Love will make us lose our minds and make us look like ourselves. When we encounter love, even if we righteously say that we will definitely not be affected by love, we will often be affected by love in some inadvertent moments.
Seneca also said: "Not being able to get rid of it is one of the sources of suffering in life, especially in love." ”
A man, even if he behaves very mature and stable in front of outsiders, will become very naïve in love. Even sometimes, men lose their minds and have difficulty controlling themselves in some behaviors. This runaway performance is not active by men, but it is irrepressible, and many times, they may not realize it themselves.
After falling in love with someone, we seem to be controlled by a magic power and cannot extricate ourselves. When you can't see each other, you will miss each other madly, and you will want to see each other quickly to relieve the pain of lovesickness. With love in your heart, you can't avoid these lovesicks. As Molière said, "If you don't harm lovesickness, happiness will not be your share." Drive love out of life, and you drive out joy. Smooth love, in fact, is tasteless. ”
The more a man misses a woman, the more difficult it is to control himself in some behaviors, resulting in some out-of-control behaviors, making him look less like himself and less mature and stable than before.
Women should understand that when a man shows these out-of-control performances, it is often when he misses you very much.
01 Pestering you and wanting to talk to you all the time.
Plato said: "When love taps on the shoulder, even men who usually disdain poetry become poets." ”
When a man loves a woman very much, he sometimes becomes very childish and shows a very unusual side. Some men are originally very rational and mature, but in front of the women they like, they will also spoil and show their cute side.
Love can make men very stupid, and this stupidity does not refer to IQ, but in front of women, they can be very relaxed, without being cautious about anything. Even if it may be ugly, men will not worry, and being able to make women happy is the most important thing.
When missing a woman, men don't have to keep a very rational look at all times. He misses you, and naturally he will tell you in his way, without hiding anything, nor will he deliberately hide this lovesickness.
When he misses you very much, he will not restrain himself. He'll keep pestering you and chatting with you all the time. Even if he talks about some small things in life, he will feel very happy and satisfied. As long as he is with you, his heart is joyful.
02 Flip through your photos, your circle of friends, and everything about you.
When a man misses a woman, his heart is full of this woman, and in his mind, it is all the memories of two people. As the man reminisced, he couldn't help but look through some photos from the past.
Just looking at your picture, his heart will feel very happy, as if you are around. Seeing your smile, his heart is healed, and the pain of this lovesickness can be alleviated.
The more he misses you, the more he can't help but look through everything about you. Maybe some object, or a photo, or your circle of friends. As long as it is a trace left by you, he is reluctant to miss it. Even if he can't see you, this way can make him feel more happy.
In the eyes of others, a man will definitely appear childish when he behaves like this, but for men, this is some manifestation of missing a woman and not being able to control himself. Even if others say that it is childish, he feels that it does not matter, after all, for him, love is much more important than the eyes of others.
03 Let go of everything you have to find you, not afraid of hard work.
Joe Byron said, "Joy and pain in love alternate." ”
Falling in love with someone is sometimes very happy, but sometimes you will feel this pain. Maybe it's love but can't, maybe it's love but can't see each other, maybe it's insecurity.
Whatever the reason, since we are in love, we can only accept it all. Just like when a man is deeply in love with a woman, even if he can't see a woman all the time, he has to bear the pain of this lovesickness. When missing a woman, men can only use their own ways to alleviate this pain.
In love, men sometimes have some out-of-control behavior, even if he himself will be surprised, but he can't do anything in the face of love.
It's like when some men miss women very much, they tend to be not afraid of hard work, let go of everything they have to go to each other's side. The moment you see each other, all the hard work in the process is worth it.
Women should know that a man is willing to put down and go to you together, even if he has experienced some hardship, he will not be afraid, which means that he really misses you, and these out-of-control behaviors will occur.
In the eyes of others, such behavior is very childish, and even a little silly, but for men, for the sake of the people they love, it is worth doing these things. Many things, no matter how difficult, as long as you see the person you miss in your heart, it is the most romantic and happiest thing.
Voltaire said: "The noble element of love is no less than the element of tenderness, the power to make people upward is no less than the power to make people wither, and sometimes it can inspire other virtues." ”
When a man misses a woman, those out-of-control behaviors are often triggered by love. Only when a man loves you very much will they let go of their maturity and sanity and let their behavior be dominated by love.
The fact that a man will treat you this way is enough to show that in his heart, your position is very important. And he is willing to change because of you.