Now the children's living conditions are better, do not know the hardships of adult life, on the contrary, they are not interested in learning, and they have developed some bad problems. Parent education has little effect, and even resists parents.
Parents are sometimes helpless and can only take some next measures, a child in Huludao, Liaoning Province, has too many bad problems, and his father takes him to kneel on the street and beg for education.
There is a father and son kneeling at the intersection of the snow-covered street, the child wearing a mask, carrying a school bag, holding a plastic basin in his hand, the father points to the child is teaching: not studying well, playing with mobile phones, lying to people. Let your mom get out twice in three days.
The child just silently accepted the father's teachings, and this time the child did not resist, indicating that he had these bad habits, and netizens also had different opinions on the father's way of education.
The witness explained: He just knelt there, and then he kept educating the child, his father took the child out to ask for food, he was not obedient, he grew up to ask for food, this is the meaning, I deeply understand.
In fact, there are many obedient children, and there are many disobedient children, and most children have problems like this. This father's way of education has many parents have experienced, saying that the light is not listening, saying that the child is heavy is to bow his head and not speak or even say bad words, so that the parents are very helpless.
After this matter was exposed, some netizens believed that the education method was very good, and it was even more cruel to the son.
Yes, the father himself also knelt on the ground with his son to accept the punishment, so that the child knows the father's good intentions, proving that the father realizes the truth that "the son does not teach the father's fault", so that the child's understanding is profound, it is very important to teach by example, and now most children do not know that life is not easy.
Children do not eat the pain of learning now, let them experience the suffering of later life! This is also the father's idea and intention, I hope the child can understand.
The education of the father in Liaoning is less than a last resort, and without this next strategy, the child does not know deeply, which belongs to the method of saving lives with a broken arm.
Some netizens left a message: This year's parents are really difficult! Sometimes it feels so hard and heart-wrenching! Deeply felt! Parents have good intentions, maybe the way and method of education are different, if it is not for the child to grow up well in the future, which parent would like the child to suffer this sin?
But some netizens do not recognize this way of education, he believes: a little too much, do not study is not necessarily to go to begging, begging is too comfortable, unearned, experience the hardships of adults, go to work is right.
Some netizens believe that this will hurt children's self-esteem. There are many undesirable methods of discipline that really don't make you kneel on the street.
This child looks like a primary school student, let him experience the hardships of life is not impossible, self-esteem is hurt, will remember the father's intentions deeply, is good for the growth of life, if you can really change, hurt a little self-esteem is also worth it.
Begging is not encouraged, you can lead your child to a place where work is difficult, or take it to the unit, let the child know that life is not easy, but also let the child feel deeply. It is also the responsibility of parents for every family to educate their children well and let their children become the pillars of society.
What do you think about this?