"They all blame me for not being good, it's because I didn't look after my daughter, if I hadn't let her play alone at the door, my daughter wouldn't have been hit on the head by the neighbor's firewood because of an accident, and I killed her for a lifetime." I can never forgive myself, I just hope to bring my daughter home healthy and give me a chance to atone for my sins.... In a hospital in Chuxiong City, Yunnan Province, Chen Shanqing sat in front of the hospital bed and watched her daughter Chen Hong silently shed tears. The picture shows Chen Shanqing and his daughter Honghong.
Chen Hong was born in July 2005 in a small mountain village in Chuxiong City, Yunnan Province. Honghong's birth has brought countless joys and laughter to the family, and her mother Chen Shanqing is even more fond of this daughter, holding her daughter every day, how to see it is not enough. The family lived happily in this way, but an accident broke the originally quiet and happy life of this small family. The picture is red and red.
Honghong 1 and a half years old has learned to walk, the mother Chen Shanqing in the yard to play with her daughter, she suddenly went back to the house to get something, thinking that she will be able to come back soon, she did not hold her daughter. But as soon as she arrived at the house, she heard a scream from her daughter outside, and Chen Shanqing rushed out of the house to find that Honghong had been hit on the head by the wooden sticks rolling down the firewood pile of relatives' houses, and the child's entire head was stained red with blood and had lost consciousness. Chen Shanqing felt that the sky had collapsed in an instant, and he picked up his daughter and ran to the hospital. The picture shows Chen Shanqing who regrets it so far.
On the way to the hospital, Honghong lay in Chen Shanqing's arms and gradually stopped crying, began to fall into a coma, let Chen Shanqing how to scream and could not wake up, frightened her hand constantly touching her daughter's small face, the voice also began to tremble: "Good daughter wake up, promise her mother to stand up for a while, don't sleep well?" Even if your mother begs you, your mother can't lose you. Chen Shanqing was anxious to hold her daughter in the car, and finally arrived at the hospital after 1 hour. The picture shows Chen Shanqing reading to her daughter Honghong.
As soon as she arrived at the hospital, Honghong was pushed into the rescue room, and because Honghong's skull was ruptured, craniotomy was required. The family anxiously guarded outside the ward for 3 days, waiting from dawn to dark, not daring to close their eyes for a minute to rest, for fear of missing the news of the child. Finally, when the news of the successful end of the operation was finally reached, Honghong saved her life. However, the family also waited for a news that made them despair, Honghong was seriously injured in the brain, resulting in paralysis of her left limb, may not be able to walk, even intelligence will be affected, a lifetime of need to be taken care of, can only be transferred to the hospital to continue treatment. The picture shows Chen Shanqing taking care of her daughter.
"How can this be? A good child was ruined because of my momentary negligence, how could I not look after the child and let her have an accident? They all blame me, they all blame me. Chen Shanqing listened to the doctor's words and constantly beat her chest with her hand and scolded herself loudly, but it was an irreparable fact that Honghong had an accident, and she could only bear the sadness to take her daughter home first. The picture shows Chen Shanqing helping her daughter Honghong wear shoes.
This treatment has left Chen Shanqing's whole family in debt, and she has no money to take her daughter to the hospital for treatment, which makes her worried. But soon, that fear became a reality. Chen Shanqing found that as he grew older, Honghong's left arm gradually became unable to lift or bend, the fingers of his left hand were always bent and could not be straightened, and the left leg did not have any strength to stand, and his speech was also vague. Even the child's two legs are obviously thick on one side and thin on the other. The picture shows Red Red receiving treatment.
Chen Shanqing watched her daughter's changes more and more guilty, she was not willing to let her daughter go on like this for a lifetime, she began to think of ways to exercise with her daughter, grabbed her arm a little bit of activity massage, held her daughter's small hand with her big hand to guide her daughter's finger movement with her strength, stretched her legs every day, and massaged hard for several hours. In order to let her daughter speak clearly and her intelligence not be affected, Chen Shanqing will also read some stories that she is interested in to her daughter every day, and patiently guide her daughter to read them word by word. The picture shows the redness in the treatment.
Kung Fu pays off, at Chen Shanqing's insistence, Honghong can actually clearly say a few words, and even Honghong can slowly walk a few steps with the adult's hand, and the left leg can move slightly. Once Chen Shanqing found that her daughter talked more and was happier and livelier when she was with other children, in order to better maintain her daughter's illness, Chen Shanqing insisted on letting her daughter go to school despite the opposition of her family. "I don't expect her to learn anything, as long as she can take care of myself, I'm content." Chen Shanqing said helplessly. The picture shows Chen Shanqing teaching his daughter to read the picture.
Honghong also did not live up to Chen Shanqing's painstaking heart, she was particularly well-behaved and sensible in class, although she did not understand the content of the teacher's lectures most of the time, she always listened carefully. Since going to school, the smile on her red face has increased. However, just when everything was moving in a good direction, bad luck struck again.
Once, Honghong suddenly had convulsive symptoms when she was in school, and when Chen Shanqing received a call to send her daughter to the hospital for examination, she did not expect that Honghong was found to have epilepsy again and needed to take medicine all the time to control her condition. Chen Shanqing was desperate when he heard this result: "My daughter's life is bitter enough, why is God still unwilling to let her go, even if I am sick, it is better than my daughter's illness." This experience made Chen Shanqing understand that only by going to the hospital can her daughter be treated, otherwise her daughter's condition will deteriorate more and more severely. The picture shows Chen Shanqing assisting her daughter Honghong in treatment.
Because Honghong's condition is too serious, there is a possibility of illness at any time, Chen Shanqing in order to better take care of her daughter, but also in order to earn some medical expenses for her daughter to go to the hospital as soon as possible for treatment. I found a job as a dishwasher in the school, and I can earn 1400 yuan a month. After sending her daughter to school every morning, she went to the canteen to wash the plates, and she could take care of her daughter at noon and continue to brush the plates in the afternoon. The long-term fatigue made Chen Shanqing's waist unable to stand up straight, and her arms were so sore that she couldn't even hold the chopsticks steadily, but as long as she saw her daughter's smile on her face, she felt that everything was worth it. The picture shows Chen Shanqing worried about the cost of her daughter's treatment.
However, because Honghong has not been able to receive formal treatment, the gap between the thickness of her two legs has become more and more obvious, Chen Shanqing can no longer wait, she began to take her daughter around to seek medical treatment, when she has money, she will take her daughter to the hospital for a few days of rehabilitation treatment, and when she has no money, she will return to school to continue working. However, the cost of treatment is high, and only a few days of treatment can be done every month, which has little effect on the red and red disease. In order for her daughter to stay in the hospital for a few more days, she could only keep borrowing money, because she owed more and more money, and in the end, her relatives and friends were reluctant to lend her again. The picture shows Chen Shanqing tutoring her daughter Honghong to write.
Although For many years Honghong could only do the treatment intermittently, but now she can stand against the wall and even walk a few steps forward. What makes Chen Shanqing even happier is that her daughter can already speak, although she can only say a few words, it is not very clear, but it has made Chen Shanqing see hope. "If my daughter can continue to do rehabilitation, she will definitely recover better." Chen Shanqing said reproachfully.
But the high cost of treatment for her daughter is always a hurdle that she can't get over. The husband was confined to farming at home because of her poor health, and her meager salary alone could not afford her daughter's treatment. Chen Shanqing was once heartbroken and could not see a little hope, and often secretly shed tears in the middle of the night. However, whenever Honghong sensibly wiped the tears from her face and hugged her comfortingly, Chen Shanqing couldn't help but give up. The picture shows Red Red receiving treatment.
"My daughter was an accident because I didn't take good care of me, and even if I was miserable, I would always insist on taking my daughter to treatment." However, it was easier said than done, and without money was the biggest difficulty for Chen Shanqing, and she really had no other way. The picture shows Chen Shanqing helping her daughter comb her hair red. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Photography Headlines ##图片故事 #