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What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

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What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

Dear friends: Hello!

In the past few days, I have finished reading the "Fu Lei Family Book" at the beginning of the year.

This book is about the relationship between father and son

A collection of letters with little stories,

Actually let me see and see,

Deeply moved, very rewarding.

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

However, many of my friends complained to me: some felt that Fu Lei's reasoning was obscure and always talked about some piano art that could not be understood; some felt that Fu Lei and his wife were nagging and loved to repeat on some small things; some could not understand Fu Lei's harsh family style, and the final changes of the times...

Chu Chu's heart was really hit by ten thousand critical hits. Such a classic work, how I hope to share it with you at the beginning. Let's first get to know Fu Leiqi, who was an outstanding translator. During his lifetime, he translated more than 30 kinds of French literary works and academic works, and the famous "Eugenie Grande" and "John Christophe" are his representative translations. As a father, he successfully raised two children, Fu Cong and Fu Min: the eldest son, Fu Cong, was a well-known pianist at home and abroad, and the second son, Fu Min, was a special English teacher.

The eldest son, Fu Cong, settled overseas. The "Fu Lei Family Letter" mainly records the family letters written by Fu Lei and his wife to their son Fu Cong and daughter-in-law from 1954 to 1966, edited by the second son Fu Min, and once published, it can be described as a huge influence.

However, at the beginning, you can also understand everyone's "groove point". There is a lot of piano art expertise in the family letter, which may confuse everyone. Dear friends, if we try to classify the stories in the family letters, we will find that these family letters can be roughly divided into four categories: "life, art, cultivation, and feelings". In addition to professional and accurate art appreciation, the content also hides deep parent-child love, the secret book of learning to cultivate, the cultivation of life etiquette, and the brilliance of great personality and the enlightenment of rational and beautiful love... We can simply summarize and sort out these things by drawing a mind map. You will find that this family book is really a treasure book on our way to growth.

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

Here's the mind map that you drew for everyone at the beginning,

Let's take a look!

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

I didn't expect it.

"Fu Lei's Family Book" is so rich and magical!

However, we also need to master some good reading methods.

In order to really read in and read out their own gains!

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration
What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

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Read the compass

How do you read it? If we read in detail, regardless of weight, rhythm, or thickness, although we can also read roughly, the actual reading effect may be discounted, and the most important thing is that everyone cannot enjoy the pleasure of reading. Today, chuchu provides you with three tricks to help you walk into the "Fu Lei Family Book", read out the fun, read out the harvest!

The first trick: choose a good point of interest, each take what you need

The reading guidance method of the "Fu Lei Family Book" in the unified textbook requires "selective reading". What is selective reading? This is a rational and purposeful way of reading, which is often inseparable from the reader's interests, thoughts, and concerns.

For example, in the "Book of Fu Lei", not all the content can arouse everyone's interest. Then you can choose a point of interest to yourself, such as "the cultivation secret book of Xueba" and "the pluralistic expression of father's love", to read carefully; conversely, those points that are relatively unfamiliar to you, such as "the discussion of piano art", can be skimmed. This is actually a matter of trade-offs, and there are trade-offs to gain. The following is a reading plan that helped you to design a simple way at the beginning. Everyone arranges time reasonably according to the point of interest, which can definitely improve the efficiency of reading.

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

The second trick: capture the emotional point, read the book and leave traces

Family letters are an outpouring of true feelings. Many of the letters in "Fu Lei's Family Letter" are full of emotions, whether it is patriotism, father-son affection, or deep affection for art, etc., which we need to understand with our hearts. At the beginning, it was suggested that everyone can take the method of "hot reading", mobilize their feelings when reading, inspire their spirits, and achieve immersive effects. In such a reading process, you will definitely be able to capture the content that touches your heart. For these essential contents, it is best to leave reading traces, otherwise it is a pity that they are general?

How do I leave a reading trail? You can choose your preferred way. For example, you can take the commentary annotation method and directly circle the outline in the book; you can also take the summary method and excerpt classic sentences for thinking; you can also try to draw a mind map, focus on a point, and record it comprehensively... Of course, at the beginning, I knew that there were many friends who were versatile. You can give full play to your own strengths, make "family book bookmarks", or draw "family letter handwritten newspapers", show your reading thinking, and communicate your reading feelings with your classmates.

The third trick: hook up with the reality points, read and apply

The reason why I felt that I had gained something from reading at the beginning was not just the use of the first two tricks. The more important point is to connect the stories in the book with their own growth, not only to read in, but also to get out. After connecting books and life, I felt that my reading was more in-depth.

For example, Fu Lei is a giant translator, and his son Fu Cong is also a world-renowned piano master. We envy their extraordinary achievements, but their lives have not been smooth. They have encountered many dark times, even dark moments, in their respective lives. How did they face it? And what enlightenment do you give us?

When talking about Fu Cong's growth, Fu Lei said: "Being a person is the first, followed by being an artist, then being a musician, and finally being a pianist. Combined with the stories in the book, through communication and discussion with the teacher, I first realized that the nobility of man lies in the soul. The darker the moment, the more we can see human nature and test ourselves. The road to growth is long, and when we fall into the trough of life, the words in the Book of Fu Lei will give us strength: "Bitter tears are the wine syrup that cultivates your soul", "The most powerful argument in the world is like practical action", "The naked child is lonely, will create a world"...

We can nourish life with aphorisms in the book, understand right and wrong, enlighten the mind, and make a better version of ourselves through "I write a reply to Fu Lei", share the harvest of reading, and set up a "growth echo wall".

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

The little friends finished reading the "Fu Lei Family Letter",

Isn't there a lot of feelings?

Now, I recommend it again at the beginning

Some famous artists and friends of the same age

Commenting and interpreting the Book of Fu Lei to you,

Take a look at their comments and interpretations

Is it exactly what your heart thinks?

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

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Celebrity reviews

"The Book of Fu Lei's Family" is one of the best art apprenticeship books, and it is also a godson full of fatherly love.

- Lou Shiyi, writer, translator and publisher

After the cultivation of art and the accumulation of knowledge and learning, he became a Confucian with a magnificent aura. This kind of upright character is rarely seen in any society.

——Writer, translator and scholar Shi Jingcun

It is not only the first relatively thick family letter published after the reform and opening up, as far as I can see, but also a very real record of that era, recording the fifties and sixties, and also recording the attitude of upright and kind intellectuals to life, art, and sons.

——Department of Chinese, East China Normal University

Researcher and doctoral supervisor Chen Zishan

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration
What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

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Read the heart language

To be honest, I just started opening the Book of Fu Lei's Family, and I didn't want to read it at all. There were a lot of words in it talking about art, and I was dizzy to see it. But when I learned to read selectively and focused on the part about the expression of fatherly love, I deeply felt the charm of this book. In the letters, I saw Fu Lei, as a father, who not only had a heartfelt and meticulous education for his son, but also the bitterness and patience of the old father, as well as the great love of the nation. "The Book of Fu Lei's Family" let me see the appearance of deep fatherly love, which is worth reading again and again.

——Zhang Yatao, Boxian Middle School, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province

After reading the "Fu Lei Family Letter", I was most impressed by Fu Lei's famous words: "When a naked child is lonely, he will create a world." "Fu Lei himself is infinitely devout to art. It is precisely because he always has a pure heart that he has created his own artistic life. The same was true of his education of Fu Cong. In life, however, I often forget my original intention because of a little difficulty, wavering and stagnating. I want to take this sentence as my motto and push myself to keep moving forward.

——Meng Lin, Boxian Middle School, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province

At first, I didn't know much about Fu Lei, but after reading the "Fu Lei Family Letter" and consulting Fu Lei's other materials, I learned that Fu Lei and his wife had been tortured in that special era. Looking back at these family letters, I felt the brilliance of Fu Lei's personality. He believes that the first is to be a person, to be a noble and upright person. He not only said this, he did it. He is worthy of being an "artist with excellent moral integrity and excellent personality". And the "Fu Lei Family Letter" also made me understand the cultivation, etiquette and dignity of being a human being.

——Hong Dafeng, Boxian Middle School, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province

What kind of family is more likely to raise excellent children? Reading this book may give you inspiration

▌ Yan Wenjun, a young and middle-aged backbone teacher in Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province, is currently teaching at Boxian Middle School in Zhenjiang City.

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