When going on a blind date, drinking with each other for the first time can lead to unexpected situations. Recently, a Yunnan man tried to ease the atmosphere with a glass of wine during a lunch date with a blind date, but unexpectedly found that the other party was drunk with only a glass of plum wine, which sparked a heated discussion among netizens.
This netizen's experience reminds us that we need to be cautious when drinking alcohol when we first meet. Due to the limited understanding of each other, alcohol can amplify an individual's gaffes, leading to embarrassment and even misunderstandings. However, some people may deliberately take advantage of this to test the other person's reaction.
According to the man, although the first meeting between the two at the café did not make much progress, inviting each other for a drink at lunch appeared to be an attempt to break the ice. Unexpectedly, the woman was defenseless against the well-known local plum wine, and as a result, she quickly got drunk, making people wonder if this was a hidden "routine".
Some netizens analyzed that the woman's behavior may be to test the man's reaction to see if he has high emotional intelligence and gentlemanly demeanor. In the context of blind dates, both men and women may be looking for a way to judge whether the other person is suitable, and the behavior after drinking alcohol can often reveal a person's true character.
For this man, in the face of the woman's "drunkenness", he chose a safe way to deal with it until the woman sobered up before further communication. His handling method was praised by some netizens as smart, neither taking advantage of people's danger, nor ruining the relationship between the two because of panic.
The incident has also sparked discussions about genuine engagement. Most women tend to prefer men who are measured, considerate, and have insight into women's psychology. At a time when the relationship has not yet developed deeply, an overly eager attitude can backfire. Therefore, sincerity, groundedness, and a sense of security are often more important than any strategy.
Waterfowl has something to say: whether on a blind date or in a daily social situation, being sincere and respectful of others is always the most important principle. If you want to win the hearts of the other party, the key is to learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes.