I believe that many parents have said this sentence to their children: "If you don't study well, you will be sent to the construction site to work." ”
This scare sentence, many parents have said but will not necessarily do, after all, they are not willing to let their children suffer. However, some parents are more realistic, their children do not want to read, they really send their children to the construction site to experience life.
A four-year primary school student in Ya'an, Sichuan, is still immersed in the joy of winter vacation, even if the school has been open for a week or two, he has not received his heart, the child's father said that the child does not want to go to school, ask the teacher for leave to go home to play.
Reading is comfortable in the eyes of parents, but in the eyes of different children, there is also their own understanding of reading, children who like to read, naturally there will be children who do not like to read, exams, homework, classes may make them uninterested, this primary school student who asks the teacher to go home to play is the latter.
As a parent, I work hard every day and send my children to school to study, is not it hoped that my children will go to school well, go to a good university in the future, and have a stable job after graduation.
Parents' ideas are good, but children who are only in their teens understand the minds of their parents, and it is difficult to appreciate the intentions of their parents, they do not know what it means not to learn a good culture and no academic qualifications.
But the parents are too aware of the suffering of no education, for the purpose of educating the child, the father did not persuade the child to go back to school, but directly took him to the construction site where he worked to dig a ditch and let him experience life.
So we saw a young child, wearing a hard hat, digging dirt in a ditch on the side of the road. Children who are still in the fourth grade should do less of this kind of hard work, feel very hard for only an hour or two, and soon sweat.
The first time he knew how hard it was to work at the construction site, the student regretted it, and finally collapsed directly, and rushed to his father for forgiveness, crying to go back to school.
After this incident, presumably this fourth-grade student did not dare to take time off to go home to play at will, because dad would have a way to deal with him and would directly let himself go to the construction site to experience life.
Elementary school students were reluctant to go to school, and his father directly asked him to work on the construction site, which caused a heated discussion on the Internet. Some netizens humorously said that this educational method is slightly flawed, in case the child falls in love with digging a ditch! Netizens who recognize this way of education said that boys have no problem in educating themselves and are worth advocating.
Parents let their children experience labor to achieve the purpose of education, and I agree.
The ancients said that if the young man does not work hard, the old man is sad. Many people do not understand this sentence when they are young, and when they understand it, they are no longer young.
Poor parents in the world, parents under the sky, all hope that their children will succeed in learning, and when they grow up, they can get ahead, but when children are students, they occasionally reject learning, have a rebellious period, and even take their parents' words as the wind in their ears, how to guide children to focus on learning? Is a question that most parents need to consider.
Children don't like to learn, and adults don't want to go to work, and if we think about this from their point of view, we can understand why they resist.
Most children do not love to learn, or even are bored with learning, most of them have no interest in learning, or do not have any excellent performance in learning, and do not get positive motivation.
If the children at home do not want to learn, I believe that most parents will find this problem more difficult to deal with, you talk to the child about the importance of reading, talk about some big truths, the child can not hear it will not play a role.
Let the child participate in the labor, although the method is more stupid, but the effect is immediate, thousands of times of preaching, may not be as effective as letting the child experience a labor.
The suffering of labor requires effort, even backache; the pain of learning, the pain of learning, the need to use the brain, the need for long-term persistence.
There is no harm without contrast, and after experiencing two different kinds of suffering, I believe that most students will understand the good intentions of their parents.
However, it is necessary to remind parents to persuade children to read well, let children go to the construction site to work, do not instill in children the idea that "if you can't read well, you can only work at the construction site", teenage children, his outlook on life, values, and world outlook are slowly forming.
By instilling wrong thoughts, we cannot cultivate the correct Three Views.
There is no noble status, no high or low occupation, no child can discriminate against labor, and legitimate occupations need to be respected by everyone. We can tell our children that they can study well now, have more career choices in the future, study well now, and go further in the future to achieve their life ambitions.
Remind parents that if your child does not want to go to school, in addition to letting the child experience labor, it is equally important to actively guide the child to become interested in learning and get motivated.
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