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The old fool, the second elf, the third is a little goblin!
This word of mouth tells us that the general boss who has multiple children in the family is more loyal and honest and stupid; while the second is relatively shrewd and flexible; the third is more pampered in a lifetime, so he is even more ghostly!
At that time, I heard this sentence and observed it in light of the situation in our house, but I found that this was not the case. Compared with my eldest brother and the second brother, the eldest brother is very smart, very shrewd, and learns everything very quickly!
The second brother is loyal and honest, and what he does to see is a few slow reactions!
The eldest brother is smart but does not like to read, junior high school did not graduate to work, the second brother although barely read to high school, but indeed the brain is not very good, did not enter the university!
Although the eldest brother did not read much, but the brain is particularly flexible, learning everything very quickly, but he is not very willing to go out to work, only willing to stay in the small county, and in the small county town is also a contractor boss favored, invite him to work, according to the boss of the contractor said that my eldest brother works well and fast, one person can top two people. The second brother is also in the county, but the work is not stable, and the main reason for the change is that the brain is not flexible enough.
So I have always been skeptical of this slip of the tongue, and later I saw a Dutch psychologist's research to understand that the original birth order is indeed related to IQ, and the earlier the child is born, the smarter the child!
In the 1970s, the Dutch psychologist Belmont conducted a "follow-up survey on the intelligence level" of 400,000 people in the country, selected 400,000 young people aged 19, conducted in-depth research, and finally found that in families with similar class level and economic income, the earlier the birth of children with higher IQ, Belmont called this phenomenon of intellectual decay.
The follow-up survey of 400,000 people is a very large sample survey, and it also combines economic level and class level to investigate, that is, birth order does have an impact on IQ. In general, the eldest child in the family is the smartest child, and the child born in the night of the second to third year may have a lower IQ level.
Why the old assembly is smarter, three reasons are very realistic, if you want to have a baby, please be early
Reason one: When the eldest is born, it is generally in the honeymoon period
The so-called honeymoon period, that is, the first few years of marriage, generally many people consider having children after marriage, that is, after marriage is also a time when the feelings are better, at this time the feelings of the couple will be better.
The feelings of the husband and wife are good, the mother's emotions will be good, the father will be more considerate and careful to the mother when pregnant, and the prenatal education at this time will also do better, so when the first child is born, the parental love is more conducive to the growth and development of the child, more conducive to the child's IQ development, and can also get enough nutrition and nourishment in the fetal period, which is conducive to his nervous system development.
Reason two: Sperm eggs are in a period of excellent quality
Now after college and work to get married, most people will choose to get married around the age of 25, have children after getting married at the age of 25, and when they have the eldest, it is exactly the golden age of both parties, and the quality of both sperm and eggs is at the optimal time!
The quality of the golden fertility age sperm eggs is best combined, and the child is naturally healthier and smarter.
Reason three: Mom's physical condition is at its peak
Most of the eldest in the birth of the mother's physical state is generally better, after all, young, and the physical state of good nutrition absorption is good, plus the first child will also be more important. We say that the elder mother will insist on going to the obstetric examination, will insist on doing prenatal education for the child, the brain neurodevelopment of the child in the fetal period will be one step faster, and the mother will carefully teach the child after the birth of the child, which will help the child's IQ to increase.
And when the boss was just born, it was a collection of thousands of pets, everyone was very concerned about the boss, education is also very important, so the boss is smarter, which is also a reason.
In addition to the high IQ of children, in addition to being related to heredity, it is more related to the education and nutrition of parents, so parents need to pay attention, such as having enough pregnancy preparation, supplementing folic acid when preparing for pregnancy, preventing malformations of the child's neural tube development, paying attention to nutrition during pregnancy, supplementing high-quality protein, and enough DHA and iron to help the development of fetal brain nerves. Avoiding gestational diabetes, hypertension and other complications during pregnancy is also beneficial to the health of the fetus and the development of the fetal nervous system.
Breastfeed as much as possible after the birth of the child, the nutrition in breast milk, the child can better absorb, but also conducive to the development of the child's brain.
Children should also start to do early education from birth, chat with children, show children picture books of the corresponding age, and take children out to play, which can stimulate the development of children's brains. Therefore, whether the child is smart or not has something to do with the parents' concept and education.
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