The reason why children are popular is because their little brains always have a lot of strange ideas, so in a family, children are often the source of happiness for everyone.
But do you think their naughtiness is limited to preschool age? In fact, even if the little ones enter the school gates of the primary school, they are still cute "little troublemakers", and the "cultured" primary school students seem to be more unexpected to do things.
For students, in addition to the longest time spent with their families every day, it is the teacher and classmates, especially a few friends who have a good relationship, everyone plays together after class, goes home together after school, and jumps hand in hand, and the picture is very beautiful to think about.
However, elementary school students are still children, they are simple-minded but also love to "turn their faces". When the relationship is good, it is like a person who seems to be inseparable, and when it is not good, the boat of friendship turns over with the "breakdown" of the relationship.
But unlike adults, now children also need a sense of ceremony to "break off sex", and a "letter of disconnection" makes things clear and clear. Even if you don't make friends, you have to pay attention to procedures. So how cute is the "broken sex" of elementary school students?
The "letter of renunciation" of primary school students has become popular, and the content is both cute and real
To say "no sex", if it is an adult, it may most likely take a "cold treatment" approach, so that they and each other will not be embarrassed.
But primary school students are more direct, in the eyes of children, it seems that they are sorry for their determination to "break up" without engaging in a ritual, so the process that must be taken cannot be left behind. Not only to write down the reasons for the break,000 and the context of the break, but also to sign and press their fingerprints on both sides to show that everyone attaches importance to this matter.
For example, the "letter of renunciation" of Fu Xingzhu and Yu Danwei, two primary school students, really gave parents a "lesson".
Only to see the letter of renunciation read: If you fall into the river, I will not save you, I will not help you when I fall on the road, and even you will not come to the wedding funeral later.
What is more interesting is that Fu Xingzhu deeply added a sentence at the back: I don't need your congratulations when I am admitted to college in the future, and I will not visit you when you commit crimes in the future, which can be described as a complete revenge. Even the teacher said after reading it: "Good fellow, the giant wheel of friendship is really heavy!" ”
However, "sign the letter of renunciation and never come back" is not really not to have contact with each other in the future, after all, primary school students are also moody, so some "letters of renunciation" will also be written to leave room.
Children will appear these strange ideas and vocabulary, which are closely related to daily education
★ Influenced by internet thinking
Today, unlike in the past, electronic products are no longer rare in daily life, and the popularity of the Internet has allowed primary school students to contact the outside world prematurely.
However, in the primary school stage, the overall three views of the students have not been fully established, and they do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and will only blindly imitate, such as the existence of the "letter of renunciation" may be affected by some film and television works.
Therefore, the Internet has both advantages and disadvantages for them, parents should be good off, Internet surfing can be, but to have moderation, master the degree.
★ Parents as "reference groups"
Children's ability to imitate is very strong, which can be shown in infancy, and they will continue to imitate the behavior of adults when they grow up.
For example, parents with a milder personality, children are generally more "warm", do not like to lose their temper when things happen, and primary school students like to write "no letters", which may be inseparable from some of the usual practices of parents.
The "post" of parents is not qualified, which can be seen from the performance of children in the process of growth, so in life, parents should also strictly demand themselves and guide their children through the power of example.
★ Behavior at a young age is itself wild
Children are children, and they are not able to have the thinking of adults because they have learned and understood more things than before.
In fact, when people are young, their brain holes are relatively large, and many ideas and behaviors are whimsical and unconstrained. They are natural and frank and will not hide, basically they like to do what they want, although sometimes adults can't understand, but this is the nature of children, so even if they do some strange behavior, it is reasonable.
The giant wheel of student friendship sinks, should parents and teachers interfere?
The "no friendship" between the children, the mood of both sides at that time must have been very angry, so it is normal to say a few "harsh words". However, there are few "bad thoughts" between children, and the "letter of renunciation" may be a ritual, and it may not be long before it is as good as a person.
Therefore, the children's world is not so complicated, they have their own ways and methods to solve problems, parents and teachers should not be too nervous, let alone too interfering.
If several partners can't adjust, or if there is any misunderstanding, adults can help communicate and guide children to finally resolve the conflict on their own. However, most of the time, although the giant wheel of friendship "sinks and sinks", the sails of friends are also "standing on the ground".
epilogue
Entering elementary school, children are truly and independently in the team for the first time, and although kindergarten is also a group life, most of the time they are surrounded by teachers. So in elementary school, children must learn to make friends on their own, but also master the ability to deal with problems.
The same age between students, daily learning and life will inevitably produce friction, it does not matter if you encounter problems, how to resolve them is the key, parents should teach their children how to solve problems independently, rather than randomly intervene.
Things between children let themselves be handled, everyone is from that age, and they must give students more space for themselves.