It is better to teach the son to be as fierce as a wolf than to teach the son to be like a sheep, and the parents collect.

The sentence of the recent fire in the circle is that it is better to teach the son to be as fierce as a wolf than to teach the son to be like a sheep.

Now the social competition is cruel, a little careless, parents are always worried that their children have a low starting point and are easy to be eliminated by the outside world, which is a natural child-protecting mentality.

But I don't think children need to be as fierce as wolves or sheep.

Because it is as fierce as a wolf, the needle is exposed, others do not dare to bully you, and naturally find a way to get rid of you behind your back;

Sheep are like sheep, weak and incompetent, and others will naturally not look up to you and give you good opportunities.

In the final analysis, being a person who knows how to be restrained and measured is the person who is most likely to stand in society.

And if you have a boy in your family, ask Mom and Dad to teach him to be a man!

01

Game education

Follow your child's instincts and play!

Smart parents don't turn their children into nerds who can only read.

Children have their own nature, in his childhood stage, the most needed is not to study, but to feel the outside world happily.

Boys, in particular, are a little wilder! Man a little!

Sometimes, you can learn knowledge by playing, so why not?

There was a mother who saw her son being naughty and liked to reach out and pick the roses of the neighbor's house.

The mother took her son to the flower shop and asked her son to pick his favorite plant seedlings and experience the fun of planting.

The child bought small kumquat seeds and went home to plant them.

Every day after the child finished learning, he watered the small kumquat, observed the growth, and made some small records.

Later, the little kumquat really bore several fruits, and the child learned plant knowledge, experienced the joy of labor, and enjoyed the fruits of labor.

Importantly, children also began to like to read books about plants, since then the child mentioned plants, even the head is the Tao, more than adults understand, the surrounding peers are regarded as "plant master", more spirited!

Mothers can also take their children out on outings, let him go to the beach to collect shells, play with sand piles, or run happily in the playground.

The child is happy outside, naturally feel comfortable, the temperament has become cheerful, and there will never be any personality problems that will bother parents in the future.

02

Life education encourages children to give more

Mom and Dad should dare to "use" boys and not hold boys in the palm of their hands.

Occasionally showing weakness to the little boy, but it can stimulate his great energy!

Manhood regardless of age, should know how to protect people weaker than him, help people in need, this is a positive energy person.

If Mom and Dad are reluctant to let the boy do things, then he will naturally become delicate and will not think about others. If the child does not open up a big pattern in the growth stage, it is inevitable to be careful in the future, and even be afraid to do things.

At the end of the day, it's a good thing to encourage boys to give more.

A person can feel his worth when he is needed and paid for others.

Boys can easily find themselves with more responsibilities and more energy than girls.

So Mom and Dad can occasionally show weakness to him, ask him to help with housework, buy things, pour water... And praised his performance.

Slowly, children become aware of their importance in the family.

This helpful character will also follow him to school, to society, and become a really good man!

03

Character teaches manhood to be strong and brave

In the child's growth stage, do not over-satisfy the child, let the child try to make a certain effort.

Too easy to get, the result will cause the child to lose interest in the process of exploration, and this process of exploration is the child's best growth.

In fact, cultivating a child's strong and brave character is the treasure contained in his life, and his parents are the ones who inspire him and give him the opportunity to release his precious character.

If you can, take your kids to the amusement park to try to conquer the huge toys, bravely explore unfamiliar caves and towering bridges, participate in confrontational sports such as football and basketball...

These can be very good for him to experience the fun and pleasure of competition.

When these actions have become his habits, this strong and brave character will also make the child face life and school positively.

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Contrarian business education allows children to face setbacks

"Contrarian quotient" is the way people react in the face of adversity, that is, the ability to face setbacks, get out of difficulties and transcend difficulties.

When children encounter failures and setbacks, the most effective and thorough way to get rid of negative and frustrated negative emotions as soon as possible is to cultivate their positive thinking, so that they know how to affirm themselves in daily life, that is, to let children learn "reverse quotient".

For example, if a child participates in a sports competition and wins the last place, his parents can say: "Although it is the last place, but you persevere is the winner, and your parents are really happy for you!" ”

This practice will make the child feel trusted and secure, and motivate him to continue to work hard next time.

If Mom and Dad say, "How do you do it, don't take part in the competition if you're so stupid!" ”

Then the child may avoid this movement and will not participate in it from now on.

Parents must not skimp on your affirmation and evaluation of him, and know that your behavior determines his habits.

Pick up the setbacks and pile them up as stepping stones on the child's growth path, and the child will slowly avoid mistakes and regain good results and good results.

These are the children's gradual accumulation of "reverse quotient ability", please parents do not because of the child's frustration, categorically block the possibility of the next time.