Gu Ailing showed an amazing performance at this year's Winter Olympics, and she also successfully won two gold and one silver at the end of the Winter Olympics. Many parents saw that Gu Ailing, who studied well and exercised well, said "lemon" and began to sigh how good other people's children could be.
Excellence is often not born out of thin air, and many parents just see Gu Ailing's own excellence and ignore the excellence of Gu Ailing's father and mother. As we all know, Gu Ailing's mother graduated from Peking University and later studied in the United States. But you know, Gu Ailing's father is also not ordinary.
Gu Ailing is so excellent, the "American dad" behind it is also outstanding, and the academic status is not ordinary
Gu Ailing's mother, named Gu Yan, is a typical "super elite woman", after she was admitted to Peking University, she went to Stanford University on her own strength, and also became a member of the Peking University short track speed skating team and ski coach. From Wall Street to Beijing, this kind of tossing and turning is both Gu Yan's ambition and her patriotism.
She worked for Lehman Brothers Investments, handled hundreds of millions of dollars in transactions, and was featured in the Wall Street Journal. A boss on Wall Street has commented that Gu Yan is a person with a patriotic heart and self-determination, both of which have been well taught by Gu Yan to Gu Ailing.
Ailing's father is a Harvard-educated "Google Employee Five" named Ray Sidney. But this white American has clarified that he already had Gu Ailing's presence when he and Gu Yan started dating. But judging from his relationship with Gu Ailing, he is a stepfather even if he is not his own father.
A stepfather who graduated from Harvard can also give Gu Ailing a very good influence on her studies and other aspects. Even if you don't consider the impact of this, just talking about the biological father, it must be very good. After all, the men that excellent Gu Yan can look up to are definitely not ordinary people.
Indeed, the excellent genes given by Gu Yan and Gu Ailing's biological father are part of the reason why Gu Ailing is so excellent, but what really makes Gu Ailing successful is the near-perfect family education and her own efforts given by Gu Yan.
Every time Gu Ailing made a choice, the mother only had suggestions and did not master, and she has always been a bystander and companion on the road of her daughter's growth. Not deliberately influencing the identity of the child, enough respect and freedom, so that Gu Ailing grew into a firm, confident, brave person.
Many people said that Gu Ailing's current heat is suspected of over-hype, such an 18-year-old child, is it necessary to put it on the altar excessively? But in fact, in the eyes of most of Gu Ailing's fans, it is not only herself who is really worth liking, but her thoughts and attitudes.
Gu Ailing mentioned in her speech when she was 12 years old that she hopes to use her experience and voice to make more girls realize that girls can be as strong as boys, which is the value of sports she understands, which is more important than gold medals. Such ideas are actually what countless women pursue and recognize.
There are also many netizens who attribute the main factor of Gu Ailing's success to the family situation, and even said that if everyone has such a family situation, it is not necessarily worse than her. But there are so many rich second generations, the only reason why she can be so sought after is that she is not immersed in the good family situation she already has.
Most of the people who complain that "she was born in Rome" can really have her efforts and persistence when they have her family? Most of the rich second generation can't actually do it. She has the career value she pursues, and will not indulge in good conditions, but motivate herself to become an extreme player.
Too many parents see Gu Ailing's success and begin to feel sorry for other people's children. However, when children see Gu Yan's family education, they often feel the openness and friendliness of "other people's parents". The chicken baby does not chicken itself, which is equivalent to "if you can't fly, you will lay an egg and force the egg to fly."
Parents no longer feel that they have been like a day for many years, can get up in the early morning to make a nutritious meal for their children, give up their own time, and supervise their children to attend tutoring classes every week is hard, this kind of hard work compared to the child's pursuit of full score mathematics, high score composition, in fact, can only be regarded as a boring simple repetition.
Many parents always feel that their children are in trouble and meet people. I don't know how to show myself and express myself, and I do things like an elm. But there are very few children born like this, and most of the reasons why children are so are parents who overly interfere, control and attack.
When children have "wrong" behavior, parents will blindly rebuke children and obedient children for being stupid, which will only make children gradually shut up and only know how to listen to their parents. Over time, how can we be confident? If you want to raise a confident child, you must first be unbeaten.
Teaching by example is more important than words, and what makes Gu Ailing successful is not only the excellent genes of her parents, but also the high-quality family education concept of her mother, and her own enthusiasm and efforts. Parents should know how to respect the diversity of their children's development, rather than "correcting", it is better to create an atmosphere and appropriate guidance.
Today's topic: How do you think about Gu Ailing's family education?