A loving woman, from the day she plans to become a bride, is ready to use her life's work to maintain and renew her love. She knew that a marriage contract could not keep another heart for her forever, because the law could bind marriage but could not regulate feelings. She knew that marriage was just a solid contract, a legal restriction, but feelings were always fluid, unpredictable, and even uncontrollable.
Passion will always cool, and only bland dependence is the true meaning of marriage. Of course, this is only a realm. To reach this state, a woman needs to spend her life managing and cultivating. Because the family is always the position of women, women are warm homes, and men are rootless grass. Therefore, a woman who will love will not think that love is only her own youth. Although the road ahead is bumpy, she has the key to open all the cards.
Women who can love don't have too high expectations for married life. Love is great and sublime, but the days are trivial and ordinary. She grew up in different environments, and she knew that when two people with different experiences and personalities got together, there must be a process of understanding and mutual adaptation, giving up something, and tolerating something in order to "grow old with a white head".
So the beloved woman will never try to reform her husband. She knew it was in vain. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Love) Men's stubbornness sometimes takes us a lifetime to truly grasp. The stubborn man has a rebellious heart, and his days of running away from you are not far away. In fact, a woman who thinks she is smart is less likely to get happiness, because she sees everything too thoroughly and understands too well, and everything is not so simple in her eyes.
If a woman thinks things too complicated, then she must be unhappy. Women who can "pretend to be stupid" are really smart women, and not every woman can pretend to be a natural fit. The "pretending to be stupid" here can be understood as a kind of pampering, and it can also be understood as a kind of wisdom for people to deal with the world, and women who can "pretend" to be at a level can be happier.