If we want to divide a person's life, it can be roughly divided into three stages.
The first stage is, the period of human childhood. According to a large number of factual studies, it is proved that a person's childhood has a profound impact on the formation of his character, character and the growth of later life. The second stage is, adolescence. This period is the most important period for a person to form a person's outlook on life, values, and worldview. The third stage is, middle age. This is a period of old age and small period, which directly affects the second half of your life.
From a brief analysis of these three stages, we can see that childhood is the most crucial stage in a person's life. Parents should therefore pay extra attention to educating their children during their childhood. In the education of children, we can also be roughly divided into three parts.
Part I: Love and Encouragement
According to relevant psychological studies, our perception of ourselves depends largely on what others think and evaluate of ourselves. For example, if we tell a joke that makes the other person laugh, and the other person praises and says, "You are such a humorous and fun person," then we will be confident in our ability to tell jokes. That's what encouragement does, and encouragement gives children confidence and courage.
Love is the level of care you have for your child and the sense of security you give your child. For example, when the child is sick, you take good care of him, when the child needs you to accompany him, you are by his side, when the child encounters difficulties, you help him, and so on are all manifestations of loving him.
Children who grow up with love and encouragement will have a very obvious characteristic, that is, cheerful and lively. For example, huo Siyan and Du Jiang's son, who are well known to the public: hmmm. From the parent-child program "Where Daddy Goes", we can clearly see the lively and sunny atmosphere on Hum's body. This is the power of love and encouragement.
Part II: Let the child learn to persevere
Persistence is a very rare and valuable thing, and it is also a very good quality.
We all know that ancient Greece had a very famous philosopher named Plato. Plato was not only a philosopher, he was also a great thinker and educator. His teacher Socrates, when he was teaching Plato and his disciples, gave them such a homework that his disciples did one thing and threw their hands a hundred times a day.
A week later, Socrates asked how many people were still doing it, and one percent of them raised their hands. A month later, Socrates asked again, and only half the men raised their hands. A year later, when Socrates asked this question again, there was only one man left to raise his hand, and that person was Plato.
It's easy to stick to it, but it's hard to actually do it. Therefore, most parents choose to start from the child's interests and hobbies to cultivate children to learn to persevere.
However, in this era of rapid development, it is very expensive to cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and more energy is needed to accompany children to participate in interest classes, so you can't help but work. But work and spending time with children cannot be juggled at the same time.
This has become a distress for most parents. However, with the development of science and technology, the network is becoming more and more developed, and the coverage of the network is becoming more and more extensive, which has also led to the development of online education.
Nowadays, there are many online art 1-to-1 education platforms, which can help children cultivate hobbies and interests while saving valuable time for parents, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Part III: Let the child learn to be self-reliant
In the child's life, the time that parents can accompany the child is only a dozen or so, and the child's subsequent life needs to be faced by themselves. Therefore, in the process of educating children, it is essential to teach them to be self-reliant.
There is such a small story;
The little snail asked its mother one day: Why do we have to carry this hard and heavy shell from birth? Mom replied: Because our body has no bone support, we can only climb, and we can't climb fast. So there has to be this shell. The little snail said again: The caterpillar sister has no bones and can't climb fast, so why doesn't she have to carry this hard and heavy shell? Mom said: Because the caterpillar sister can turn into a butterfly, there is a sky to protect her. The little snail asked doubtfully: But the earthworm brother has no bones, it can't climb fast, and it won't turn into a butterfly, so why doesn't he have this hard and heavy shell? Mom said, "Because the earthworm brother can drill the soil, and the earth will protect him." The little snail cried bitterly: Why don't we have any protection? No sky protection, no earth protection, it's not fair! The mother snail comforted him: "That's why we have a shell!" We do not rely on heaven or earth, we can survive on our own feet in the world.
Therefore, in the education of children, in addition to giving them love and encouragement, we must also let them have good qualities and have independent skills. Only in this way can they have a complete and independent personality, so that they can have the courage to taste all kinds of life, to enjoy life, and to have happiness.