The article | short and long
The picture | is derived from the TV series "The World"
The emotional type | affection/love
In this life, if a woman can meet a man and love you more than his career, she will marry.
In this life, if a woman can meet a man and love you so much that she doesn't want her own children, she will marry.
Zhou Bingyi, the boss of the Zhou family in "The World of Man", is such a man who can be met but not sought.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei were high school classmates, and the two of them were in high school. Plum's father is still a figure with status and status.
Because of the problems of the times, At that time, Ayi and Meizi did not succeed in college.
Later, the two people signed up together, left their hometown, went up the mountain, and went to the countryside. One in the Corps and one on the farm.
At that time, Plum's parents, for various reasons, fell from a high place to the mud. Even the situation on the farm with plums is getting more and more difficult.
At this time, the eldest brother just had an opportunity to achieve a career leap.
And at this time, Plum, because of the relationship between her parents. If Ah Yi is related to her, it will become the biggest stumbling block in Ah Yi's career.
According to the rational thinking of normal people, at this time, Ah Yi will most likely give up plums.
After all, this kind of thing, after letting anyone rationally weigh the pros and cons.
Most likely, they will choose a more solid and reliable career, rather than a love full of variables.
What's more, Ah Yi is the eldest son in the family. On his shoulders, he shouldered heavier responsibilities than the average person.
In the play, Lao Hao has a saying that is very correct. It's gold, it's always shining. But when gold shines, it may not be seen by everyone.
A piece of gold covered with cloth, once you miss the opportunity to be opened and discovered, it is difficult to ascend to the sky if you want to encounter such an opportunity.
However, despite this, Ah Yi gave up the opportunity to soar in his career and chose Meizi, his fiancée.
Ah Yi's unreasonable behavior was no less shocking than that of the flat earth.
So many men and women came to see the plums.
Everyone was curious about what kind of heavenly immortal-like character it was. Let Ah Yi let go of such an opportunity that may soar and change the fate of a lifetime.
From the attitude of the people, we can see how great a sacrifice Ah Yi made for the sake of plums this time.
For love, he gave up his great future. This is something that quite a few people can't do.
Whether then or now, many people probably understand. A child of one's own, what does it mean for men.
In the whole world, how many men can be found, obviously he likes children, but he can love you because he loves you, and he loves you so much that he does not have children. Even if his family did not have the throne to inherit.
When on the farm, a physiological period accidentally fell into the well, so that Dongmei lost the ability to give birth.
In that era of male superiority and inferiority, how important it was for a family.
Ah Yi did not give up because of this, he hid from the old people on both sides, and fell in love with Dong Mei'en as before.
Ah Yi did not treat Dongmei harshly because of this, when his old man asked about it. Instead, he took this responsibility upon himself, saying that it was because he was infertile.
Such a responsibility, such a lover, is rare in a hundred years.
Because the conditions in Ah Yi's family are limited, there is no surplus house for the eldest son and daughter-in-law to live in.
And Meizi also had to take care of her parents nearby, so Ah Yi lived with Meizi in the house of her father-in-law and mother-in-law and became a "door-to-door son-in-law".
After Dongmei's parents were reinstated, the gap between the two families was very different.
Since Umeko and Ayi have been married for many years, the two relatives, although living in the same city. For more than twenty years, however, there has never been any contact.
This should be replaced by ordinary men, in this case, they have long been self-pitying and self-pitying, inferior and ashamed.
But Ah Yi did not, he knew very well, although such a family relationship seemed unreasonable. But it is indeed due to the huge difference in social hierarchy between the two families.
This kind of side effect caused by super-hierarchical marriage, as long as both parties accept it, can not complain.
It is precisely because of Ah Yi's knowledge that his mother-in-law really regards him as her own child, not just a son-in-law.
Advise him on his career. Get along.
For the Zhou family, Ah Yi may not be a perfect good son, a good brother.
But for Meizi, Ah Yi is a perfect husband.
In the original work, Ah Yi worked hard for decades and died of illness in his later years. Then, not long after his death, Umeko remarried someone else.
When Ah Yi died, Zhou Bingkun met Meizi on the street and did not call out the sister-in-law. Instead, when I shouted a sentence to Sister Dongmei, I broke the defense.
We all understand that the choice of plum is not wrong, and it is also the common sentiment of people. After all, life goes on, and everyone has the right to pursue a better life.
It was as if, at the beginning, if Ah Yi gave up the plum and chose a brighter career future. Nor is there anyone who can accuse him of being unsympathetic.
However, in the play, I still hope that the screenwriter can give Zhou Bingyi a better ending.
Let his old age not have to suffer from the torment of illness, so that his love can have a life and a couple of consummations.