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I have seen such a sentence on the Internet:
"I'm greedy, and if a guy says he likes me, then I'll want to get all his love, protect me, favor me, take care of my emotions in every detail, be nice to me."
Indeed, as a woman, in a relationship, what you want most is preference. Want to be his first choice, his exception, his irreplaceable only.
In fact, if a man cares about you, he will definitely take the initiative to refuse, as long as it makes you feel unhappy or unhappy, he will not do it.
Two people in love, the man who loves you deeply in his heart will often know how to refuse: refuse to let you suffer, refuse to argue with you, refuse to be ambiguous with others.
He chooses you and will try to give you the happiness you want. He will care more about your feelings than anyone else and hope you can live better because of him.
01 Refusing to let you suffer is a kind of heartache
There is a line in the TV series "The Age of Dual Cores":
"Love, from the wind and snow to the chai rice oil and salt, is indispensable to the romance under the moon before the flower, and even less to the number of bank accounts."
Indeed, in the face of real-world problems, we can best witness people's hearts.
If a man says a lot of nice things after falling in love with you, the chat is particularly sweet, but when you really need him, you retreat, watch you suffer, and are unwilling to help.
Well, he doesn't really love you, and being with you is just playing and not giving his heart.
On the contrary, the man who loves you deeply in his heart will take the initiative to pay for you, he may not say a lot of nice words, but he will become your dependence and refuse to let you suffer.
If you are doing well, he will be at ease; but if you are not doing well, he will hurt you.
He will help you when you encounter difficulties in your life; he will take the initiative to share it for you when you encounter financial difficulties.
Because he loves you deeply in his heart, he will refuse to let you suffer and give you a better life.
02 Refuse to argue with you, that is a kind of tolerance
I envy a passage:
"You don't have to be deliberately gentle, you can throw a little tantrum at me, I can give you all my patience, you come over, I will coax you." 」
Indeed, no matter how good a relationship is, it cannot avoid contradictions.
But in fact, it is normal for feelings to contradict each other, but when a contradiction occurs, the attitude of both parties is very important.
The man who loves deeply in his heart will take the initiative to admit his mistake and refuse to argue with you when he has a conflict with you.
Because he is reluctant to make you sad, he is always very patient to coax you, even if it is not his fault, he will take the initiative to ask for peace and apologize to you.
Because he loves you, he can bear it and lower his head.
In the process of getting along with him, you feel full of love and tolerance, he will refuse to argue with you, just want to make you happy, everything depends on you.
03 Refusing to be ambiguous with other people is a kind of care
I like a quote:
"Billions of cosmic stars are hidden in your eyes, the glacier I see in the north is you, the aurora I go south to pursue is you, the prayer flag where I wander in the west is you, and the Buddhist scripture that I went east to take refuge in is also you."
Because he loves you deeply in his heart, he only has you in his eyes, and you are his whole world.
He only likes you, you are his reason for rejecting others, he will only love you alone, actively refuse to be ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex, and only want to give you a full sense of security.
In the process of getting along with him, what you feel is favoritism, pampering, loyalty and single-mindedness.
Deep love for a person is something that cannot be hidden, even if he does not say it, you can feel it from his actions.
If you have a bad life, he will refuse to let you suffer; if there is a conflict, he will refuse to argue with you; if there are other girls nearby, he will refuse to be ambiguous;
Refusing to let you suffer is a kind of heartache; refusing to argue with you is a kind of tolerance; refusing to be ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex is a kind of caring.
If you also meet a man who knows how to "refuse" in this way, then in the future, just rest assured to love, he can do this with such affection, and presumably will not fail you.
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