What kind of day is most worth looking forward to? It is not the family wealth, but the family harmony.
In every harmonious family, the happiness index is higher and higher.
Xu Ma's daughter-in-law Tian Jing deeply understands this truth, in her opinion, whether it is the doctor's work or live streaming with goods, it is not her main business, her main business is to be a mother, to be a family harmony of the sea god needle.
She said: "I didn't work as a full-time mother, but I wanted to squeeze out time to do the work of a full-time mother as much as possible, it proved to be difficult, it was difficult to achieve, working in the hospital was my profession, live broadcasting was my part-time job, and being a mother was integrated into all my efforts." ”
The harmony of a family, the important role played by the mother is self-evident. A mother who cares for the family is an inexhaustible source of family happiness.
Do these three things and happiness will multiply.
First, no matter how big the house is, there is laughter to be home
Tian Jing's home is very lively every day, because she has a pair of cute and sensible children Qi Qi Yueyue, she loves these two children but never dotes on them, requires children to understand politeness, let children participate in housework, let children develop the habit of early literacy and memorization of Tang poems, and quietly lay a good foundation for the future of children.
On the other hand, she does not stifle the nature of children, always take children to the park, to get close to nature, so that children have a good time within the allowable range. As a result, the children who return home always laugh so innocently.
In addition, no matter how much grievance she suffered, Tian Jing did not bring emotions to her home.
She understands that when you dump garbage into your home, your home is like an ice cellar, and when you are gentle with your loved ones, your home is a real warm harbor.
A harmonious family can satisfy life. A family that loves to laugh is also a lucky regular.
Second, parents love each other, is the best gift for children
I saw a question on the Internet: "What is it like to have a pair of loving parents?" ”
A gaozan replied: "Looking at my parents so loving, I immediately understood the definition of love, understood the definition of happiness, and I also wanted to find a man who hurt my mother like my father to hurt me." ”
Parents love each other, is the best gift to the child, when the child enjoys this spiritual nutrition, you can form a more solid and stable inner self, the development of the individual mind is many benefits.
Yao Wei always appeared silently when Tian Jing needed it, carrying housework, cooking vegetables, taking care of children, and doing it all in one go. Studies have proved that husbands do more housework, and wives will reduce depression, which is conducive to improving marital life satisfaction.
Yao Wei may not have much sweet talk, but the love for his partner is deep and heavy. With the demonstration of Jing Arita and Yao Wei, I believe that Qiqi Yueyue will plant a beautiful seed in his heart.
As the writer Bing Xin said: "A good family is the root of all happiness and strength." ”
Third, high-quality companionship will illuminate the child's way forward
It has always been believed that no matter how great a person's career success is, it cannot make up for the regret of failing to educate his children.
Your companionship and guidance have irreplaceable significance for children. A good wife is not only a nobleman of her husband, but also a ferryman of her children. If a child's growth needs a bright light, then it is most likely a light from the mother.
The key word to prop up a home is not money, but love. There are no tickets that must be earned, only children who grow up in the blink of an eye. When you can accompany your child, you are fully focused, don't be absent-minded, and cherish every moment together.
High-quality company of your children is the best investment in the second half of your life. Under the nourishment of parents' patience and love, children will grow up to be full of vitality, health and self-confidence.
Finally, I would like to say: the long river of life, only the family will accompany us to sail all the time. A warm and harmonious family is the cure when we are tired, and it is also the confidence to continue to move forward when we are sleepy.
Thousands of homes are lit, families sit idle, and the world can be expected.