The education of The three Tian Jing sisters and brothers is not high, and some netizens criticize the Education of the Tian family on this grounds. In fact, the level of academic qualifications has never been a sign of educational success, and if evaluated by the harmonious family atmosphere of the Tian family, its education is successful. Growing up in this big family of love, Qiqi Yueyue has a cheerful and optimistic personality and is deeply loved by netizens. Today, let's talk about the Tian family's education of their children.
1. Treat children as adults and maintain an equal relationship
Tian Jing recently posted a video of her returning home from work to reconcile the noodles and prepare dumplings. Yue Yue returned home from school and the dumplings were not wrapped, she helped her grandmother roll the skin, and Tian Jing picked up her mobile phone to shoot the video. Yue Yue seriously criticized her mother for not working, and only knew how to shoot videos every day. Tian Jing argued that she was trying to show that her children love labor, but she did not expect Yue Yue to appreciate it at all, and asked her mother to put down her mobile phone and make dumplings together. Tian Jing pretended to be fierce and said, no matter how well you behave, grandma can't see it!
Teaching by example is more important than words, and children will regard their elders as idols at a certain stage of their growth, so the influence of elders on children is more reflected in the demonstration effect. Obviously, Yue Yue regards Xu Min as an idol, and she wants to become excellent and show it to her grandmother.
Tian Jing reflects in the dynamic: This is a wrong demonstration, which is why children at home adults do not always hold the mobile phone, because even if you take the mobile phone for ten minutes, without accompanying her, she will feel that you are playing with the mobile phone every day, in her eyes, to put her in the top priority, she will have a sense of security.
2. Pay attention to companionship and communication, so that children know how to care for others.
The Tian family is a big family, Qi Qi Yue Yue has both the company of the funny uncle and the care of the kind grandmother, and Tian Jing consciously helps the child develop a good habit of reading every night. At the same time, Tian Jing pays attention to the cultivation of children's communication skills, while teaching children to read, she also teaches children to learn sign language and teaches them to communicate with various people.
Tian Jing believes that the hustle and bustle is the human world, quiet is also the human world, in the silent place to build a bridge of communication between the heart and the heart, the silent world can not be without wonderful, the silent world should also be full of happiness, a smile, a look, but enough to warm people's hearts.
3. Moderate pampering and get psychological satisfaction.
Qi Qi Yueyue was very happy, and they enjoyed the different ways of pampering the Tian family and the Xu family. The Tian family is tolerant enough for the child, Tian Father Tian Mother has a gentle temperament and never yells at the child, and the Tian Jing sisters and brothers like to play with the child in a different way. Xu Mama and Yao Dad are sweet and intimate to the child, and when they see Qiqi, they will pick up and like to feed when they eat. If the two children get happiness in the Tian family, what they get in Xu Mama and Yao Dad is extreme psychological satisfaction. This feeling will help them to face the difficulties and obstacles of life optimistically.
epilogue
The growth of children is not waiting for people, missing is missed, it is difficult to make up. As a parent, instead of occupying other people's houses and doing everything possible to cover up the truth for personal purposes, it is better to spend more time and effort on children, jade is not thoughtful, not a tool; people do not learn, do not know righteousness. In the history of human evolution, success is only when the offspring are better than the parents.