and bring children a gentle side of personality.
What a mother can bring to the child is open-mindedness, the courage to dare to try, a heavy sense of security, and a sense of responsibility, and the child can learn a lot of truth and thinking from the father.
Therefore, the father should be more actively involved in the process of accompanying the child, with the baby is definitely not a matter of the mother alone, the father has the responsibility and obligation to take good care of the child, this is for the child's growth, but also for the family harmony.
In homeschooling, moms might as well be lazy
Many husbands do not understand their wives, always feel how tired they are to work outside, how tired they can be with a child at home, feel that their wives are always looking for things, their hearts are not happy, and they rarely take care of children and family chores.
In this regard, I saw that some of the mothers made a move, and my husband always said what he was doing at home, so let him see the consequences of his "I didn't do anything"!
From morning to afternoon, in addition to playing with her baby, this mother played with her mobile phone, and she did not clean up the house, nor did she clean the housework, and her husband was stunned by the messy scene when she returned home, and asked her wife in surprise: "What are you doing?" ”
The wife said with an innocent face, "Don't you ask me all day what I'm doing at home?" I haven't done anything", in fact, how difficult it is for Bao Mom to take a baby at home alone, and the Bao Mom who has experienced it understands that every day there are a bunch of things to pack at home, and you have to take care of the children, it can be said that there is not much free time.
More importantly, long-term at home with the baby, do not contact the outside world, the heart is very depressed, need someone to comfort and chat to solve the problem, and if the husband does not understand and say cool words, it is really easy to hurt the heart of the mother.
In this regard, in the growth of children and the division of labor in the family, the mother may occasionally wish to steal a lazy, let the husband try it, only after experiencing it can understand their own difficulties.
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