1. Between 0 and 2 years old. Mothers with shorter time intervals face greater pressure. On the one hand, the body has not yet fully recovered; on the other hand, the spirit has not yet fully stabilized.
And between the ages of 0 and 2, children grow up very quickly, and the cost is relatively large, from one to two, which is even worse for families whose economic conditions are not very good.
However, the age of the two children is not large, and everything will be more synchronized, and it is more efficient to use the mother to arrange the daily life of the two children.
Coupled with the fact that the two babies are relatively small, consciously cultivating the feelings of the two of them, there will be less friction.
2. 2 to 5 years. The time of arrival of the two babies is moderately different, so that the mother's body and spirit have enough time to recuperate, and will not be busy, after all, there is a lot of experience in giving birth to a child.
And the economic pressure will not be too large, staggered peak period, many of the things used by the boss can also be used by the second.
But in this case, it is easy to ignore the boss and spend all his thoughts on the second brother, which is easy to make the boss jealous of the second brother and reject the second brother.
In the face of this phenomenon, the mother should make ideological preparations with the boss in advance and give him more attention.
More than three or five years. The difference in time is relatively large, the mother has a high-collar mother when she gives birth to the second child, the physical function declines, the probability of premature birth will be higher, and it will be more difficult in the process of childbirth, and the price paid by the mother will be more.
And the mother is used to the relaxed day, suddenly busy again, but also need the mother to adapt to a period of time.
But at this time, the boss is bigger, more sensible in many aspects, and will also help you reduce a lot of burdens.